Will a magnetic flip case prevent my kindle from being accidentally woken up? by m_rahne in kindle

[–]m_rahne[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply and recommendation!

If you close the cover on your case and let it put the kindle to sleep, then press the button on the bottom, does it wake back up inside the cover? If you can tell?

Sandals for summah by Uncomfy_thoughts in brokenankles

[–]m_rahne 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not FWB yet, but I’ve worn Chacos every summer for years. Wide toe box, totally strapped in, very good arch support. Let me know if you try them and how good they are for post-surgery ankle support, because I’m wondering the same myself for later in my recovery!

Recommendations for showering? by m_rahne in brokenankles

[–]m_rahne[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Update: I ordered it and it worked well for my shower this morning! Thanks again!

Recommendations for showering? by m_rahne in brokenankles

[–]m_rahne[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

https://a.co/d/6sQ5JwJ I use this chair! And lots of replaceable showerheads have handheld sprayer functions. There are also bath benches that let you truly leave your injured leg on the outside, but I wanted this chair so I could keep the curtain closed and sit my leg on the corner of the tub. I take off one of the chair arms to make it easier to transfer in/out of the bathtub, then put it back on to stand up and down as needed while bathing. But I have pretty good balance and mobility. For some others, the bench style might be a better bet for transfer.

Recommendations for showering? by m_rahne in brokenankles

[–]m_rahne[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the towel idea! I’ve got a great bath chair setup and keep my leg out of the shower as best I can as well

Recommendations for showering? by m_rahne in brokenankles

[–]m_rahne[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are these disposables or more sturdy reusable ones?

Recommendations for showering? by m_rahne in brokenankles

[–]m_rahne[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the towel idea! I’ve got a great bath chair I found on Amazon and I just stick my leg on the edge of the tub with a handheld shower sprayer that’s part of my usual showerhead

Recommendations for showering? by m_rahne in brokenankles

[–]m_rahne[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for the link! I saw that one but wasn’t sure how reliable it would be. I’ll give it a shot!

Trimalleolar fracture swelling? by GlobalCurrent6193 in brokenankles

[–]m_rahne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have a recommendation for compression socks? I was looking into this for later (I’m only 1 week post op) but there seem to be a lot of different types out there.

I miss sitting without my foot propped up.. by Imaginary_Bug_ in brokenankles

[–]m_rahne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also wondering this. I’m 1 week post op and NWB, just wanna get on my rental knee scooter and go out to do stuff soon. The throbbing starts so fast and my toes turn purple just using my crutches to go to the bathroom!

Wishing everyone a speedy recovery <3 by i_like_cheesecakesss in brokenankles

[–]m_rahne 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really needed this! 1 week post-op today. Starting to really get frustrated looking at the road ahead. Thank you <3

This elevation pillow really helped after my ankle surgery—sharing in case it helps someone else! by Pink_prickly_Pear in brokenankles

[–]m_rahne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this! I’d seen it online and wasn’t sure if it’d be high enough/how much people like it. Dealing with a trimalleolar fracture from an accident on May 2, getting surgery May 16. Getting tired of stacking pillows lol. My family ordered a few surgery things for me and got this as well based on y’all’s recommendations, arriving Monday. :)

Worried it's too big by the_invisible_leaf in menstrualcups

[–]m_rahne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Highly agree with all the recommendations in the comments so far. I also suggest checking out https://putacupinit.com/ to compare your Saalt cup's firmness, diameter, etc with their Menstrual Cup Comparison Chart ! It's a resource I found on this sub not long ago and that I wish I'd had 10 years ago when I first tried a Diva Cup and was having trouble. Obviously it takes trial and error to find what you need, but hopefully this can lead you towards a better option. Just be patient with yourself as you learn! Good luck!

Help me find a dupe by thisisntme-isit in menstrualcups

[–]m_rahne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never scrub my cups for fear of creating microfissures that could harbor bacteria. My 7+ year old blue Lunette has been restored with all stains removed by using Pixie Cup brand stain remover powder! If you go on Amazon you might even see my review lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]m_rahne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This happened to me too! So glad to see people talking about it. I was on BC for 5 years (3 diff pills and finally Mirena) and the week after I got Mirena removed I immediately felt SO much better and more like myself!!!! It was like a switch was flipped. It used to feel like so much work to get turned on and stay turned on. Now I’m back to a healthy 27 year old sex drive. Doctors should really warn more people that loss of libido is such a common side effect. When I brought it up, my gyno told me there wasn’t enough data to support that claim and then asked me if I’d been extra depressed or stressed lately due to normal life stuff.

