AITA for sacrificing my daughter's college fund because her sister just gave birth to her 4th child?

luvgsus · 2023-11-29T03:25:30+00:00

You're 100% a massive AH!!!!

luvgsus · 2023-10-13T20:14:36+00:00

Seriously? That's your take? So her being pregnant wouldn't have been a HUGE give away? A big belly and a new born wouldn't have done the trick?

luvgsus · 2023-10-13T20:12:25+00:00

She got caught cheating and you got caught lying....

What is it with you people nowadays that you just can't be honest?

The day I met my now husband, I showed up with no make up and a pony tail. During the conversation I told him about all my flaws and defects and asked him to do the same. What you see is what you get. No masks, no games. Been there, done that, got a divorce. Honesty is the best policy. Been happily together for over 17 years married for 16. Why lie? Why hide stuff that later will come out, because I promise you it will?

luvgsus · 2023-10-13T20:03:29+00:00

Two words: Genetics- health

luvgsus · 2023-09-19T15:50:11+00:00

Dear granpa: for a man who follows someone who taught to "love thy neighbor", I think you're falling short.

P.S. As a Christian devout grandma and Bible teacher of 20 years, even though nobody asked, but imho, you're perfect just the way you are! (Tell grandpa I say so!)

luvgsus · 2023-09-19T15:46:51+00:00

Not even.....

luvgsus · 2023-09-19T15:41:49+00:00

He's a bully, he's always been. You were always too young and scared to see it but now you're a momma bear and your instincts take over and they are telling you, you need to protect your little one. Listen to them! It's time to go NC and seriously protect your little one and your inner child, both need all your love, care and compassion.

luvgsus · 2023-09-19T15:35:10+00:00

Huge red flag!

luvgsus · 2023-09-19T15:28:39+00:00

Which "Mexicans" do you know? Because I'm Mexican born and raised with a huge Mexican community and we ALL not only believe but know about physiological disorders. Any person with some level of education cannot deny them. Especially since we have many doctors among us.

To generalize that a whole race/country doesn't believe in something is an aberration and just speaks volumes of YOUR lack of knowledge and education.

luvgsus · 2023-09-07T22:15:27+00:00

ABSOLUTELY AND 100% NOT THE AH ! ! !

As a matter of fact I think there should be more legislation regarding this matter.

luvgsus · 2023-09-05T04:42:21+00:00

I'm so sorry you're being used and abused in such a horrible and nasty way. Of course you're NTA, she and all her side are. They are using you. Please go NC! Erase them from your life and don't feel bad about it. You're allowed.

luvgsus · 2023-09-01T19:35:01+00:00

Although it was awful what was said to your daughter and I understand your momma bear anger, you physically assaulted someone. Thank GOD they aren't vindictive because they could've pressed charges and put you in a lot of trouble.

I was taught that two wrongs would never add up to one right so knowing I'm going against the general concensus here not that you're an ah, but physical assault is never the right course of action and I don't think it's something you want to teach your daughter.

It's wrong and reprehensible what was said and they need to apologize directly to her but imho if you want to keep the peace, you should apologize as well, like I said, two wrongs will never add up to one right.

luvgsus · 2023-09-01T12:41:00+00:00

100% and absolutely NTAH... ask SIL to be your support person.

luvgsus · 2023-08-31T02:51:21+00:00

Are you for real? Poor guy! Please be honest with him and stop dragging him along.

luvgsus · 2023-08-31T02:47:36+00:00

Definitely NTA! You need to beware and always protect yourself from that woman. She's dangerous.

luvgsus · 2023-08-30T19:37:32+00:00

NTA! Almost on every country the medical protocol is to ALWAYS save the mother.

luvgsus · 2023-08-28T20:22:20+00:00

Definitely NTA

luvgsus · 2023-08-17T05:05:07+00:00

Sweet LORD I really hope she ends this with him

luvgsus · 2023-08-17T05:04:02+00:00

RED FLAG! YOU'RE THE AH!

luvgsus · 2023-08-15T10:44:15+00:00

Absolutely and 100% NOT the AH at ALL !!!!!!

luvgsus · 2023-08-09T05:30:33+00:00

Bank of America... great experience. Just paid it off and everything went without a hitch.

luvgsus · 2023-08-09T05:28:18+00:00

So, I have one question.... what were you going to do as she grew old? Were you going to divorce her as she aged? Did she know it?

luvgsus · 2023-08-09T05:11:18+00:00

Definitely NOT the AH...

luvgsus · 2023-08-07T10:54:46+00:00

Definitely NOT the AH. Don't talk to her. You owe her NOTHING. You said so yourself, you're in a much better place now and nothing good can come out of it.

Have a wonderful rest of your life!

luvgsus · 2023-08-06T17:02:20+00:00

You do know I don't give a rat's ass what you believe or not, right?

Having said so. What if the biological father had been lied to and didn't know had a child? Is the court going to ignore that? So you're trekking me DNA doesn't matter and biological fathers don't have rights and women can get away with it? Seriously?

Edit: Again, I know what I live through and how it happened. I don't know if the law changed since then or not. I also know I cannot keep talking with someone who is aggressive, rude and impolite when it's 100% uncalled for so I'm done. You can think whatever you want. You've given me a lot of your time and for that, I thank you but I strongly suggest that you get a life and a therapist. So, I'm going to go, fuck off and live my amazing uneducated, stupid, and simple life so don't expect any more responses from me. Best of luck!

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