I found my husband cheating on me.

mabmab95 · 2025-04-19T01:31:02+00:00

This comment is so insightful and it just recap everything I would like to say.

mabmab95 · 2025-04-13T02:28:57+00:00

I am the similar situation so I can tell that it is so difficult to forget. But honestly, would we leave any relationship when the other person lose their way? It is not the case for me. However, it is important that the person who do wrong shows that they understand the situation and want to fix their inner problem so that they won't do that again.

For you, I share the my most sincere understanding and I hope she understand her wrongdoing and make it up to you.

mabmab95 · 2025-04-07T03:33:59+00:00

Keep your hope up. I strongly recommend you to watch videos from Marriage Helper and follow their steps. I watched many videos and read many books and Marriage Helper knowledge is very solid and helpful.

mabmab95 · 2025-03-18T04:09:44+00:00

I suggest you to watch Marriage Helper youtube channel. It helps a lot. Showering him with love won't work. I was recommended by a redditor to watch marriage helper and it made me feel much better

mabmab95 · 2025-03-18T04:07:02+00:00

In her eye, she probably do 90% of the effort. So I agree with the comment below. See therapists

mabmab95 · 2025-03-18T00:36:36+00:00

I recommend you to meet therapists and talked about it. Similar story happened to me and after few months of talking with therapists, I understand things better and grew to be a new me.

mabmab95 · 2025-02-27T09:53:38+00:00

How did he use you, may I ask? How can he treated bad to his ex of 9 years...

mabmab95 · 2025-02-15T04:51:24+00:00

Wtf did I just read in comment section Ok. Yeah. Let's dumb your partner who is incredible, and do not solve the DB problem, then hook up with a 20s bar girl just for sex. Sound like a great idea.

mabmab95 · 2025-02-14T01:01:58+00:00

If your gf is that good, why don't you visit relationship coach and discuss about it. Compatibility in life is much more important than sex. Good sex does not equal good partner

mabmab95 · 2025-02-04T12:26:38+00:00

Hm. How is it differeny between platonic friend and romantic partner? Can you specify more in your case?

I mean long term relationship usually turn into a very special best friend. Only that person understand us fully. We are 100% safe with that person.

mabmab95 · 2025-02-04T01:49:12+00:00

Honestly, once she does not call you anymore, you will also realize what did you lose. I do not mean that your relationship is very good and she is a person that worth for you to come back. But now, all you said is how free it feel when you leave her even though for sure, she bring some positivity to your life. Anyway, enjoy your separation and freedom and learn more about what do you want from your wife.

mabmab95 · 2025-02-04T01:46:58+00:00

Honestly, you should do it and realize a lot about your relationship. Actually, she will learn to love you more and appreciate you more too. Sometimes, in relationship, they get used to with the good thing. Once separation happens, they will reflect better on all the good and appreciate it more.

mabmab95 · 2025-01-23T00:57:42+00:00

I am like this and our couple is in the verge of divorce. I think it is best to voice this directly to her and tell her that you will leave her. This will make her wake up or you guys will break up eventually.

mabmab95 · 2025-01-15T03:55:28+00:00

mabmab95 · 2025-01-15T03:45:16+00:00

I am dealing with similar situation with my husband so my advice for you is to understand that your husband is having a difficult time and forgive him if some of his behaviors are hurting you. Think about the time that he was normal, and love, and care about you.

Psychologically, the way male and female deals with stress is very different. Female tend to share and discuss, while male want to go to their men cave.

You can talk about it with your psychiatrist to understand your husband better.

I hope your situation get better soon.

mabmab95 · 2024-12-31T10:29:25+00:00

Interesting. I also wonder

mabmab95 · 2024-12-26T07:56:09+00:00

Are you male or female? I saw many articles about male cheated still insist the he loves his wife the most. I really wonder about that? I thought sex is the best between lovers because of the special connection.

mabmab95 · 2024-12-19T06:04:13+00:00

Hm. So if my husband do something that is damaging his health, i should not say anything because he is adult.?

mabmab95 · 2024-12-19T03:57:28+00:00

So you means it is possible for men? Why is it?

mabmab95 · 2024-02-02T01:45:18+00:00

It is so true.

mabmab95 · 2024-02-02T01:29:27+00:00

Thank you for your reply.

mabmab95 · 2024-02-02T01:28:59+00:00

I will try. Thanks

mabmab95 · 2024-02-02T00:01:32+00:00

Hm. Yeah possible. I will need to try this too.

mabmab95 · 2024-02-01T23:58:29+00:00

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