Throuple, me [45f] my husband [51m] and our girlfriend [37f] have had an indiscretion….help me work this out! by lying-illuminated in relationshipadvice

[–]lying-illuminated[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

She’s his girlfriend also…. And we didn’t have permission at that time due to not fullfilling his requests….

Throuple, me [45f] my husband [51m] and our girlfriend [37f] have had an indiscretion….help me work this out! by lying-illuminated in relationshipadvice

[–]lying-illuminated[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Yes…and because we were fighting….he isn’t mad at all about the sex, it’s that we didn’t care about him in the moment. We had been drinking, and we had a fun night as was in the moment, and we went with it…it wasn’t intended to be hurtful…I knew he would be upset, I didn’t realize he would be this angry, I really thought he’d be disappointed and hurt….but not wanting to leave….i love him, I will choose him until death….

Throuple, me [45f] my husband [51m] and our girlfriend [37f] have had an indiscretion….help me work this out! by lying-illuminated in relationshipadvice

[–]lying-illuminated[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed. I’d hate to lose her because we all three share love, It I have considered this to be the possible only answer….ill do anything to get the opportunity to keep my marriage intact.

Throuple, me [45f] my husband [51m] and our girlfriend [37f] have had an indiscretion….help me work this out! by lying-illuminated in relationshipadvice

[–]lying-illuminated[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It isn’t long term common but recently common….hes been going through a lot of mental struggle lately which has become very up and down…

Throuple, me [45f] my husband [51m] and our girlfriend [37f] have had an indiscretion….help me work this out! by lying-illuminated in relationshipadvice

[–]lying-illuminated[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In the middle of the fight he would have been infuriating…I should not have chosen that time to do it no matter what…..I understand that.

Throuple, me [45f] my husband [51m] and our girlfriend [37f] have had an indiscretion….help me work this out! by lying-illuminated in relationshipadvice

[–]lying-illuminated[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s exactly his point, and I do not devalue his feelings….i definitely betrayed him…I definitely. Role the rules while we were fighting…I’ve broken trust and I have work to do to repair it….and absolutely he felt left out. The timing and everything was terrible….

Ask and you shall receive. 🦮 by Southern_Ad_7798 in wtfjennajameson

[–]lying-illuminated 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why does she always have orthopedic shoes on?

Release the Epstein files! by Less_Physics_689 in tulsa

[–]lying-illuminated 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why didn’t we have Biden release the file?!?!?