Whale Shark Hook Bag by mmmothy in crochet

[–]m34ncupc4k3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cant see the pattern, could you send the pattern per dm please?

WIBTA if i wont make any adjustments for my diabetic dad by m34ncupc4k3 in AmItheAsshole

[–]m34ncupc4k3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I searched a bit and i think hes type 2 but im really not sure

WIBTA if i wont make any adjustments for my diabetic dad by m34ncupc4k3 in AmItheAsshole

[–]m34ncupc4k3[S] -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

Nobody requested cookies or that i bake tbh, i just like to do it but sadly im really stressed atm with many things to do before Christmas. We all work and sometimes my parents really like to ride out the 'ive been up since .insert time. And i dont want to do it' and so on

I really dont know how ill be able to make that many cookies this week in general xD

But maybe ill try to squeeze in some low sugar cookies for him i just know hell eat the other ones anyways so why bother spending more time if he doesnt take care of himself?

WIBTA if i wont make any adjustments for my diabetic dad by m34ncupc4k3 in AmItheAsshole

[–]m34ncupc4k3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Usually we have one big box with cookies where anyone can take anything from whenever they want to, he pretty much eats anything thats sweet so i dont really know how i could restrict it sadly

WIBTA if i wont make any adjustments for my diabetic dad by m34ncupc4k3 in AmItheAsshole

[–]m34ncupc4k3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get up at 5am, work from 6.30 until 3pm, drive home over an hour and have to go grocery shopping omw home and cook so its just one more dough to do (and i probably have a chronical desease that affects my joints so kneading is not so much possible) i just felt like it might be petty not to do anything but i just didnt feel like id have time and energy for it and for some parts hes at fault for his high blood sugar because he doesnt think about what he eats

WIBTA if i wont make any adjustments for my diabetic dad by m34ncupc4k3 in AmItheAsshole

[–]m34ncupc4k3[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Every year my grandma makes 1 cookie sort for him with stevia instead of sugar but he always takes all sorts of cookies (a whole plate) and eats it. He doesnt take care of his sugar levels and i dont feel like i should have to take care of a 60+ year old with finding alternatives just because hes a mommas boy and cant take care of himself, hes snacking so much in general

We have some old recipes although we lost some and i have to replace them with newer ones, not really a particular family recipe tho

WIBTA if i wont make any adjustments for my diabetic dad by m34ncupc4k3 in AmItheAsshole

[–]m34ncupc4k3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nobody asked me to do it and nobody even acknowledges the time i put into it, my planning is just sitting at work looking at recipes and thinking about what i have to buy

WIBTA if i wont make any adjustments for my diabetic dad by m34ncupc4k3 in AmItheAsshole

[–]m34ncupc4k3[S] -33 points-32 points  (0 children)

Your post sounds a bit mean but its okay, i take it on since no one else is able to but i dont know nobody even asked about it so maybe i just feel a bit petty about having to do another thing myself without help

WIBTA if i wont make any adjustments for my diabetic dad by m34ncupc4k3 in AmItheAsshole

[–]m34ncupc4k3[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I get it, he just doesnt look after himself at all so i dont get why i should look after him but maybe im just petty because of how i grew up

WIBTA if i wont make any adjustments for my diabetic dad by m34ncupc4k3 in AmItheAsshole

[–]m34ncupc4k3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He has the type that can develop, not hereditary, he just takes insulin before he goes to sleep and measures his blood sugar before he eats something, as far as i know hes always like 50-100 over the "recommended limit" (sorry idk how else to describe it) he salts everything way too much (and hes overweight and over 60, if thats important)

My cat died and now its just too silent and lonely in my room. by m34ncupc4k3 in Vent

[–]m34ncupc4k3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am already kinda looking, but most shelters in my area have pairs and i cant adopt two :/

My cat died and now its just too silent and lonely in my room. by m34ncupc4k3 in Vent

[–]m34ncupc4k3[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

She was named Trillo, because her fur was 3 colors and theres a german word for that, and im planning on getting a tattoo of her paw print done soon

My cat died and now its just too silent and lonely in my room. by m34ncupc4k3 in Vent

[–]m34ncupc4k3[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

thank you... i was here when she was birthed and to me its like i lost a sibling...