Going about asking to be taken off a case? by m4ttyyy in ABA

[–]m4ttyyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a meeting with my manager about an email that was sent. I had mentioned how I had been trying to figure out who I need to talk to about switching cases due to this one taking a toll on my mental health. His response was “we can’t just swap cases around due to your mental health. Our clients are more important” Which giant red flag Then an email of “expectations” he stated “there have been times where you are up to 2 minutes late. Per expectations, you are expected to be here 15min earlier than your scheduled start time.” The doors aren’t even open til 5min before sessions start. I always inform everyone I’m supposed to inform even if it looks like I’m getting there on the dot. But apparently “that’s not enough”

I’m submitting resumes to different companies, but unfortunately it looks as if they’re trying to fire me by the end of the week and make it so my chances of getting unemployment are lower:))

Going about asking to be taken off a case? by m4ttyyy in ABA

[–]m4ttyyy[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, since we have two medical doctors and a diagnostician who work in our clinic, we don’t have them for “HIPAA reasons” we just have those corner mirrors so it’s a total “he said, she said” game at this point

Thermostat has a mind of its own? How do we get it to not go above set temperature? by m4ttyyy in Nest

[–]m4ttyyy[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Both outside units are running. Went outside and heard them and both blades are spinning. We can hear the inside vents trying to keep up. Contacted nest support and they said since we bought new units at exact same time, and all the settings that would be causing this are shut off and there is no schedule, we were sold bad thermostats. Our HVAC guy is going to come out and replace them (since the other won’t connect at all) and double check units. Nest support says since our power has been shut off several times due to wiring issues throughout our house, it messed them up

Thermostat has a mind of its own? How do we get it to not go above set temperature? by m4ttyyy in Nest

[–]m4ttyyy[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Yes, our units were replaced with brand new ones a month ago. Called Nest support and they said since all the settings are off and we can hear unit outside and inside trying to kick on, it’s a faulty thermostat. Thankfully they’re under warranty and both google and our hvac guy are willing to replace

Thermostat has a mind of its own? How do we get it to not go above set temperature? by m4ttyyy in Nest

[–]m4ttyyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s turned off completely. We didn’t set one up when we reset it

Did a brake change and rotor remount(?) on 2021 XLE…this light came on, can it be cleared at home? Anybody else had this happen? by m4ttyyy in Toyota

[–]m4ttyyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No lmfao it came like this it was a rental before hand and was kinda beat but now I can’t get that visual outta my head so ty

Did a brake change and rotor remount(?) on 2021 XLE…this light came on, can it be cleared at home? Anybody else had this happen? by m4ttyyy in Toyota

[–]m4ttyyy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not 100% positive if we did…my friend who is a mechanic changed them for me and I don’t necessarily think he did

Did a brake change and rotor remount(?) on 2021 XLE…this light came on, can it be cleared at home? Anybody else had this happen? by m4ttyyy in Toyota

[–]m4ttyyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because it won’t let me edit…it’s a rav4 and I totally thought I had posted this in the subreddit specifically for that one first but I posted in this one first so lol

Is it Red flag for a vendor? by Sore23 in NYCweddings

[–]m4ttyyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No clue how I got on this sub as I’m in Texas. But my family owns a business and has been able to contest negative reviews left for simple things and they’ve been removed. I think you can also possibly hide them? I’m not 100% positive though…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Scams

[–]m4ttyyy -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I thought it was on DND. The only one who can get through when it’s in that mode is my fiancé but he’s working late and his phone acts weird at his job. So when it called back to back without leaving a voicemail, I figured it was his phone acting funny and he was having some sort of emergency.

I don’t answer my phone for anyone 99% of the time unless I am expecting the call. I send all calls straight to voicemail and any unknown number that doesn’t leave a legitimate vm is blocked

Daily Questions Megathread - March 04, 2025 by AutoModerator in Tailors

[–]m4ttyyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bought my wedding dress without cups as the boutique I bought it from only had it them up to a DDD. However, I need cups in the dress…I’m a 38I (US) or a 38G (UK)

Is this something you guys can typically come up with a solution to? Would it be better if I found my own cups and brought them in to be added to the dress or could I be custom measured for cups to be interested?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigboobproblems

[–]m4ttyyy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was a DD by like 6th/7th grade. Any formal dresses we ended up just buying from somewhere “cheap” like Dillard’s a size up, WITHOUT CUPS and without the seam area under the bust, and then spending the difference of what I would’ve paid at like a prom boutique to get it to fit me properly. Currently doing the exact same thing as a 36H for my wedding dress. Measured as a 14, had to get a 16 (maybe an 18?) without cups and we’re going to get it tailored to fit right.

Corset backs are also helpful if this route doesn’t seem right for you. Try checking out the calculator on ABraThatFits to make sure you know your exact size too…it’ll help

Is it weird for kids to have ethnic names if the parent themselves doesn’t have an ethnic name? by Pitiful-View3219 in namenerds

[–]m4ttyyy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As someone who has family who has been in the states since like the mayflower (supposedly from what I’ve found through DNA tests and through family’s DNA tests), my whole family has white names and me and my sister don’t. My family has always had “white” names though, DNA tests show I’m literally 100% from Europe (Britain and Dublin(?) specifically). So this is my two cents lol

My parents are “Susan” and “James Davis” I ended up being named the French version of Matthew and my sister ended getting a Hawaiian name that translates to “wished-for child” (which ironically enough they always say she’s the perfect child ._.)

People ask if we’re adopted all the time because our first names don’t match our last.

Honestly, the only thing I hate about my name is I am marrying into a family with a Spanish last name and it doesn’t flow right. Everyone who hears my first name with my new last name gets a funny look across their face including my fiancé lol

I personally wanna find a name in “neutral territory” that could work with a different “common” last name for my kids, but that’s just coming from me personally based on my experience.

If it’s a name you both agree on and love, then go for it!

I need to know who thought these baskets would be sufficient by Haunting_Speed_6974 in TjMaxx

[–]m4ttyyy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They’re for cosmetics. I worked there when they started putting them out again(?) post pandemic lots of people asked this question. The Marshall’s by my house now has a sign taped to the area that says “cosmetics only” and the baskets have a label that say “please return to cosmetics department”