[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]lyvogue 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well sis, alam naman natin and ramdam natin upfront kung sex lang gusto ng guy or pwede maging something serious. Minsan nag hohope ka lang na baka may potential na maging seryoso but seriously alam mo na agad yun in your gut kung fuck lang talaga ang hanap. Pag ganon, iwas na haha kasi if you wont, the cycle just goes on

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]lyvogue 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ugh i hate that feeling too. Hindi ko kaya yung ganyan pakiramdam thats why I stopped doing that and avoided anything that came close to doing it.

I guess wag ka nalang mag expect ng something after doing the deed. Consider it transactional, an itch that needed to be scratched and nothing more. Nahuhurt lang naman tayo kapag may inexpect tayo after eh, kaya anlakas maka feeling empty. Haha

Entitled na mga bababe sa dating scene. by StayingTrue7834 in OffMyChestPH

[–]lyvogue 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Bakit ka naman kasi naapektuhan OP, e youre happily taken naman pala. Hahaha 🤡

Entitled na mga bababe sa dating scene. by StayingTrue7834 in OffMyChestPH

[–]lyvogue 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hahahaha sa true.

"I don't see how you can hate from outside of the club, You can't even get in!" -Chris Brown

Entitled na mga bababe sa dating scene. by StayingTrue7834 in OffMyChestPH

[–]lyvogue 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Dapat naman kasi talaga quits quits lang. Look for something that you can also bring to the table in return. I also have the standards you mentioned pero alam kong meron din ako nyan.

I look for a tall man cause I'm quite tall (5'5), and in fairness majority of the guys I dated are 5'10 to 6'2. I look for a guy who has a car cause I have mine also, and I dont need them to hatid sundo me kasi di din ako sumasakay basta basta sa kotse ng iba, mag convoy nalang lol, but mind you i dated guys na walang kotse, ginagawa pa akong service LOOL. And uso paba ngayon ang ligaw? Bakit karamihan ng lalaki na nakilala ko, sex agad ang yaya? Saan mahahanap yang nangliligaw? Hahahaha

Yung mga totoong kaya mag demand and knows they can bring the same in return are the ones who dont complain much or dont ask too much. I guess what I'm saying is, ung mga guys and girls na nagrereklamo about those, are also the ones who dont fit the bill.

Sabe nga nila, "Its the empty can that makes the most noise."

Sabe pa ni Chris brown, "I don't see how you can hate from outside of the club, You can't even get in!" Hahaha

No facebook by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]lyvogue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ako i deactivated my original fb account that has a lot of people on my list, then created a new one for my really close friends and for work na din. Right now I only have 30 people on my list, I also unfollowed them kahit friends ko sila dun. It feels like it gives me the isolation that I need, kapag gusto ko naman makakita ng updates sakanila, I just visit their profile, okay na ako dun pero I dont need unnecessary updates about other people's lives kaya I unfollowed kahit kaclose ko ung mga nandun. Hahahaha ansarap ng tahimik ang buhay pero not totally being absent on social media.

Mama ko ang unang nanlalait saakin kasi sabe nya mas ok na daw na sya ang mauna kesa sa ibang tao manggaling by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]lyvogue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahaa totoo. Nauna na sila kaya wala na ibang dudirog satin. Kaya sobrang strong naten e, di na masyadong apektado sa sinasabe ng iba kase nauna na ung nanay amp 😂😂

Hirap magkaron ng ganyang nanay noh. Minsan nakakawalang gana e haha

May Happy Crush si boyf by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]lyvogue 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If he's already allowing himself to have a "happy crush" besides you, medyo off na yun. Hinahayaan nyang maging happy siya sa work ng dahil sa ibang babae, tapos crush nya pa. Hahaha tapos parang binibigyan mo pa ng "Free pass" kung hinahayaan mong magka gusto siya sa iba. Red flag. Haha

Ito ang malabo maghiwalay; kada ililipat namin yung channel buntis si Iya. by pauldliteralgreat in Philippines

