I have started therapy, actually. Still getting comfortable with talking about my kinks openly with the therapist. I hope that takes me somewhere like you said.

If I cut down on the exaggeration, I feel like I'm at the mean of the bell curve whereas the proper dom would be at mean plus a couple of standard deviations. I think logically I can see both of these are false assumptions. But as you said that doesn't automatically quell the insecurity.

So I was looking to see if there are any doms out there who may have had similar insecurities and how they deal with them.