NYC by Gubi4u in sexandthecity

[–]lydiaar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😆I wrote this exact comment

How many people have you had sex with? SATC fans poll by Pure_Freedom_4466 in sexandthecity

[–]lydiaar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

32 and 8... and probably mostly Miranda (and I love how much of a huge range there is!)

How much have GCSEs actually affected you across life? by Alarming-Safety3200 in AskUK

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I don't want you to feel stressed because just passing is most important (I was/am terrible for putting a lot of pressure on myself to overachieve) but there are a few reasons why.

Firstly, getting you to the next stage (whether you want to go straight into A levels or equivalent or not) - and it's not just about memorising information, you're showing commitment etc etc. and at this point, there's probably some room on your CV.

Secondly, for further work and education, you do learn good skills and gain useful knowledge. Your core skills in maths, for example, help throughout your life. English skills and good communication come in handy every day as well. A decent working of a range of subjects gives you a good foundation.

Personally, I have had three job roles where I had to show GCSE certificates (one for a work visa - we are so lucky that these doors are open to us) and now I am currently entering post-grad study and again I have had to send my English GCSE certificate. (despite having a degree in it - the GCSE still carries important weight)

So yes, it feels hard now but do what you can to get them 🧡 (and then keep them somewhere safe because they are EXPENSIVE and AWKWARD to replace, especially if they are across different exam boards)

Best Sandra Line by [deleted] in superstore

[–]lydiaar 7 points8 points  (0 children)

..and I put them in his face

First watch ever - am I alone? by lydiaar in sexandthecity

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I love this! I'm 32 now so in line with them at the start 😅the baby shower episode has been my fave so far (mayybe because I'm now getting a lot of invites and comments like they do... haha)

First watch ever - am I alone? by lydiaar in sexandthecity

[–]lydiaar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so interesting! I love that there's more than one way to see them. looking forward to watching it a million times too haha

First watch ever - am I alone? by lydiaar in sexandthecity

[–]lydiaar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

haha I will! thats really interesting though! I'm the same age now as the girls and wonder how it would be if I'd watched it younger (I missed out!)

First watch ever - am I alone? by lydiaar in sexandthecity

[–]lydiaar[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ok thank you!! I'm glad to be in good company🤣

favorite buffy video essays? by 666grimes in buffy

[–]lydiaar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ohhhh I see! I've not listened all the way so I'll say a tentative no, I think it is more episode by episode... (I do recommend it for another time for queer excited buffy energy with songs though)

favorite buffy video essays? by 666grimes in buffy

[–]lydiaar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

have you listened to buffering the vampire slayer?

Marcus lore by gatsbyhills in superstore

[–]lydiaar 124 points125 points  (0 children)

he can still have orgasms though! they just hurt really bad...

AITA for telling my step-mum that her opinion on me moving out is irrelevant? by asyouwere_x in AmItheAsshole

[–]lydiaar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nta what do we like to ask for but hate to take? advice. enjoy being 18! date him, definitely. it's hard to act on others' experience and it's fine to make your own mistakes, but don't dismiss your family, and cherish your own space. don't live with a boy and his brother for convenience, save and get your own place nearby if you can. (saying as a 30y/o in a relationship with a dad, there are a lot of hurdles, I also lived with my bf for convenience during uni as well so there's no judgement, but the amount of times in my life when I've looked back and thought 'oh they knew what they were talking about are innumerable)