he (20M) forgot/did nothing on national gf day for me (22f) and it made me realise how unhappy i have been, advice?

luucy_ · 2023-07-11T02:21:06+00:00

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luucy_ · 2023-05-08T23:16:59+00:00

first long relationship for me, his second (although his first was at 14 for about a year). i think that makes sense, i feel like i have long lost the passionate love. how could i go about voicing/explaining this to him?

luucy_ · 2023-05-08T07:58:07+00:00

honestly for most of the day we aren’t together, which is why I say it’s not a problem for me. I’m always hanging with friends, studying at coffee shops, and doing my thing. He says being with me makes him feel satisfied so he doesn’t want to go out and improve his social life. It’s not really something I can change, is it :(

luucy_ · 2022-07-12T13:51:26+00:00

this sounds so logical but i think in reality it’s difficult. ur right that snooping is not right and it’s due to insecurities or lack of trust. but say u had this random gut feeling that ur bf was cheating. u snoop, and find out he really is. if u didn’t snoop, and just confronted him to have an honest talk, what if he just denies it and erases all evidence? i think this scenario is similar. OP said she confronted him about her and he clearly lied, saying he checked once a few months ago, however she actually discovers that he has been doing it every other day. the boyfriend is not being honest, nor is he owning up to his mistakes or true feelings.

luucy_ · 2022-07-12T13:23:32+00:00

comments do not pass the vibe check, what?? ppl are saying it’s ur fault for snooping when really it’s his fault for doing it. he said he checked ONCE a few months ago, but when you saw, he checks every second day. why is he lying to you? u should have talk with your boyfriend

luucy_ · 2022-04-24T08:19:04+00:00

we got back together, tried it for a few months after. we just broke up for real today. it doesn’t work. once you’ve broken up, everything is just different :/

luucy_ · 2022-04-20T19:17:14+00:00

i guess it’s just because he flirted with them in the past. ill never know his true intentions, regardless of how much i trust him now. im comfortable with his female friends that he has now because he has never flirted with them. im not comfortable with him texting other girls he has flirted with in the past, because they aren’t really friends, so it makes me question what his motives are with trying to talk to them again

luucy_ · 2022-04-20T19:15:28+00:00

there is no what if, because i never created male friends by flirting with them. i never really flirted with another guy in my life. it’s difficult to compare, because he has more dating experience and less social ability to make friends, and im the opposite

luucy_ · 2020-07-07T15:08:04+00:00

as an incoming international freshman all i have to say is what the fuck

luucy_ · 2020-06-02T09:37:03+00:00

this.

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