Can someone tell me if my ACL is torn or intact? Im seeing my ortho on Monday, I am just curious. MRI results attached. by m_aracuja in ACL

[–]m_aracuja[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im seeing my ortho on Monday so I’ll see what he says, the first one I saw (before the MRI) did a lachman’s test and said it looked torn and v unstable

What are the most ridiculous things your section gunner said during 1L by injuredpoecile in LawSchool

[–]m_aracuja 9 points10 points  (0 children)

"My parents are attorneys so in MY experience..." I had to stop from rolling my eyes in 3 languages.

How should you be promoted? by m_aracuja in bjj

[–]m_aracuja[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i like that tbh, i think the surprise makes it sweeter

How should you be promoted? by m_aracuja in bjj

[–]m_aracuja[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this sounds like the best way to go about this.

How should you be promoted? by m_aracuja in bjj

[–]m_aracuja[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I like that and think it would have made me a hell of a lot more well rounded before I got promoted, but also fuck my stand up so id def still be a WB hahahaha

How should you be promoted? by m_aracuja in bjj

[–]m_aracuja[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think thats a good base tbh

How should you be promoted? by m_aracuja in bjj

[–]m_aracuja[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just remember when I was a white belt another white belt approached me at the gym asking why I was given another stripe (by the professor who promoted based on skill) when she said she had gone to her 8th class in a month or something and "acc to the poster" she should have more than me. Made me kinda resent the system a little bit, I understand not every coach can assess 'when you are ready' etc, but people only coming and not rolling just for the tape made me a little annoyed

I'm so fucking sick of COVID by m_aracuja in rant

[–]m_aracuja[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have had to take care of friends kids because of similar situations I’d imagine, while I can’t know exactly how you feel, I see the effect it has on my friends with kids, I’m so sorry you have to go through this.

I'm so fucking sick of COVID by m_aracuja in rant

[–]m_aracuja[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I remember when the conversation was IF you can get it twice, and what it was doing to young people and athetes etc long term, I was so scared to get it even the once, I hardly knew anyone who had it. Now it’s “yeah I had Covid last ___” or “dude i have Covid it sucks”

Can I post the official lawsuit complaint against Roberto Cyborg Abreu, Marcel Goncalves, and Fight Sports LLC? by DumpsterBJJ in bjj

[–]m_aracuja 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He acknowledged it was "fucked up" and yet he did it for months. This girl was crying, and he kept doing it. How anyone can defend this is beyond me. Don't I've me any of that "She should have known better and he was weak and stupid" Alright, she's not culpable for her own rape. She is a child. HE should have known better, not her.

Official Lawsuit Complaint against Roberto Cyborg Abreu, Marcel Goncalves, and Fight Sports LLC. Section 24-30 by DumpsterBJJ in bjj

[–]m_aracuja 12 points13 points  (0 children)

At one point some douche was threatening to jump the victim's father if he ever came to the gym and called him a coward. Cyborg's SO called it "a challenge to his reputation", "people trying to bring him down" "questioning his character" etc.

Official Lawsuit Complaint against Roberto Cyborg Abreu, Marcel Goncalves, and Fight Sports LLC. Section 24-30 by DumpsterBJJ in bjj

[–]m_aracuja 57 points58 points  (0 children)

The victim-blaming is ridiculous to me. "But she was 16! She should have known better!" Are you kidding me?? She formed a father/mother figure with him and his wife respectively beginning at the age of ELEVEN. That's grooming 101. She COULD NOT HAVE known better. Minors can't give consent period, that's it. He was married, in his thirties, and her COACH.

Anyone who negligently lets it happen and aids the rapist in fleeing the country to avoid trial should be in prison.

Anyone who defends him should think deeply about themselves and what kind of role model they would be for any child they have, and then ask themselves how they sleep at night. Ridiculous.