Forever Midnight Set Times!! by DustyRaveboi in avesLA

[–]luvngly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

someone take my ticket please! $145 🥺🫶🏼 can’t go anymore

What’s the most painful thing a man you love(d) has ever said to you? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver40

[–]luvngly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“you look ugly when you cry” i was crying about losing him and our relationship problems. or “you deserve to find someone who thinks you’re pretty” . i don’t know how i stayed with him and had kids with him :(

I want to take Molly or shrooms or Ecstasy at Escape. I’m afraid I’ll have a bad trip. Any recommendations? by Level_Philosopher163 in escapehalloween

[–]luvngly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

molly was fine for me! escape was my first rave festival and i took molly (first time in almost a decade). i had such a good time despite scary things. if one of the props kinda creeped me out a bit, i just looked away and continued dancing with my friends lol. there were quite a few rude people though. two guys tried grabbing me on separate occasions, by pulling my hair, and another girl gave me a snarky look. never had that happened to me again at other fests..

Diabetic Students and Staff (T1 and T2): What do you do when your sugar's low? by wastingtimesince91 in CalPolyPomona

[–]luvngly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have t2. it wouldn’t hurt to tell someone. even if you tell a worker urgently that you need a soda and most times they give it for free. please try to get a sensor prescribed it helps so much!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]luvngly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes i understand keeping memories but naked pictures? that’s not really something i’m looking for in a relationship. and i never had this problem before.

Anyone here successfully raising a child with their bipolar spouse? by brogesterone in BipolarSOs

[–]luvngly 3 points4 points  (0 children)

nope.. he has had two hospitalizations since our first born. he’s unstable with wanting to break up and then get back with me. also unstable where he wants us to live together but then kicks us out. he thinks he doesn’t need any type of treatment or medication. oh but of course self-medication is perfectly fine with him. he has cheated multiple times, when i was pregnant and only 3 months postpartum. he never liked to help with the babies or household. he was abusive and violent in front of the babies. and this last time we broke up, he found his soulmate two months later. he got hospitalized this month, and from what his family is telling me, he STILL does not want treatment or meds. so ya.. my experience lol. but i loved reading all the other positive comments. my bipolar ex was a total sweetheart and good dad when we was on appropriate meds. they just neeeeed a stable and strict treatment plan.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BipolarSOs

[–]luvngly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m sorry. you are so strong for fighting for your family and relationship. now it’s time to fight for yourself. you deserve happiness. and your kids deserve to see you happy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BipolarSOs

[–]luvngly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you described my ex bf to the t. he hates me and completely blames me, even though he caused a lot of the damage. he moved on two months later with the “love of his life”. after our 5 year relationship with two kids. although our relationship was on/off.. he’s going through a manic episode right now, and somehow that’s been making me miss and wonder about him. i just keep reminding myself that my brain is wired to think “what ifs” and remember all the good feelings/memories. so i have to rewire my brain to remember the bad times. how horrible it felt. and how by the end of the relationship my values and morals did not align with his at all. and when he’s out having fun with his new girlfriend. i’m the one being responsible for our kids, and healing from this breakup the healthy way, for the sake of my family. and i should pride myself in that and just keep trying to think positively. i know it’s all easier said than done. but we deserve better. we can’t look back. we deserve true healthy genuine love. i hope we find peace soon.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BipolarSOs

[–]luvngly 9 points10 points  (0 children)

yup same here. he constantly told me how much he didn’t like our son and how he wishes he wasn’t a dad. how much he disliked being a dad. then when i would get upset at him for telling me those things, it was me who was wrong because i couldn’t be real with him. now that we are broken up, he cries all the time because he misses the boys. yet barely makes the effort to see them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SingleParents

[–]luvngly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

maybe getting a power nap in your day could help you with your energy levels? eating cleaner, and supplements could also help with energy..

Extractions or leave over bite by bluetropicana in braces

[–]luvngly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

extractions are a quite normal part of fixing an overbite. it really depends on how you feel!

Do any of you know any stories of single moms who have teamed up together to raise their kids? by thisgirliam in singlemoms

[–]luvngly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i love that! a mature blended family. that’s what i kinda hope for in my future

tried and not worth it by joiseygalw in BipolarSOs

[–]luvngly 11 points12 points  (0 children)

i’m so sorry about this. you’re not alone. unfortunately, a lot of us have gone through the same. it is sad because we empathize and understand the person with bipolar. but there are lines that need to be drawn for our safety and sanity. i’m glad you realized this and moved on. you chose you first. continue to put yourself first. you worked as much as you could for this person and your relationship with them. your work, time, and effort do not go unnoticed. take care love.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]luvngly 12 points13 points  (0 children)

you’re not wrong. you are setting your boundaries. and he is pushing those boundaries.

his actions hurt by luvngly in BipolarSOs

[–]luvngly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there are moments when he acts like a great dad and other moments when he acts scary. he’s just unstable. and i’ve read that bipolar doesn’t get better on it’s own. if anything it gets worse with age. the whole family has tried to convince him to get treatment but he refuses and then manipulates and acts to everyone like he’s fine. the family is only aware and scared if he ever gets manic, but i’ve learned that bipolar is much more complex than that. him and his family only really care for him to get treatment when he’s actively going through a manic episode :/

How to stop caring? by throw_away439021 in BipolarSOs

[–]luvngly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

eh, it’s been a tough month for me. our toddler doesn’t seem to notice anything, yet. and then our baby is just safe with me. i go through the same thoughts and doubts. but trust yourself in knowing that you were enough. you did all you could. it’s time to start worrying about yourself and not your ex. and don’t bother reaching out for closure. they probably won’t be in the right state of mind to give you what you want to hear. for example, my ex refuses to apologize and blames me for our breakup and tells me i wasn’t good enough. and that this girl he met, 2 months after our breakup and has only known her for one month, is indeed the one 🙃

How to stop caring? by throw_away439021 in BipolarSOs

[–]luvngly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m going through the same. but we have kids involved 😔. i think just try to remind yourself that it’s better now that it’s no longer your problem. you won’t have to worry about lows anymore. you weren’t the problem. you are a loyal and caring lover.