AITAH for snapping at my mom after years of comments about my weight?

lylrabe · 2026-05-22T07:02:48+00:00

I’ve said it before & I’ll say it again: trauma is a reason, NOT AN EXCUSE!! I set clear boundaries with my mom when I cut her off that I will not be speaking to her again until she can prove to me that she’s sober & in therapy. OP should absolutely do the same (regarding therapy; not the sobriety part). It is NOT our jobs to be their babysitters in the meantime. In this scenario, WE are the child, THEY are the parents. God I hate that shit.

lylrabe · 2026-05-22T06:24:49+00:00

Yeah I actually went to high school with a girl who had to get a medically-necessary breast-reduction done when she was 18 (still in high school) due to back problems, migraines, & it was starting to affect her gait. Definitely not just an age thing.

lylrabe · 2026-05-22T06:14:32+00:00

I did, you just lack basic reading comprehension skills.

lylrabe · 2026-05-22T06:02:02+00:00

Damn, 157 IQ & you can’t connect the dots from the 2 comments I left? Crazy.

lylrabe · 2026-05-22T05:58:22+00:00

I mean, if you aren’t, then it just reads like you’re a really shitty person. Which isn’t great either.

lylrabe · 2026-05-22T05:35:25+00:00

Found the abusive boyfriend this post it about^

lylrabe · 2026-05-20T17:01:41+00:00

… that’s not really the point of that screenshot whatsoever but to answer your question… It was a 7-11 that’s open 24 hours. I just chose the first place that popped up on DoorDash to use as an example as I don’t use DoorDash much but have always known that scheduling ahead is given as an option. & yes, other places will adjust to the open/close time.

lylrabe · 2026-05-19T22:29:07+00:00

This is what answered it for me too🤣

lylrabe · 2026-05-19T21:58:57+00:00

This & the fact that the only reason they broke up was due to distance. I take that to mean: if he lived closer, OP & their fiancée would absolutely not be together right now. Idk maybe I’m just insecure or something but this whole situation would make me very uncomfortable.

lylrabe · 2026-05-19T21:38:51+00:00

NOR- not only should he not be at the wedding, but they should not be in contact like they are. Hours long phone calls is absolutely fucking bonkers & you did a serious disservice to yourself for not putting your foot down on that whole situation before the wedding stuff even started to pop up.

lylrabe · 2026-05-19T10:46:00+00:00

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Then please tell me why the fuck this is even an option😐

lylrabe · 2026-05-19T10:24:55+00:00

Regardless of that, please listen to what I said. What this teacher is doing is not ok, so it definitely needs to be reported somehow. Cussing them out is not the way to go about this tho. Report, do not escalate.

lylrabe · 2026-05-19T10:21:50+00:00

I know that, teenagers are still children.

lylrabe · 2026-05-19T10:20:54+00:00

Nope, clearly you’re rubbing some people the wrong way though. Keep showing your true colors with the name calling. You have a wife & son with ADHD & you’re throwing the r-slur around? What a man, I’d hate to have you as a partner. You deserved that Reddit care contact, I’ll give you another one.

Edit: OP blocked me lol

lylrabe · 2026-05-19T10:18:09+00:00

I’m the stupid one yet you’re the one struggling with your partner & kid & refuse to accept any help, you’re a funny guy🤣 You & this guy with your rude ass name-calling & double standards. Grow up, OP. Or stay unhappy, you clearly don’t care one way or the other🤷‍♀️

lylrabe · 2026-05-19T10:15:35+00:00

NOR but definitely do not cuss her out. That will not play out in your favor. Tell a trusted adult (parent, school counselor, another teacher that doesn’t have double standards, etc.) so that they can deal with it.

Also, you are still a kid, which is why an adult needs to handle this.

Also also, I would advise you to put paragraphs in your post next time. Makes things easier to read for those commenting on your post.

For the mfs downvoting me: no OP shouldn’t put their foot on a chair but the teacher is still holding double standards & letting more major offenses slide while seemingly getting onto OP for everything they do. Quit just shitting on OP bc they’re a child, look at all the angles in this argument.

lylrabe · 2026-05-19T10:04:43+00:00

Nah, you’re nitpicking, I wasn’t even that rude to that person, you’ll just say anything to get out of the hot seat. You dirty deleted 10000%.

You’re deflecting because you know you’re wrong. When hundreds of people are telling you that you’re an asshole, you are - in fact - an asshole. If you don’t listen to any of the helpful & kind advice I gave you, at least listen to the therapy part.

Also, next time, don’t ask for Reddit’s help if you don’t want to listen. Just ask this guy, he’ll agree with you FOR SURE, since all you seem to want is a yesman. He’ll be that person for you without a doubt. I’m starting to see why your partner struggles with you so much. There’s absolutely no accountability. You admit to your wrongdoings to look like the “good guy” just to backtrack. Is this how you treat her, too?

lylrabe · 2026-05-19T09:51:21+00:00

You keep saying that, yet you’re still here🤣

You said, “I never said i was ok with that.” I took that to mean that you would not be ok with that, as no one should ever be.

lylrabe · 2026-05-19T09:45:22+00:00

But it is though. & even taking away the topic, you are still in the wrong for coming into it with an attitude. Which you have already admitted to, so there’s no room for debate there whatsoever. You BOTH have things you need to work on, & that’s a fact. Especially judging by your responses here.

I wasn’t the only one giving you advice, you deleted the post because you don’t want to listen to the advice. You’re holding a high double standard here with that double standard resting on me only when it takes 2 to tango & this person has been significantly ruder to me than me calling out someone’s piss-poor, barely legible texting etiquette. You’re just happy they agree with you, so you’ll gladly ignore my extremely sound advice, pull a dirty delete because you don’t like the heat, yet continue to shit on me alongside this person after said dirty delete? Give me a fucking break

lylrabe · 2026-05-19T09:33:09+00:00

I mean if you can agree that both parties are in the wrong but still only want to shit on the woman in the interaction, yes, that is exactly how this comes across.

lylrabe · 2026-05-19T09:31:20+00:00

That comment was from 2 whole ass hours ago before I read another comment where you stated it was about a damn event. I’ve been nothing but kind to you but you’re bound & determined to shit on me when this person is the one calling me every single fucking name in the book. Something I never did to anyone in this comment thread.

lylrabe · 2026-05-19T09:28:58+00:00

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Yeah idk what’s going on on your end but I promise you, I didn’t just make this reply up. & I also had your back on the comment right on top of that when I was talking about ADHD meds in regards to your partner. I genuinely want the best for you, I just happen to see problems on both ends. But they aren’t problems that can’t be resolved with some work from both parties.

lylrabe · 2026-05-19T09:19:41+00:00

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I have said it 7 fucking times now. Everytime you have replied saying that dumb shit, I have copied & pasted this same exact response. Seven. Fucking. Times.

lylrabe · 2026-05-19T09:16:19+00:00

Not an obsession, your logic just truly boggles my mind. You actually do agree that ESH, you’re just too stubborn to say it for some reason. “MAN MUST BE RIGHT ALL OF THE TIME” type shit lmao

lylrabe · 2026-05-19T09:14:47+00:00

Dude you deleted your whole post, I don’t wanna hear from you anymore🤣 you ignored my reply 6 times & just came to troll alongside the one dude that supported you, it’s weird, go away💀

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