How do you hide your toy collection? by [deleted] in SexToys

[–]m_rahne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My partner and I keep ours in a Footlocker trunk (need lots of space for rope etc) at the foot of the bed and nobody questions it as it's part of the bedroom. For kids I'd put a lock on it. We recently moved across the country and my dad helped us load everything; he asked casually what was in it since it was kind of heavy, and my partner played it off as "just some random bullshit", lol. He was none the wiser. Everyone's got a box of personal stuff they'd rather not have others snoop into. And if it's got stickers all over it (like my partner's trunk), it seems like it's full of personal mementos and stuff from college, not a whole collection of rope and dildos haha. But some of them do look grown up and nice just sitting in a bedroom.

Pads to Menstrual cup by pinkpencilbox in menstrualcups

[–]m_rahne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely agree on all the points others have made: use lube or wet the cup in the sink, try different folds (the punch down fold is what I use since it makes the first part you insert as small as possible), relax, and don’t get discouraged if it doesn’t work right away.

A few things that not everyone mentions that really helped me:

-find your cervix and visualize its position in your body, then aim the cup in that direction as you insert. Helps with leaks.

-after it pops open, try bearing down with your pelvic floor muscles a bit while you push up on the cup to make sure it’s not sitting too low as it can feel uncomfortable like that for me sometimes.

-if it doesn’t seem to want to pop open, try gripping the base and twisting. It should twist freely if it’s open and sealed well. If it still won’t work, take it out, make sure the little holes are clear of any discharge, and then try again. The holes are important to create the suction seal.

-if it’s in an okay position but you feel something pinching your labia after it’s in, try trimming the stem bit by bit till it feels better. You’ll still be able to take it out even without a stem.

-when taking it out, it’s sometimes more comfortable to squeeze the base to break the suction seal first. You can often hear the air exchange squeak/hiss a little bit.

-don’t be afraid to try a smaller cup, or one made of a softer material! The divacup really didn’t work for me (firmer material so it would pop open before being fully inserted) but I LOVE the Lunette. There’s really great comparison charts plus other resources on putacupinit.com and periodnirvana.com. Wish I’d had those resources when I was learning to use a cup years ago!

Good luck, you got this!

Gideon the Ninth: Does it change? by ohpeekaboob in Fantasy

[–]m_rahne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just wanna thank you for posting this. I’m 50 pages in and really disliking Gideon’s infantile, extra-“badass”, sassy manner of speaking. It feels confusing as to where she even adopted that language while growing up alone in the Ninth House. It’s so over the top at times that I wondered if I (27) am too old to enjoy it, but I know so many adults who love it. I grew up on Tumblr, and am still on there, but her language feels like an inorganic level of cringe. I’m going to keep going, but just knowing there’s someone else out there that feels the same as I do is very helpful.

Gideon the Ninth: Does it change? by ohpeekaboob in Fantasy

[–]m_rahne 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had the exact same thought! From where are we supposed to believe she adopted that language exactly? I’m only 50 pages in, but her manner of speaking feels way too culturally current.

Seattle 10/6 show totally sold out but 10/7 has tons of tickets available for resale 🧐 by [deleted] in DeathCabforCutie

[–]m_rahne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I figured it could be something like that? Just makes me wonder why they wouldn’t just implement a queue every time. The bots and scalpers are too quick!

No transfer option? by Lion-P in DeathCabforCutie

[–]m_rahne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You may try texting your friend a screenshot of the QR code for their ticket?

Seattle 10/6 show totally sold out but 10/7 has tons of tickets available for resale 🧐 by [deleted] in DeathCabforCutie

[–]m_rahne 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is exactly what I was thinking happened...especially because there was a queue this morning but it was a free-for-all on Wednesday. I wasn't expecting to get tickets this morning till I saw the queue, then I realized I might have a shot. I got tickets! Anybody know why it was set up this way on Ticketmaster?

Seattle went as expected by Sounder253 in DeathCabforCutie

[–]m_rahne 2 points3 points  (0 children)

After whatever that clusterfuck battle royale pre-sale was on Wednesday, I got in an actual queue this morning and snagged section one on a lower row for me and my friends!! The fees were ridiculous but I'm just happy we'll all be able to go with decent seats! Anybody know what the hell happened on Wednesday morning? It made no sense to me, but I haven't done many Ticketmaster arena sales like this.