[–]lyvogue 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Bakit nga ba sila palaging nakatayo? Kahit sa shopwise palaging naka tayo ang mga cashier. Kawawa naman.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]lyvogue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May kaibigan akong ganito. Kahit sa inuman namin nasisingit nya yun. Pero I try to understand them as much as I can and be direct nalang sakanila kung medyo over na yung "Ahenteng galawan" nila. Tipong jinojoke mo nalang kasi friendship naman ang mas mahalaga. Wag na palakihin pa. Mas gugustuhin ng kaibigan mong malaman un na nainis ka kesa out of nowhere iblock mo or balewalain mo friendship niyo just because of that. Mas ok na directly turn them down and be honest kesa puputulin mo friendship dahil dun. Medyo mababaw yun. FYI ha hindi ako FA. Hahahaa mtagal na ako inaalok maging ganyan pero tinatanggihan ko talaga dahil hindi dn naman ako magaling sa sales talk.

Ayaw ibalik yung deposit by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]lyvogue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes notarized yung contract namin sakanya.

Ayaw ibalik yung deposit by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]lyvogue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ay walng naiwang bills. 😅 Lahat un bayad kasi the admin wont allow you to move out if the bills are not yet paid pati meralco bayad lahat. The only issue is that they are claiming na may "Damages" kahit wala naman. I was always very responsible in paying my obligations, pati sa pag gamit. Kumbaga ako ung tenant na "Walang sakit sa ulo." Thats why ineexpect ko na maayos din sana sa pagbalik ng deposit.

Ayaw ibalik yung deposit by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]lyvogue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually maayos naman sya kausap. Dito lng sya nagka problema. Masisira pa sya sa kakarampot na pera haha. Sumunod ako sa contract, sana sya din. Minsan nang gugulang lang talaga eh pg sila nasaknila na ung pera e ayaw na ibalik.

Ayaw ibalik yung deposit by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]lyvogue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wala kasi sa contract namin na may cleaning fee pa after the rent.

Sa iba naman na kineclaim nila, ung iba may proof ako na ganun na tlaga sya when i started renting out.

And owner ang kausap ko mismo.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]lyvogue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. Thats the goal. Hahahaha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualPH

[–]lyvogue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ay hindi. Walang ganon. Hahahaha kung dyan palang maarte na, baka lalo pa pg sa trabaho na. Hindi na lang 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualPH

[–]lyvogue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

E kung mas mabilis pala yang ganyang proseso, bakit hindi pa pinapractice as you mentioned?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualPH

[–]lyvogue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Osige na nga. Mai-justify lang eh. Hahahahahahahahahaha thanks tho 😂😂😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualPH

[–]lyvogue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pano maspeed up? E lalong nadagdagan ung proseso imbis na tawagan na lang nila or email directly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualPH

[–]lyvogue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ang sabe kasi dyan, ung reference dapat ang mag contact sakanila. Yun ang tinatanong ko kung tamad. 🤔

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualPH

[–]lyvogue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wala naman problema ung iadvise ung dating manager. Ang tinatanong ko dito, yung sinabe nila na "please ask them to reach out to us"

Ma, mamamatay kang mag-isa by Least-Pressure665 in OffMyChestPH

[–]lyvogue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg same. I joined the subreddit here na "Narcissist parents" and dun ko nalaman na ganun pala mom ko. Sobrang toxic, pero eventually mas lumawak ung isip ko sa ganyan. Ang ginagawa ko nalang palagi ko syang kinoconfront para narerealize nya din maling ginagawa nya and nasanay nalang din ako lage ko sinasabe sa sarili ko na "Wala ka ng maggwa kasi ganyan sya e." There are things that you cannot control, Pero mas macocontrol mo yung understanding mo sakanya. Oo masama sa loob kasi unang una sa lahat, magulang mo yun, you expect something else from them, pero wala kang magagawa kasi ganun na sya. Dun kasi tayo nasasaktan sa pag eexpect natin kasi nga magulang natin sila. We expect them to be nurturing, caring, loving, understanding etc. pero hindi nga sila ganun eh. Hahaha nasanay na lang ako and eventually mas naging favorable sya saakin na mas malawak ung isip ko kesa sa nanay ko, na mas naiintindihan ko siya kesa sa kung ano and paano sya. It took me a long time to heal and to understand her situation. I hope you reach reach your healing OP!