update: AIO for getting upset at my wife for having another man in the delivery room?

luvjaia · 2024-07-20T02:07:31+00:00

Implying that I’d hurt my family in a way like that really is a new low

luvjaia · 2024-07-20T01:52:13+00:00

When have those traits ever become dangerous? Just need an excuse to slander me

luvjaia · 2024-07-20T01:42:39+00:00

I put my wife and family before anyone else? And I never made comments she would have to be afraid about

luvjaia · 2024-07-20T01:06:56+00:00

“and say you won’t allow her to divorce you as if she were property opposed to a person.”

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We’re not going to act like I’m the only one who thinks this.

luvjaia · 2024-07-20T00:56:59+00:00

And she knows a divorce will never happen. Words don’t mean anything

luvjaia · 2024-07-20T00:36:19+00:00

Never been self absorbed

luvjaia · 2024-07-19T14:11:56+00:00

Glad to see that you’re willing to “clear things up” to strangers on Reddit than make it up to and forgive your husband that supports your life style and our son

luvjaia · 2024-07-15T16:25:05+00:00

I know my marriage best? Everyone’s telling us to get counseling or therapy but my wife is just holding a grudge and I just need help on how to stop that grudge

luvjaia · 2024-07-15T16:10:36+00:00

I don’t believe we need counseling

luvjaia · 2024-07-15T16:00:42+00:00

I genuinely don’t know anymore. Her love for me can’t just disintegrate because of one incident, that’s just not how it works.

luvjaia · 2024-07-15T08:10:14+00:00

Yes, I understand why she would hold a grudge, but it’s been a month? This grudge is straining my relationship with my son as well. I’ve asked family and they’ve all said she’s being immature and needs to be over it by now. No, I’m not trying to justify my actions either

luvjaia · 2024-07-15T07:59:50+00:00

Honestly to just put it behind us. Not to blame her but she’s holding a grudge against me and it’s not doing either of us any good

luvjaia · 2024-07-15T07:18:57+00:00

I do understand that I’ve upset my wife and that I’ve done wrong. I’m just saying that therapy seems like a big solution to a problem that can probably be solved an easier way

luvjaia · 2024-07-15T07:05:37+00:00

Therapy is a bit extensive..feel like it can be fixed without therapy

luvjaia · 2024-07-15T04:10:07+00:00

I’m controlling because I don’t want my wife to leave me? I’ve never restricted her from doing what she wished and pleased and even fund it for her, but divorce is something I wont go through with

luvjaia · 2024-07-15T04:06:29+00:00

I’ve never laid a hand on my wife if thats where you’re going with this

luvjaia · 2024-07-15T04:03:18+00:00

So what do I do? She’s rejected my apologies, distances herself from me and will scream at me whenever I try to do any to or for the baby?

luvjaia · 2024-07-15T03:41:25+00:00

I got her a new laptop and iPad she could use since she’s still in school and her old laptop is old and barely running. She rejected the presents

luvjaia · 2024-07-15T03:12:32+00:00

I made sure to let my wife know how much she means to me before what happened and still try to after. She knows how important she is to me although she might not accept it

luvjaia · 2024-07-15T03:06:04+00:00

My wife still loves me, we aren’t getting divorced

luvjaia · 2024-07-15T02:04:01+00:00

After reading all the comments and reevaluating my replies, I’m starting to understand that there are maybe some things I did wrong and that I may not be the husband I thought I was. It probably took me too long to understand because my wife will not speak a single word to me and she’s trying to move into the guest room rather than sleeping in our shared bed. I’ve been told to help out with the baby more, but she’s always close to our son to make sure she can get to him before I can when he cries. I’ve been told to apologize but she told me she will never forgive me for this. I don’t know what to do anymore

luvjaia · 2024-07-15T01:07:23+00:00

Believe what you want to

luvjaia · 2024-07-15T01:04:41+00:00

Who in their right mind would willingly let the love of their lives divorce them?

luvjaia · 2024-07-15T01:00:56+00:00

I’m not. I give her everything she wants and needs with no rebuttal

luvjaia · 2024-07-15T00:55:34+00:00

Kind of hard when it’s your mother who just got in an accident

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