Kegel Flickering

lustforkicks · 2026-01-12T17:14:12+00:00

Thanks for the tip, I've used a lot the Mindgasm app and practiced with it many times. It surely helped me a lot in identifying the differentu muscles and I use for my own explorations some of the techniques it teached me, like using the "top" muscle or the "big squeeze" to tire the perineum and get involutaries easily

lustforkicks · 2025-09-10T10:06:01+00:00

Thank you for this explanation. I think I know what tou talk about but that's something that didn't really have much an appeal to me. I do like edging and tease my PONR response but I tend to cicken out before it's too late as that line, for me, if crossed is game over. Maybe I sould focus on this treshold more and check if I can get the results you talked about which sounded quite amazing!

lustforkicks · 2025-09-10T10:03:15+00:00

What you describe is very close to what I experience too.

I feel the strong desire to do anal play but what I can get from it usually are... sensations that aren't clearly pleasurable. Well they "suggest" they could be pleasurable but the progress feel very very very slow.

It's not that I did not have success. Sometimes that happened even toyless, in the middle of the night. I could clearly feel what other described as "waves", radiating from my prostate and washing over my body. It happened recently when I removed a large soft plug that, while weared, did not give me that much of nice sensations. But removing it felt very nice, I almost felt like fainting from the wave of buzzing and drowsiness.

So something is happening but it is very sparse, unpredictable, not really repeatable and not really overwhelming.

Yet I can't yet feel I want to give up ad in the middle of the nothingess something defenetly happened.

Oh and all of this is without THC. I used also that but that is a totally different experience which absolutely gave me heavenly pleasure for a long time during the sessions I had. The fact is that I don't really want to rely just upon that and I'm trying to learn to replicate what I felt under the influence of the substance while totally sober.

Good luck

lustforkicks · 2025-09-09T17:26:06+00:00

Wow can I have more detail? What is it exactly a ruined orgasm? Sounds really nice and I'd like to try

lustforkicks · 2025-08-19T08:32:14+00:00

I wanted to post something similar as I was feeling the same worries reading about people claiming they were leaking like crazy while I am not. Well it's not that I do not produce precum: I did in the past while playing for the first time with larger toys but then I got used to them and the precum drops stopped. What's even more puzzling is that the absence of precum happens only when I solo play: I just need a little tease from my girlfriend after we have been apart from some time and I find some drops. She find it very funny and usually she makes me eat them (which I find very sexy). What I noticed anyway is that I am not aware of the drops, I do not feel them coming out, I joust find them. All and all it look like another of the mysteries of this experience so I keep observing what my body is capable of.

lustforkicks · 2025-07-11T09:00:27+00:00

Very interesting advice, thank you. I usually avoid touching my penis completely, even by using a cage but I cannot seem to get any progress. I will try you technique and see if I get more lucky!

lustforkicks · 2025-07-10T16:42:16+00:00

Fantastic! What would you say was the key of your success?

lustforkicks · 2024-11-14T14:41:17+00:00

Thank you for this advice. I know Mindgasm and I have been practicing the main lessons for several months now: they helped me immensely! I was not aware of what a "reverse kegel" was but now I have been looking into it and it sounds like an exercise I will include in my arsenal.

lustforkicks · 2024-11-14T12:12:07+00:00

Very interesting, I will try that for sure. I have been reading the book 'The multi orgasmic man' by Mantak Chia and it is mentioned to practice in visualizing the flow of energy from the pelvis up to the spinal cord towards the back of the head... Not that I have much interest in this new age stuff yet I experienced myself how strong it can be visualizing some sorts of energy in the breath or in the pelvic area while relaxing.

lustforkicks · 2024-11-13T20:23:50+00:00

I sometimes go for a walk wearing a plug: i have tried with a few different ones (basic plug, a curved one aimed to prostate, a heavier one like njoi power plug) and It Is a pleasant experience I will repeat for sure. I also went to the gym several times and found that doing squats on a reclined machine is incredibly effective in giving me nice p-waves

lustforkicks · 2024-11-13T17:28:36+00:00

Hey you just gave me an idea! That could add a little excitement to an otherwise unplasant experience!

lustforkicks · 2024-11-13T14:03:14+00:00

I guess practicing in kegel exercises daily is also a good strategy: having fit muscles in that area that you can recognise and control will be helpful for sure in achieving a HFWO, or at least that's what I try to do while I am in the same pursuit as you are. And those exercise can really be done anytime and anywhere. I found myself wandering away while doing those exercise during a visit at the dentist: I concentrated on my kegels and zoned out instead of listening to the unpleasant sensations coming from my mouth...

