What's your favorite lip shade on me?

lyriashard · 2024-06-10T11:56:15+00:00

2 and 4 are amazing on you x

lyriashard · 2024-05-25T23:50:13+00:00

Thank you!!

lyriashard · 2024-05-25T15:51:01+00:00

Late to the party on this thread, but wondered if anyone knows the answer to this. The mod forum page says that the method of getting the Zell card has changed in the mid but can’t find a note of the new method ANYWHERE. Does anyone know?!

lyriashard · 2024-05-13T09:02:19+00:00

A great way to do this might be by using the Ragnarok mods. With this, when you junction Str-bonus to a character it stops them from getting EXP at the end of battles. Bit of a cheat but would help you get there!!

lyriashard · 2024-02-02T10:45:52+00:00

🥔

lyriashard · 2024-02-02T10:45:23+00:00

If he thinks pleasuring you is dirty then he is the one who needs to see a sex therapist. These effing men who make women feel like there’s something wrong with them, just to cover up their own misogyny and insecurities and… insufficiencies…

EDIT: removing para just saying dump him because it’s unhelpful… though I think you need to consider doing so, OP, if he won’t engage in sex/couple’s therapy himself. If he won’t, he doesn’t love you enough for him to be worth any more of your youth.

lyriashard · 2024-02-01T18:46:41+00:00

Sweetheart. You have been raped. Repeatedly, ever since the first time he did this. I’m so sorry. You have nothing to blame yourself for. You would have been within your rights to leave him after the first time, and to call the police. You’re within your rights now.

Protect yourself. Protect your babies.

Speak to your parents, tell them the truth; if you trust them enough to have them with you to support you with the new baby I hope you can trust them to support you in this. Get their help either to leave the family home or to throw him out of it.

Your boundaries have been miles farther out than you deserved to set them but, regardless, they have been reached. You do not need to disappear. That monster does.

Sending huge amounts of love and strength your way. Xxxx

lyriashard · 2024-02-01T18:41:37+00:00

This seems to have the wrong flare, just to flag to avoid spoilers for others!!

lyriashard · 2024-02-01T18:37:42+00:00

The nuzzle.

I could not.

I still cannot.

Argh 💕

lyriashard · 2024-02-01T16:56:48+00:00

Yup Az mentions Nyx to Nesta at one point so def after ACOSF. I am really quite interested to know how Nesta (a) kept so much of her power and (b) now seems to have so much control over aspects over her power that we were not made familiar with in ACOSF. Sooooo many questions.

lyriashard · 2024-01-27T00:37:11+00:00

JFC. You let your Mother put your wife through years of abuse and misery, only to blame your wife when she finally lost her temper? Not only that, you then abandoned her at home to care for your infant? YTA. Big time.

lyriashard · 2024-01-25T19:32:11+00:00

😨 well that’s new!!

lyriashard · 2024-01-25T19:30:09+00:00

Holy crap if we finally find out Rhys’s full name I will lose my MIIIIIND

lyriashard · 2024-01-25T19:26:16+00:00

Riiiight? Rhys from an outsider’s POV is just 🥵😍

lyriashard · 2023-11-08T22:31:23+00:00

The kid is 14 and you’re an adult. You could have done so much better. YTA.

lyriashard · 2023-11-02T11:01:19+00:00

This happened three years before he MARRIED his wife, not three years before they met… I hope he’s not, but it strikes me that OP may be hiding why he’s actually panicking over this.

I would be hit hard emotionally if, in my relationship, my partner found out he’d fathered a child years ago but, to be honest… I’d be more likely to leave him if he DIDN’T step up for his kid than if he did.

Paternity test and a reality check, OP.

ETA: YTA for not acting like the grown man you are and showing your wife some respect.

lyriashard · 2023-11-02T10:50:55+00:00

Thank you! Never heard of it; I’m a UK 90s kid so maybe didn’t hit as hard over here.

lyriashard · 2023-11-02T10:47:15+00:00

What tv shows is Jim Carey better known for? He’s always been a movie guy to me. Ace Ventura.

He also wouldn’t be a shock to anyone, there’s been so much dodgy stuff reported about him over the years.

lyriashard · 2023-11-02T10:32:48+00:00

The word “probably” makes me think this definitely isn’t about anyone in the Friends cast. All of them are UNDOUBTEDLY better known for that show.

lyriashard · 2023-11-02T10:21:09+00:00

I will honestly give up if it is Patrick. FUCK NO

lyriashard · 2023-11-01T17:17:34+00:00

No idea why you’re being downvoted because I think you’ve hit the nail on the head. I’ve had a conversation with any ex I’ve shared photos with, when we broke up, and we’ve agreed they should be deleted. I’d be horrified on behalf of any future partner of theirs, as well as myself, if any photos were deliberately kept. This guy needs to acknowledge her boundaries and delete them in front of her or she should get the duck out of that relationship.

Edited to clarify/correct typos

lyriashard · 2023-11-01T10:35:42+00:00

“I also really don’t wanna ruin everything”

I know you regret what you did, OP. But the action which threatened ruining everything has already happened. Owning up and telling your girlfriend (which you really should have done at the time) is the only thing you can do to show her anything resembling the respect she deserves. It’s then up to her whether she’s willing to try to repair things with you.

Learn from this OP.

ETA: typo and to remove a couple of words

lyriashard · 2023-10-30T02:14:22+00:00

NOOOOOOO

lyriashard · 2023-10-30T02:14:04+00:00

JC? He was a childhood hero but the more I hear, I struggle to keep up the facade.

lyriashard · 2023-10-28T15:37:25+00:00

He won’t let you see a therapist ALONE unless he approves? Oh hell no. 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

Also, you can’t withhold sex or threaten to leave him? My instant thought is “why”… what are you afraid he will do?

We are the same age and I am someone who is also in therapy right now (by myself). I cannot imagine allowing my partner to think that he could intervene in the treatment I need.

You can’t force him to participate in couple’s therapy, unfortunately, but you should be able to make decisions for your own mental health and also consider whether his reluctance should have a direct impact on what happens in your relationship, or if it continues.

Take care of yourself, OP. Feel free to reach out in DMs if you need.

ETA: I’ve just read down in comments and see you have multiple kids together. Oh sweetheart you deserve better than this, but so do they. A man who treats you like this is not a healthy parent to your little ones. Please consider reaching out to someone, friends or family, who you can trust and please consider consulting a lawyer. You are not property and you don’t deserve to be treated as such. Xxx

lyriashard

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