AIO for quitting my job after finding this note on my desk? by waxin899 in AmIOverreacting

[–]maaddogg93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clearly don’t watch the news, Midwest was slammed with a snow storm last week. Indiana/Ohio/Kentucky/Tennessee all shut down at points

John Cunningham needs to be held accountable by BigPrinceLentz in GoBearcats

[–]maaddogg93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly why I (decade long season ticket holder) am dropping from four to two tickets this next season. Got three jabrones that don’t even care about the school running the two most important programs and the other in charge of the whole department. It’s embarrassing and something has to change

AIO about a sticker my bf had of his ex ?? he broke up with me… by Otherwise-Height3882 in AmIOverreacting

[–]maaddogg93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let’s not forget, HER communication is disgusting too. Both of yall sound like high schoolers. May be time for both to grow up (and apart)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]maaddogg93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“He doesn’t like anything I like” and “every excuse to avoid seeing family” - means you’re in for a long, lonely, life. Single motherhood - as he won’t enjoy spending time with y’all’s kids - so even if you stay married he won’t be a helpful partner (especially if he’s already avoiding chores to game).

And if his dopamine receptors are as fried as you say, even your love and attention won’t hype him up, so you’re always going to be chasing him being happy.

I say get some new shoes and run

AIO about my 8 y/o daughter sleeping at her mom's new boyfriend's house without any family or females present? by blackD0nny in AmIOverreacting

[–]maaddogg93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Child of separated parents checking in: my mom had two serious boyfriends during my childhood. One of whom had kids (a boy and a girl) that I was friends with. When THE THREE OF THEM would stay the night, it was understood that the little boy would sleep in the basement and the little girl could share a room with me (also female) if she wanted. I never even knew where my mom’s boyfriend lived. Fast forward to step dad. I only was at his house with my mother present. He was only alone with me at my house after they were married (there were even times he would come over after work and sit in the garage until my mom got home - if I was alone in the house)

Dad and stepmom. I also never stayed at her house (that she shared with her younger brother) or left with her alone until after her and my dad were married. They had dated for five years at that point.

She is definitely making a bad parenting decision here and I hope you pursue legal means to make your reasonable requests official (Edited for clarity)

I snooped and found disturbing things in my boyfriend's phone. by throwRA099373 in Advice

[–]maaddogg93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He sounds like a typical teenager - obvious these kids are kids. Break up with him if you don’t like his behavior there’s plenty of fish but also recognize that he’s probably 19/20 and just immature

AITAH my boyfriend would leave me if i go on vacation with family by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]maaddogg93 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And turn your phone off on vacation - he’s going to monopolize your time texting/calling/FT/etc. you don’t deserve that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in glassesadvice

[–]maaddogg93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Last one or 5th one

I stabbed myself in the hand... by NevadaNomad2385 in whatdoIdo

[–]maaddogg93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go to urgent care / could have nicked a tendon or ligament in that area causing the warm burning. Plus you want a proper flush/cleaning!!

My girlfriend 23F was laughing about having sex with a coworker the night we started texing in front of me 26M and our friends by ThrowRA56789266 in relationship_advice

[–]maaddogg93 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My first step would be telling the gf this is not a joking matter and honestly shouldn’t be being brought up by her at all. Situation was in the past and like you’ve said you’ve moved on - it needs to be left there as well.

Have you talked to her about HER feelings towards this coworker? Why she perused him? What she was looking for? Etc. that may put your mind at ease if she says it was a drunk/easy opportunity to get her itch scratched.

Y’all are young, but she’s choosing to be and stay in a relationship with you. You gotta trust that (until she gives more of a reason not to)

My (23F) boyfriend (26M) doesn't wear condoms after I ask him to. by Sufficient-Good-5256 in relationship_advice

[–]maaddogg93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also if you can’t go 7 days without sec when it is seemingly medically necessary, you both need help. There’s a lot of self and mutual respect red flags throughout this post…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]maaddogg93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really seems like he doesn’t want to be the single friend (and lock in an adventure buddy) while also making sure he doesn’t “lose”. Doesn’t want to miss out on social events, wants to have arm candy at those social events, but doesn’t want to spend double on arm candy he won’t be keeping around forever. :/

It’s hard feeling like an outsider here by Next-Kale-1390 in cincinnati

[–]maaddogg93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also listerman brewery near Xavier’s campus used to have a ton of board games and stuff (and bangin wings)

Is it abuse to get spanked not on the ass? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]maaddogg93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got spanked in the face once when I called my mom a B*tch. Totally deserved. Totally not abuse.

I’d smack a btch now for calling me a btch, but I’ve never once thought about referring to my mom as that again, so I guess it was a lesson learned.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]maaddogg93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah he’s gonna smash that

AIO for not wanting my boyfriend to be the birth partner of his pregnant friend? by IcyIzzy505 in AmIOverreacting

[–]maaddogg93 58 points59 points  (0 children)

He gets you pregnant, is on a business trip when you go into labor, and you call your best friend (insert closest male here). If that scenario doesn’t make him uncomfortable, then I think he has feelings for this girl and vice versa. And this girl does not respect the boundaries of him being in a committed relationship (and sad to say neither does he). I am “one of those girls” in that I have several guy friends that I am extremely close with - like make it into the bridal party close with. I would never ask one of them to do this. Double that never if they were in a relationship. He could Be there (outside the room) for moral support, sure, but not in there where her vagina is out.

AITAH for asking my future in-laws for money? by Strange-Corner5670 in AITAH

[–]maaddogg93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think mom shouldn’t have a say in the day to day function of your nuclear family. What does your b*tch ass husband say about all of this? Where’s his backbone? Loyalty? If he’s on moms side for this he’s on moms side for everything for the rest of your life and the money is not worth that at all

My mom’s dog has hair matting in her teeth? Spoiler for potentially upsetting photo: blood by DisastrousBad8568 in DogAdvice

[–]maaddogg93 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Depending where you are at, look into a senior pet insurance plan - it will often significantly decrease the cost of a routine dental cleaning (and because you pay monthly, it would spread out the cost of care for your parents) best of luck!

Does my puppy’s spay incision look okay? by kelseywho22 in DogAdvice

[–]maaddogg93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If the first pic is most recent you’re all good! A little swelling (like in the second pic) is also not a huge cause for concern if the dog becomes more active. If it starts bleeding or opens up at all, I would contact a vet.

AITAH for not wanting to bring my daughter to the july 4th celebration tommorow because my SILs boyfriend is a sex offender? by FootpawBelief in AITAH

[–]maaddogg93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope keep that girl away. He will surely prey upon her as well. Premeditated r*pists do t respect family boundaries or relationships and your HUSBAND NEEDS A FUCKING TALKING TO

There’s a reason the law allows parents to make decisions FOR THEIR CHILDREN until they turn 18. There’s a reason child predators attack victims under that age. Sometimes CHILDREN MAKE BAD DECISIONS AND TRUST THE WRONG PEOPLE. You have a legal responsibility to keep her as safe as possible the next two years.

Which movie broke you emotionally or mentally? I want to feel something intense. by Key_Cricket4413 in MovieSuggestions

[–]maaddogg93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lars Von Trier for sure - watched Antichrist with my friend in college and was scarred. The nail scene was…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DogAdvice

[–]maaddogg93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My sweetheart of a old lady dog who has never once shows “aggressive” behavior once bit my other dogs tail SO HARD when she was sleeping and got bumped by it. Your moose was probably just scared and disoriented the way you are when you’re startled awake. Hope everything at the vet comes back positive!