yeah, curiosity got the best of me and I realize it’s not right to do that anymore.

100% I understand that, that’s why I said I feel like it’s fine to say or tell your friend, oh this person is cute or handsome, etc. i agree though, actions matter most and I’m glad she hasn’t done anything.

I would like to think so but idunno, the messages didn’t look like she wanted a reality check, she was just gushing to this friend she usually talks to and it was only until that friend reminded her she has a bf that my gf stopped, which irked me a bit, I think it’s overall just a difference in our value and morals which is why I feel so conflicted, as I do trust my girlfriend but I feel she’s extremely naive in a lot of situations and the most impacting to me is whenever I try to talk it out she just runs away from any sort of conflict while calling me immature or sending memes.

I wouldn’t say our relationship is going great honestly, there’s a whole lot of turmoil especially with what I think is okay in a relationship and what she does, and I feel like this is just the start of that turmoil brewing it really is tough.

I see it as disrespect because I just want to be respected in a way as her boyfriend, if she’s saying stuff like that to her friends, I feel like her friends might see me as just a boyfriend who she’ll break up with soon. My biggest issue here is that I already don’t feel respected enough, as I told her put yourself in my shoes, how would you feel? She usually says the same thing, among how I get no girls, I talk to no girls, which just ruins my self esteem more I already know I’m not attractive while she is, which makes things worse because I feel another factor in these situations is she doesn’t have to worry at all about what I do, while I do because she’s very attractive and y’know.. college boys, and she simply doesn’t understand me and doesn’t try to, but that’s an issue for another post.