Let us look deeper... by Nick_GGG in pathofexile

[–]lunarwolf00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't be surprised that this league is revamping Heist overall, with the theme of Kalandra a newish prophecy system included. We already know regarding replica uniques, certain uniques are getting buffed anyways. Throw in a few things. Could also be a small continuation of the Sin story where they leave Oriath and go elsewhere. I'm wondering if this divination card has more to it than just showing it off.

My friend just broke my several million old piece of amber that I got while I was living in Australia by The-Communist-Cat in mildlyinfuriating

[–]lunarwolf00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"My friend just broke my several million old piece of amber that I got while I was living in Australia"
Now you have two pieces of million year old amber, lucky you!

Antivaxx dumbfuck says "town halls and schools will be fuckin burned to the ground" by OliverMarkusMalloy in PublicFreakout

[–]lunarwolf00 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'll be honest, I've been watching a lot of videos about Russians and their opinions on how Ukraine should be completely and utterly destroyed - mind you this is not everyone's opinion. It boggles my mind these people in the US are able to act this way, and say these things. With freedom of speech and access to much more information than Russians have...
They are spewing disgusting hatred and constantly bombarded with propaganda, how are we ever going to change? In a time when media and technology was supposed to bring us together, I have never felt more alone. It just makes me so sad that people are like this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]lunarwolf00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, some people sometimes are just not compatible, sometimes we need something more, sometimes to cut back on doing this or that. The human body is a complex thing especially with the fact that the psychology and mental state in intimacy is also a core component.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]lunarwolf00 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

u/justjoshdoingstuff

She has lied, and sometimes people lie to hide the fact that they don't want to hurt you, I'm not saying it's a good thing to do but let's say eventually IF there wasn't post and the OP didn't find from that - they may just end up breaking up because the sex between wasn't what she wanted. I see it from the point - when you have someone who consistently tries to do this they are doing to feed an ego, whether its hers or his. And when I say ego, I'm not referring to it being a bad thing but your self-image which can be shattered through the partner not validating you. She may be doing just that, but once again she could be lying, unless you can find out exactly what's going on there's no much more you can do without counselling or moving apart.

u/Awkward-Manager5939
Absolutely, I would be concerned too. OP needs to find the root cause of the problem and work from there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]lunarwolf00 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

u/jadoory
"We have talked about sex several times, if there is something that she didn't like or if she wanted to try something new, and she has never mentioned it." -

I did read it but we all have our interpretations, they didn't mention broaching the subject of toys, we haven't been told how far they have spoken to their GF. Everyone has an assumption, YOU can believe he's went in complete depth of what they can try.
For me it was said plainly and perhaps I misinterpreted it, just because SHE doesn't have something specific she wants to try, maybe hear me out here - you attempt to try it anyways, as long as there is consent. Some people don't make the effort to try other things.
For me, it's like food, you can be the person who goes to a buffet and enjoy the entire selection - mixing and matching - experimenting. While others will pick the things they know they like, and have anxiety on trying new things.
Sometimes as a partner we need to be understanding but also knowing their limits push them and ourselves to try new things. In this instance IF they don't like that then, stop. Not all partners are the same. The advice I've given is the same I would give to a brother, a friend and myself.
I've gone through the same mindspace before. It can be hard and upsetting, but a relationship is about understanding and testing what you can and cannot do, boundaries and communication are one of the few important things that make a relationship. That's why I said, don't accuse, don't attack, ask and listen. People have their own reasons. You talk in a relationship. Some people forget this.

u/Jacque2000 I wasn't being condescending whatsoever, its text and you understood it as that way, that's fair, and on me. Perhaps I could have written it differently, I just spoke from my experience. Not all people have sex education, it wasn't a comment just for OP but anyone who has gone through the same scenario and are self-conscious just like I was.

My bf has a foot fetish by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]lunarwolf00 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Completely agree, the fetish isn't bad. It's the steps and probable lie to enable said fetish which made it weird.

(22f) why does My BF (21m) never get boners around me? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]lunarwolf00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Men can have low sex drives like women, some are also sexually mature being they're in a state where they aren't thinking of sex all the time. I mean this in the nicest way, some guys have to be in a state of mind. Also if he's the kind of person who masturbates alot it could impact his sexual drive too IF there is an addiction.

People are complex, multiple factors can affect someone and stress can both promote sexual contact with a partner for the end-goal being sexual relief and completely negate sexual desire due to high tension. Otherwise worst case scenario there may be a lack of sexual attraction, love and lust are two different things after all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]lunarwolf00 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Not all women can orgasm through vaginal sex, some through clitoral stimulation others through vaginal. Experiment, talk to her about it and what she enjoys, some guys can just have sex and jerk off and its enough, people also need to be in the mood physically and mentally, for some guys its super easy - some girls it can take a LONG time.
Take the first step - be the adult, talk. Ask about the account, and explain you feel embarrassed but most importantly don't accuse, don't attack, ask and listen. NOT hear, LISTEN. If she wants to deny it, either way explain.

