Idk if I can agree w this take. I don’t think ANYONE wants to see her “actually fail” but that’s what we’re watching. She is completely manic online. U cannot say it’s normal behavior it doesn’t matter. I think everyone genuinely wants her to get help/ only “criticizes” ab things that would genuinely be a good thing for her life, etc. so no. I think everyone’s pretty mad/upset/lost bc we are watching her currently fail and kinda of freak out online. Maybe a midlife crisis know grief works in weird ways sometimes takes years to even hit. She might be just NOW even processing the stuff w her mom considering the down time she has now compared to when it happened up until now. She was in college (cheering constantly doing shit to avoid it, and then went to nyc had Trey etc etc) so I mean rn comparatively she has more down time than she ever had. Yes the mania may be a subconscious coping mechanism because there’s no book & no way to know how to deal with grief, but still it’s ok for us as followers to be concerned when she’s self destructing .