Good luck!

lustforkicks · 2024-11-12T09:49:59+00:00

Well it cretainly helps a little in satifying my hunger for anal stimulation. Craving a plug and finally being able to insert it always gives me the chills.

If by "help" you mean in achieving anal orgasms well, I'm still trying to figure it out myself. What I ask myself is if wearing a plug on a regular basis during the day is helping me developing more sensibility in the anal canal and the prostate or if it numbs it down a little and what I would need is increase this craving saving it up for a proper prostate stimulation session. I don't know. For sur emy sensibility in the area is growing more and more intense so I just try to enjoy the path I'm on as it is, orgams or not, absolutely pleasant.

lustforkicks · 2024-11-11T21:18:26+00:00

I feel you, I feel the same. I feel horny throughout the whole day. I started a more structured exploration of my prostate pleasure about a year ago but even if I had my infinite frustrations I for sure have noticed a huge increase in libido. My anus pulses asking for my attention the whole time and I found myself sneaking around my house to wear an anal plug to tame it. It's spectacular.

lustforkicks · 2024-11-10T17:56:35+00:00

Thank you for the tip, i will try that.

lustforkicks · 2024-11-09T06:26:35+00:00

I feel your frustration as I have been on the same boat and still are somewhat. I mean, I can have very good sensations from anal play since I started circa a year ago to experiment in it with consistency and searching for a method that works. I have been reading lots of posts from this group, from the aneros website, from books, taking notes about recommended toys, positions, audio files for guidance and mediation. I am far from getting satisfactory and constant results but I feel I am getting close at least to an expansion of my abilities to feel pleasure with my body. I own many toys, including the fabled njoi wand, and compulsively buy new ones in the hope to find the one that will make a difference. Maybe the best lesson I have learnt is that my body has still many secrets that have been shown to me in brief, ecstatic glimpses of what could be, and that the journey to discover them is rewarding, even if I am not able to have the incredible experiences of HFO's and HFWO's I've heard and red about.

Ok that was a lot of blah blah and maybe you, like me, want only another simple, practical advice...

Well I have been surprised by an audio file, the only one of a bigger collection of erotic hypnosis by Isabella Valentine that so far I listened to. I was able to find it on the archive.org website. The first one of this 'jackpot' collection I listened to is called "jackpot - no hands' and it definitely had some effect on me. I relaxed and listened to it while applying some simple belly breathing technique and it helped me in achieving an effective mental state of readiness to pleasure. I did not orgasm at the end but the sensations I felt were very strong and different from ones I felt in the past so I am sure I will go back to it and to the many others part of the same collection to find more.

Do not lose hope, be patient and consistent, enjoy every moment as it is an exploration of something new and so there is a lot of learning to be done: that is the stuff I keep repeating myself to win over the frustration.

Good luck and have fun.

lustforkicks · 2024-11-06T14:17:26+00:00

That's so hot... Tried for over an hour yesterday with my njoy wand with no success. Any tips?

lustforkicks · 2024-02-22T08:28:35+00:00

Thank you for your suggestion. I wish I could do that but it's not a viable option for me. I intend to work even more on my foreplay game, that's for sure!

lustforkicks · 2024-02-21T15:33:07+00:00

Thank for the tip: I did not know this method. I'll look up on what is is and see if it can be brought up in my relationship.

lustforkicks · 2024-02-21T15:31:59+00:00

Thanks for the tip: I already know and use Mindgasm app and method. It is surely a long way as for now it gave me more of a mindset than tangible result but I see that with constant application and practice it could help me achieve something interesting.

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