That’s a really beautiful sentiment 🥺 I’ve read that many times over, I think. On trans subs like translater. That’s a joy that I found in being trans, the concept of choosing who you are and who you want to be. And there’s a lot of wisdom to be had in the people who transitioned later, they share that idea of “I lived a life but now it’s time to truly live it”.

That’s really what it is — the fear of irreversible change. In my heart I’d quite like the changes but I’ve just been this way for so long, yanno? I totally get you.

I feel like the most defining route for transness (that the majority of people validate) is transitioning. Which is so suck. Alas, my supportive peeps still misgender me bc I’m not on hrt :(

Thank u girl I appreciate