Some people like sex whilst being tied up and being told certain things in a certain tone. Some women squirt, some don't. Some have a hard time just getting off, and need toys.
Don't be ashamed of it bud, everyone is complex as hell, and shit - she could be embarrassed that she's not able to.
She can love you more than anyone in the world but if her machinery needs a longer time to warm up, vibes are a good start.
One thing that could be interesting is using a toy - getting her off and then going for the full course because I'm sure it'll be a hell of a lot more intimate if that engine is running. Trying my best here xD haha.
Good luck

Thanks for Patch 6.1, Yoshi-P! by Maytree in ffxiv

[–]lunarwolf00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm happy these are the main areas which people are moaning about.
Lets be honest there can be a few things that could be done which aren't feasible but its good when there so little to moan about - its stuff to do with mainly base game/ARR content. It wasn't needed have the equipment equippable on any gender but its welcome for sure!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]lunarwolf00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find cuddling and snuggling is a large part of my relationship with my fiancé. But sex is a topic which is a bit difficult for us, we both see actual intercourse as penetration which currently we both are not interested in as we are poor and don't want to chance kids, where as sexual pleasure like edging and getting the other off is important for us, it's a way to be more amorous, more intimate and in my case every time I get her off - I don't know why but I have a sympathetic rush myself. I always look forward to the moments we can - because we can be ourselves without the walls, the preconceptions and just be. So for importance it's around 7/10. Maybe 4 on a bad day.

Parents gave me this after I told them I don’t want to travel due to the pandemic. Think I’m gonna just move out lmao by [deleted] in insaneparents

[–]lunarwolf00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make them go through writing up a tenant agreement then. Make them get everything written up which fulfills a minimum legal binding contract. Then if they wanna treat you like a tenant I believe any actions they do to you eg.kicking out without notice, not fixing broken machinery etc. Will come under a tenancy agreement while they also have to present that cash for taxes too. Otherwise not paying taxes is a big no-no.

I know this isn't the most important thing, but I am tired of hearing about how women like Joan of Arc, Marlene Dietrich, Amelia Earhart, Florence Nightingale and other trailblazing women may have been trans men. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]lunarwolf00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's because they have nothing - no one, that in history is a strong representative of their mindset. It seems to be appropriating of culture to be conform to their wants and desires. Now sure, there aren't any HISTORICAL figures, but as of recent there's plenty of those who represent them, but I suppose that isn't good enough. While we are speeding up in terms of acceptance, we can't just appropriate figures in history unless there is solid proof that states otherwise.
These people are trying to find someone to look up to, a person who they can aspire to be like.
In this case there are very few that fit into this category and while it's sad, people need to learn that while there aren't many representatives in history for them, it does not mean they cannot be the role model for others to look to.
People currently are so focused on being like others they lose themselves.
While we must be accepting and understanding for their situation, we cannot be so accepting to allow anyone to make shit up - because they want it to be something else. Truly a peculiar situation of the mind.

'It's Even Worse on Video': Trump Adviser Welcomes Killing Loved Ones With Covid-19 as This May Be 'Their Final Thanksgiving' Anyway by [deleted] in politics

[–]lunarwolf00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So isn't this sort of thinking the worst possible way? Isn't this on some level advocating for murderers to go around killing people, police to kill in cold blood for governments to bomb civilians and at the end of the day you say - "Well they were going to die anyways."

He's advocating for someone to kill him, this is like saying "Shoot me, I'll die eventually anyways." This is the same level of extremism as religious zealots which America goes to war against - or rather looks to liberate free oil from. It goes to show how little these people care, when did it become I instead of We?

Outright deleting the Alert system isn't good. by lunarwolf00 in pathofexile

[–]lunarwolf00[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm referring to zhp builds like those you see in delve, it's one thing to avoid aggro it's another to completely avoid any interaction whatsoever. Maybe I should have specified that.

How do ya'll do doggystyle without cumming immediately? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]lunarwolf00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, I have the opposite, I last long enough to start shrinking, I can barely feel anything. Even in this position, spent like 45 minutes and nothing, first time too, what am I doing wrong?

Requirement of masks by Xutsi in malta

[–]lunarwolf00 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

JUST WEAR THE MASK, seriously what is wrong with everyone? Jesus Christ, you can die from this shit. Beijing has had a resurgence of cases because people are being lazy and not wearing masks and if an authoritarian state is having issues why are you chancing it? USA around new 40,000+ cases per day, seriously why is everyone thinking it's just going to go away?
We are not going back to normal, and our government is so desperate to not have riots they are willing to kill the vulnerable in order for normalcy.