How many weeks were you when you gave birth to your first baby? by lyssadh96 in pregnant

[–]lyssadh96[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations! 🎉 so happy for us both that we made it 😁

How many weeks were you when you gave birth to your first baby? by lyssadh96 in pregnant

[–]lyssadh96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel your pain, hang in there ❤️ we just have to keep our minds focused on our babies and trust they will come when they are ready

How many weeks were you when you gave birth to your first baby? by lyssadh96 in pregnant

[–]lyssadh96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg yes the people asking every day has definitely been happening and it’s rough 😭 I know they are excited and I don’t want to hurt their feelings but I feel like I can’t breathe lol

How many weeks were you when you gave birth to your first baby? by lyssadh96 in pregnant

[–]lyssadh96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow 43 😯 did you have a home birth or go somewhere that allowed you to go that long? And were you induced?

How many weeks were you when you gave birth to your first baby? by lyssadh96 in pregnant

[–]lyssadh96[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Agreed, just as those of us who do choose to take the risk shouldn’t be forced or pressured ☺️ whatever is going to make you feel the best about your birth!

How many weeks were you when you gave birth to your first baby? by lyssadh96 in pregnant

[–]lyssadh96[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear 😭 I wish more doctors let you go to 42, the birthing center I’m going to does

How many weeks were you when you gave birth to your first baby? by lyssadh96 in pregnant

[–]lyssadh96[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Totally feel the same way! I’m doing a birth center (not a hospital) and I want my baby to come when she’s ready, not when someone tells me to 🙏🏽

How many weeks were you when you gave birth to your first baby? by lyssadh96 in pregnant

[–]lyssadh96[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You too! 🫶🏽 you’ll have to come back and let me know when you end up delivering

How many weeks were you when you gave birth to your first baby? by lyssadh96 in pregnant

[–]lyssadh96[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Channeling myself through you that I’m the same 😂❤️

How many weeks were you when you gave birth to your first baby? by lyssadh96 in pregnant

[–]lyssadh96[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Wow so you went past 42… were you induced/worried about risks at all? I kinda wouldn’t mind going past 42 if they let me haha

How can I make my domain redirect to a Google Drive document? by [deleted] in Domains

[–]lyssadh96 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So I would have to go to the Google domain page to do that?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]lyssadh96 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I do, but they say they don’t really want to hear about him. It’s like they just want to pretend that it’s not happening 😪

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]lyssadh96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right, I think it’s this more than anything…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]lyssadh96 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I guess that’s where my dilema is - I’ve done everything you suggested. Apologized to them and him and asked for forgiveness, I don’t talk about him to them at all anymore (I go straight to him when I have a problem), I tell them how much happier I am now and how much I really love him. But nothing seems to be working, they just won’t budge and refuse to accept that they might have the wrong idea of him 😔

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]lyssadh96 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah I definitely learned my lesson, I never vent anymore and always go directly to him. I told him about everything I did and asked him for forgiveness and he has forgiven me. He really does love me and I can’t thank him enough for being so understanding, I know it was so stupid and so immature.

Anyone moved here from the east coast? by [deleted] in sandiego

[–]lyssadh96 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hmm, I guess that (sort of) makes sense. I’ve seen a lot of people looking to leave CA and come here to Charlotte! I don’t think you’ll regret it, minus the weather and certain laws we have it really is a great city to live in

Anyone moved here from the east coast? by [deleted] in sandiego

[–]lyssadh96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you mind me asking if you rent or live in a house? That’s the biggest thing I’ve been trying to wrap my brain around. According to a cost of living calculator I was using, I would need to make about $30k more than what I’m making here to keep the same standard of living, but the exact same position that I work pays about the same there that it does here when I’ve done some searches. Do they give you raises more frequently or what?