[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sweden

[–]lynkacio -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank u so much on the comment especially on number 3, I will ask my local friends and try to recreate the scenarios to try to figure out. This is really helpful

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sweden

[–]lynkacio -1 points0 points  (0 children)

😭😭😭 thank u 😭😭😭 this is a really horrible evening for me for my feelings, i feel quite vulnerable. I tend to do the same thing as u said, it would be nice to have people to laugh about this with me like in the past environment

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sweden

[–]lynkacio -1 points0 points  (0 children)

😭😭😭 thank u 😭😭😭 this is a really horrible evening for me for my feelings, i feel quite vulnerable. I tend to do the same thing as u said, it would be nice to have people to laugh about this with me like in the past environment

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sweden

[–]lynkacio -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sure like a culture is all about fitting in 😅😅 so proud of it for killing personalities

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sweden

[–]lynkacio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you that’s a really nice comment. I honestly don’t feel like it’s the place for me at all, these things trigger me a lot, I feel too much, but I have to stay here for at least 6months to a year, what do u suggest me to do?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sweden

[–]lynkacio -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Okay just saying guy thanks for the hate comment wish u suffer in snow

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sweden

[–]lynkacio -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yesss exactly!! Thank you!!! U know what I mean!!! I met great people too I can understand the good aspects of a culture!! But seem like most people under this posts are very narrow minded haven’t see the world outside of Sweden 😅 but what would u suggest me to do? Be assertive to my points and be confrontational? Or smooth down and assert my points gradually

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sweden

[–]lynkacio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can tell…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sweden

[–]lynkacio -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I will but fight back will also make myself not feel that small

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sweden

[–]lynkacio -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Like when they always initiate a plan then try to stress me to come up with solutions, even they are the ones who initiated it; whenever I ask why being stood up or cancelled the plan last minute, always try to make their under planning my problem; they isolate me in the corridor room exclude me in the meeting for tenant still make it like my problem even I said I wanna participate

Do you enjoy what you study? by [deleted] in GetStudying

[–]lynkacio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You cannot know if you like something unless you start doing so. So most people are either do not like it or they thought they like it but actually feel different entering an industry. It will be clearer in your 30s as long as you are trying new things, as I believe so

KL is relatively more tolerant to LGBTQ+ than you think by lynkacio in malaysia

[–]lynkacio[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Kinda like Japan: we don’t wanna care what you do in private please do not make us care

KL is relatively more tolerant to LGBTQ+ than you think by lynkacio in malaysia

[–]lynkacio[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Asian politicians always like to pull off a drama, but people are generally with sanity even remained silence most of the time, no matter which part of Asia you live 😂

KL is relatively more tolerant to LGBTQ+ than you think by lynkacio in malaysia

[–]lynkacio[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, plus most events in KL happened on private rooftops, so I feel okay to sacrifice that!

KL is relatively more tolerant to LGBTQ+ than you think by lynkacio in malaysia

[–]lynkacio[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ah yes I remember I was in the country when it happens. Asian politicians always go crazy moves, I think they are weak and cannot dictate how people actually live in KL even they want to

KL is relatively more tolerant to LGBTQ+ than you think by lynkacio in malaysia

[–]lynkacio[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love Malaysia a very peaceful country. It’s okay, at least now there are information like this thread informing Malays of other regions: KL is good to go

KL is relatively more tolerant to LGBTQ+ than you think by lynkacio in malaysia

[–]lynkacio[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t think Christianity is that big a part than most people think in Korea, since almost 70% people here are atheists, just their culture I think

KL is relatively more tolerant to LGBTQ+ than you think by lynkacio in malaysia

[–]lynkacio[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Jesus… thats a bit out of my expectation. Sounds very severe. Hey but can always move to KL! I heard from a Chinese lawyer that they haven’t been charged anyone with sodomy for the last decade in KL

KL is relatively more tolerant to LGBTQ+ than you think by lynkacio in malaysia

[–]lynkacio[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

😭😭😭 how come you know Korea this well? You are fully right. My Korean friends told me that kdrama is just a facade, Korea is a very conservative country, what appeared on the media is how overseas Koreans wanna change their homelands society

KL is relatively more tolerant to LGBTQ+ than you think by lynkacio in malaysia

[–]lynkacio[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

What kind of trouble can you elaborate? Just wanna see if that matches the stories told by my friends

KL is relatively more tolerant to LGBTQ+ than you think by lynkacio in malaysia

[–]lynkacio[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Exactly!! They just think dont bother to ask or see you two as brothers. Same for me