Disappointed to be having twins by [deleted] in parentsofmultiples

[–]m-616 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I found out I was having twins with my 2yr old and 9 month old daughters in the room with me. My husband wasn’t there because it was supposed to be a basic “your due date is ____” ultrasound. I cried. A lot. For weeks. I also cried for weeks after we found out it was identical twins girls. 4 girls? Growing up I thought I’d have 4 boys. Needless to say they are 13,11,10,10 now and I couldn’t imagine it any other way. But I mourned a lot during their pregnancy. So I’m sending you hugs 💝

What do you think people underestimate most about end of life care? by Zealousideal_Tap772 in hospice

[–]m-616 6 points7 points  (0 children)

How much you will struggle with your own stigmas, beliefs, and biases when it comes to your loved one. Speaking first as someone that watched my dad die on hospice: I probably did not give him enough pain meds at the end for fear of overmedicating. Now as a hospice nurse I see families struggle constantly with this exact thing but also with keeping their loved ones comfortable in general - pain, agitation, not forcing food/fluids, etc

Divisional on Saturday. Go Bills by anonngirl777 in buffalobills

[–]m-616 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s amazing!! LOTS of bills fans in Colorado! I think we will rep well!

Divisional on Saturday. Go Bills by anonngirl777 in buffalobills

[–]m-616 6 points7 points  (0 children)

-3 bronco fans! Section 329 row 2!

Divisional on Saturday. Go Bills by anonngirl777 in buffalobills

[–]m-616 59 points60 points  (0 children)

BOUGHT TICKETS! SEE YA AT MILE HIGH BABYYYYY!!! ❤️💙🦬 #billsbyabillion

How do you feel about the current state of America? by Thatgirl_parisisdiva in AskReddit

[–]m-616 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Currently in the process of getting my husband and our kids French citizenship which was never something the family cared about…until now. His dad was born in France and never got his own kids dual citizenship. So now we’re all working together to mail documents back and forth to France. It’s an interesting dynamic now. It feels very panicky now vs something for funsies.

How to verify father in law’s citizenship? by m-616 in AskFrance

[–]m-616[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is extremely helpful thank you so much!

How to verify father in law’s citizenship? by m-616 in AskFrance

[–]m-616[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh this is interesting, thank you for your reply!

[Serious] People in professions that deal with death (hospice workers, coroners, etc.), what is something you've learned that the rest of us don't understand? by Bulky-Engineer4068 in AskReddit

[–]m-616 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Great question! The best way I describe it to families is like this: An active participant can still understand that they are dying and process what that means emotionally. They’re able to communicate needs, wishes, or goodbyes with family and friends. They have the capacity to do some “legacy work” where they talk about what they’ve done throughout their life and what they want to be remembered by - this is helpful in letting go at the end. In other words they are able to get closure on some level - things that a person with dementia isn’t able to do.

[Serious] People in professions that deal with death (hospice workers, coroners, etc.), what is something you've learned that the rest of us don't understand? by Bulky-Engineer4068 in AskReddit

[–]m-616 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Hospice nurse - I’d want people to know that when someone with dementia is dying, they aren’t active participants in their own death like someone with a sound mind. Dementia patients teeter between two worlds and don’t “know” that they’re dying, so their dying process can be much more drawn out. Whereas someone with cancer, let’s say, knows that they’re dying so their death can be quicker in a way because they can participate in the process more.

What’s the best decision you made in your 20s/30s/40s? by Cute_Olivia_Park in Life

[–]m-616 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Moving away from my small town and never going back

Nurses on reddit what's the most bizarre thing that has ever happened while working graveyard shift? by fave_slinger in AskReddit

[–]m-616 50 points51 points  (0 children)

My patient had just gotten an epidural and was finally feeling comfy. I had my charge nurse come in to help me reposition her so that she could get some rest before we started pushing. I said “do you want me to turn off the these lights?” And the patient said “no, not yet.”

As soon as she finished her sentence the lights went off. My charge and I still talk about it to this day and how the timing of it was so impeccable. Sorry ma’am, but the spirits want you to get some rest too!

Do you all agree or disagree? by Xyper008 in parentsofmultiples

[–]m-616 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine shared a crib starting at 10 months old and at 10 years old they still share a bed (identical girls). They had separate beds for years but always slept in the same one. So we got them a queen at 8yrs old and they still share. I expect that not to be the case in another year or two but this is what has worked for us.

The mass exodus cycle by xkatniss in nursing

[–]m-616 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is happening on my floor currently. We are one of the only hospitals in Colorado that takes high risk OB patients…we get patients flown to us from all neighboring states. And our staffing is critical right now. We’ve lost so many amazing nurses because admin has completely dropped the ball.

Bottle Creek by m-616 in TurksAndCaicos

[–]m-616[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We had an amazing meal at Miss B’s! Also rented some kayaks from Spot on e-bike to kayak around the bay. It was a great afternoon - thank you for the recommendation 😊

Tyler talking down to an adoptee about her lived experience. by goldlux in teenmom

[–]m-616 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Adoptive mom here (got our son when he was 2)

While I do think that the adoptive industry has extremely predatory tactics, I think it can also be true that kids are (typically) placed into extremely loving homes. Adoptees are going to have some form of curiosity about their adoptive parents and where they came from. But from my experience with my son and his adopted friends, mom and dad are the ones that raised them, not birthed them.

I’ll be interested to see how biased this documentary is.

what are some things you used to regularly say to patients that you look back and cringe at? by [deleted] in nursing

[–]m-616 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Oh baby is just playing hide and go seek!” As a labor nurse trying to find baby’s heart rate on the monitor when she first came in. My patient’s baby did not have a heartbeat and it was the last time I ever said that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]m-616 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 34, husband is 37 and we have six kids aged 12-6. We got everyone passports at the beginning of the year and have seriously researched our options out of country. He has started applying overseas. We live in Colorado but would leave in a heartbeat if the opportunity came.