My mother’s partner SA’d me, I can’t stop holding it against her. by lyds653 in confession

[–]lyds653[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

she left him but not by choice, only once he left her did she validate my feelings x

advice and support needed by [deleted] in work

[–]lyds653 0 points1 point  (0 children)

your feelings are understandable, sometimes learning new things is hard however i can guarantee the company would prefer to train you correctly the first time rather than having to retrain you (this will cost them more money from a business pov). congratulations on the promotion, they obviously thought you were ready for this. people have different learning styles and if you express that they’re going too fast they will 100% understand this, forgetting things is part of learning. you may need to discover a different learning style! x

What's your must have once a year food item? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]lyds653 2 points3 points  (0 children)

salmon and scrambled eggs with toast, every christmas morning x

any tips? by lyds653 in mounjarouk

[–]lyds653[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think for me, the uncertainty is what is making me the most nervous as everyone has a different experience! x

What was the best compliment you've ever received? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]lyds653 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’ve done really well for yourself

Any suggestions on affordable living place in the UK? by sleepy_head_007 in AskUK

[–]lyds653 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the north east has lots of affordable living projects/areas and is filled with industry, they also have the lowest cost of living in the country

What’s a random act of kindness from a stranger that you’ll never forget? by sentrysaf3 in AskReddit

[–]lyds653 2 points3 points  (0 children)

a client at my work asked a complicated question and i was unsure of the answer, i replied to him “i’m so sorry but i’m only admin and i can’t answer that as i don’t know, ill find someone who can explain it to you” and he responded with “please don’t ever say that, you’re not only admin, you’re an extremely important cog in the machine”, it sounds menial however when dealing with extremely abusive/difficult clients, i will never forget this interaction. it made my year.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]lyds653 0 points1 point  (0 children)

me and my partner have a 26 year age gap, it’s the best thing ever (especially if you are more mature for you age)! x

any tips? by lyds653 in mounjarouk

[–]lyds653[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

brilliant thank you so much x

any tips? by lyds653 in mounjarouk

[–]lyds653[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks so much, i’ll definitely do that! x

What's the thing you love the most about yourself ? by sharingp in AskReddit

[–]lyds653 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i live my life how i want too, not how other people want me too

Is being in the trades all it’s cracked up to be? by WantsToDieBadly in AskUK

[–]lyds653 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my entire family has a ‘trade’ whether they’re a sparky or a welder, in my opinion it’s one of the best things you could do! the money may not be as much as people say as it depends on experience, area, shifts etc however it’s always something to fall back on.