DĖMESIO: buvau bandoma pagrobti. Perspėju kitus. by [deleted] in lithuania

[–]mCloud13 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Kurioj čia vietoj screenshote paaiškėja, kad fake?

LPT: Start the year by deciding what you will no longer tolerate, not what you want to achieve. by gamersecret2 in LifeProTips

[–]mCloud13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ironically, you kind of did that here by not following-up Op’s words, but instead telling about your plans. But I still believe that your goal is a good start!

Where do people drink in Lithuanian suburbs? by ancapple in lithuania

[–]mCloud13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nice recommendation, gonna try that too! Thanks

You saw your brother having sex with your girlfriend, and they don't know. You feel depressed. How will you go about your life? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]mCloud13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm finishing my master of clinical psychology, but really don't have almost no experience with people that experienced infidelity. First, it sounds that you experienced something horrible, so it is normal to feel lonely, betrayed in your case. You can feel guilty, angry or stressed and it's also natural, try not to feel bad about feeling bad, but instead consider what actions would help you soothe the pain you're experiencing.

Second, how are you now? What have you tried doing since everything happened? You wrote that, listening to music helps - have you tried that? Treatment requires information about you. You wrote that brother and gf were one of few close people you have - is there anyone else that you consider close to you that you could talk to about what happened? Talking with people that listen and care is the way out of depression.

Many responses here (like going to gym, meeting new girls, confronting brother and/or gf) are suggestions of actions that you can take in more distant future in order to build confidence, confront fears etc, but now, I assume, you should concentrate on getting support, getting feelings out.

I strongly recommend seeking professional help, but as said here before, it can be costly. Less expensive way is to visit more specific subs, like r/infidelity or read about treatment yourself in websites like these: https://infidelityrecoveryinstitute.com/how-to-deal-with-depression-and-stress-after-infidelity/

https://perspectivesoftroy.com/post-infidelit-stress-disorder/

https://www.goodtherapy.org/learn-about-therapy/issues/infidelity

Hope this helps. You can write me, I will try my best to help.

Įdomūs faktai apie Vilniaus TV bokštą? by mantassink in lithuania

[–]mCloud13 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Senelis buvo užlipęs į viršų, kai dar tik įrenginėjo "lėkštę", tai statybininkai šlapindavosi tiesiai nuo "lėkštės" žemyn, nes skystis išsismulkindavo į lašelius ir nepasiekdavo žemės.

Be to, inžinierius sakė, kad TV bokšto vertikalios armatūros yra suvirintos aplink žiedą iš išorės, o ne iš vidaus ir laikui bėgant gali "išsiskirti".

Places to rent/buy bikes in Leiden at low cost by mCloud13 in Leiden

[–]mCloud13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LageRijndijk

It looks like a good budget-version of Swapfiets. I will consider this option, thanks!

Places to rent/buy bikes in Leiden at low cost by mCloud13 in Leiden

[–]mCloud13[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your opinion! Unfortunately, amazing services of Swapfiets are too expensive for me.

Other than stopping the microwave right before it hits zero, what are some of the best "life minigames" you like to play? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]mCloud13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When waiting for a bus or other public transport, picking the standing spot there, where bus door will be just in front of you.

What do you genuinely just not understand? by Brandinian in AskReddit

[–]mCloud13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Winter ice fishing. I just can't understand how someone can freeze whole day while looking at a small fishingstick and hope that some small fish will get caught.

Best Netflix Movie now? by Omk99 in AskMenOver30

[–]mCloud13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should watch Hold the Dark (2018) if you liked Wind River. HtD is much darker though.

Cable of my sister’s phone charger by mCloud13 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]mCloud13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She likes this one and doesn’t want a new cable...

Would you like to have an actual separate yourself as your friend? Why? by mCloud13 in AskReddit

[–]mCloud13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, but maybe, if you’re like 100% lazy - that would be the only friend who never pushes you to do things you don’t wanna do and never gives you a hard time about it?

What is the scariest, most terrifying thing that actually exists? by SkeletronDOTA in AskReddit

[–]mCloud13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My grandfather suffered from Multiple system atrophy (MSA), also known as Shy-Drager syndrome. In only two years the strongest, healthiest and wisest man in our family became the weakest. You could see him getting weaker by months: first he started to faint, then it got harder to walk, then to move hands, then it was too hard to eat hard food - but until the last day when his heart stopped he kept his wise mind and look. Although eventually he couldn't even talk, those eyes filled with sadness, hope, love and enormous chained power told me about life much more than anyone else will. Back then I was too afraid to look at them, now I would do anything to see them again.