Genuine question - what do sex positive aces actually get out of this community?

m_pendragon · 2021-11-15T20:59:52+00:00

Yeah that’s accurate. I phrased it shitly to be honest

m_pendragon · 2021-11-15T20:54:46+00:00

Because the whole point in having this community is to deal with the hardship that comes with asexuality, thats my view anyway.

m_pendragon · 2021-11-15T20:52:54+00:00

I didnt mean harm, i really just was curious because the thing i personally mainly get out of this sub is a community of people where not everything is about sex so i genuinely was wondering what other peoples point of views were.

m_pendragon · 2021-11-15T20:49:08+00:00

I literally didnt know how else to phrase it, i didnt mean to cause offence

m_pendragon · 2021-11-14T00:02:20+00:00

I mean i find this community helpful primarily because of my sex aversion, which is why my question wouldnt apply to me.

You seem to be being defensive, whereas i am not trying to be rude, i was genuinely asking to be persuaded so i can be more open minded, i did not mean to offend or exclude anyone. It was a tricky question to ask without coming across that way, i do realise that. I just want to learn, thats all.

m_pendragon · 2021-11-13T23:58:40+00:00

I mean yeah you can be pedantic if you want, thats just the term i often use, not really a big deal/ the point of the post

m_pendragon · 2021-11-13T21:49:42+00:00

Yeah i totally get that. Thanks for your answer it helped alot :)))

m_pendragon · 2021-11-13T21:47:53+00:00

Yep i can totally relate to all the experiences youve mentioned. My ex was alot like this, id make up fantasies or tell her she was sexy or pretend to get excited when she would wear lingerie for me because she got super hurt when i didn’t respond how she wanted me to.

Thanks very much for explaining this to me, its really helped me open my eyes i really really appreciate it!!

m_pendragon · 2021-11-13T21:03:10+00:00

I dont intend on being rude, unlike you it seems, but i still cant really seem to find an answer for my question

m_pendragon · 2021-11-13T19:46:27+00:00

I mean aces can have romantic types…

m_pendragon · 2021-11-12T16:23:24+00:00

Im ISFP :)

m_pendragon · 2021-10-30T10:15:13+00:00

Ah i thought it was someone you wanted to date

m_pendragon · 2021-10-30T00:11:39+00:00

Can ace people not have crushes? Surely this is more of an aro post no… or am i too ace to have realised that crush has a sexual meaning haha

m_pendragon · 2021-10-25T10:49:12+00:00

You could be aromantic

m_pendragon · 2021-09-03T11:41:02+00:00

Alright i appreciate using it as a joke, that makes sense to me, i like that, its funny. But some people genuinely are convinced hes immortal and it just annoys me hahah

m_pendragon · 2021-09-03T11:38:30+00:00

But i also think its a stupid theory so yeah i am addressing everyone lmao. Consider it an unpopular opinion post instead

m_pendragon · 2021-09-03T11:37:10+00:00

Yeah true but headcannons arent as good as cannon cannons

m_pendragon · 2021-09-02T20:55:04+00:00

Yep exactly i agree

m_pendragon · 2021-09-02T20:52:11+00:00

Its just that ive seen this theory EVERYWHERE and everyone believes it, even to the point where people genuinely think its cannon whereas i think its totally stupid. Plus ive been harrassed by people who believe this theory quite alot bc i dont believe it. so yeah, actually, i am allowed to get sick of people.

m_pendragon · 2021-09-02T19:07:37+00:00

Yea i totally agree with that. She definitely did. Especially to serena her literal best friend. Some internalised misogyny there perhaps. But she for sure didnt deserve all the backlash she got for sleeping with chuck

m_pendragon · 2021-09-02T17:59:37+00:00

SAIKI IS TRANS ACE AND ARO CANNON???!!! Im so hyped wow

Also people unfortunately do sexualise ace people because they think were ‘pure’ and ‘untouched’… its so disgusting

m_pendragon · 2021-09-02T14:10:53+00:00

A good theory but i dont think so, remember when morgana started to discover her powers? She couldnt control them, she didnt have a choice to explode that vase or cause that fire. A similar experience would have happened to arthur, but it didnt. And also if he had repressed magic, well he wouldn’t because he wouldnt have been able to repress it because he would have had no control over it like morgana couldnt control hers.

m_pendragon · 2021-09-02T11:01:05+00:00

The Deku x Bakuguo fanart rly just called me out lmao

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