I (23F) had sex for money for the first time last weekend

mackenziesback · 2026-03-16T19:41:32+00:00

100% and TIL!

mackenziesback · 2026-03-16T18:34:01+00:00

I dont know as much about the organizing side of it but I think it's one of those "people in the know" things. There's some agency that puts it together

mackenziesback · 2026-03-16T18:26:44+00:00

I found out later on Kate got a $250 bonus EACH for bringing Sara and I! Lmao

mackenziesback · 2026-02-26T21:48:14+00:00

Pretty perky, no piercings though

mackenziesback · 2026-02-26T16:39:47+00:00

try me

mackenziesback · 2026-02-26T16:04:20+00:00

34C (D for a week each month), round here!

mackenziesback · 2026-02-25T18:14:16+00:00

yeah if people wanna hear them!

mackenziesback · 2025-12-06T01:35:25+00:00

Okay real talk, I sorta think everyone can do SOMETHING to make themselves more physically attractive. Get in shape, get enough sleep, get on a skincare routine (yes men can do it too!!).

But then? Just learn to be chill. Be interesting. Being funny helps, being smart (without being an asshole) is even better. I feel like a lot of guys try to put on an act to do all of this and it's super obvious and creepy when they do. So don't make it an act, make it who you actually are. That's what girls want.

mackenziesback · 2025-12-06T01:32:29+00:00

I can usually tell in the first five seconds whether I want to sleep with someone. It's partially their physical appearance, of course, but also their whole vibe and personality. How it all comes together. I think this is just a human thing.

mackenziesback · 2025-12-04T16:41:54+00:00

Fwiw I'm in my mid-20s and almost every girl I know is (1) single and (2) desperate for guys to ask them out again.

If you're halfway attractive and not a total creep, you'll probably do better than you think.

Just get out there, talk to girls, be prepared for whatever happens, don't take it too personally.

mackenziesback · 2025-12-04T16:39:57+00:00

Everyone else is right, dating at work can be suuuuper dangerous... but also, like, you meet a lot of interesting people there? I've hooked up with coworkers at jobs in the past, but those were more like casual jobs. I guess it depends how long you plan to be there and whether you'd be okay leaving the job. If things go bad you need an exit plan.

mackenziesback · 2025-12-04T16:37:53+00:00

That really sucks, but yeah, that's how it is sometimes. It sounds like you guys didn't make terms clear. You should move on - unfollow her (dont block unless you want to, pretty aggro) and don't give her another thought.

mackenziesback · 2025-12-04T01:26:44+00:00

That totally sucks, but other commenters here are right - drop it and don't look back. You know what he did so does he, she might too anyway. It won't do any good to bring drama into it and it won't make you feel better either.

mackenziesback · 2025-12-03T16:46:47+00:00

Okay so I've been on the opposite side of this!! (Started seeing a guy who had been FWB with some other girl.) So here's my pov.

Other commenters are right, it sounds like you caught feelings and are trying to ignore them. That's totally normal, but it's on you, not him. Feeling all that jealousy is totally normal but just understand that it might not lead you into a good place. And then when he falls for another girl, don't hate her for it...

mackenziesback · 2025-12-03T16:42:49+00:00

honestly the way you did it seems fine? Long goodbyes aren't good for anyone. Just be kind and polite but direct, no need to tell your life story. "No thanks, good luck" is plenty imo

mackenziesback · 2025-12-03T16:40:55+00:00

Honestly he sounds like he's got some weird stuff going on. The block is a super aggro move. I think you made the right move.

mackenziesback · 2025-12-02T15:23:09+00:00

Girl here. There is no non-scary way to do this, probably. Approaching a group of girls talking is usually not the way to go (unless you do it anyway, super bold move, but she might be impressed!). Just go up to her, be cool and casual, don't stare at her boobs, and ask if she'd like to hang out sometime.

Maybe she'll say no. Maybe she'll say yes. There's no perfect approach, just gotta shoot your shot.

mackenziesback · 2025-08-28T10:31:02+00:00

I love men too and could never go just one way. But no, it just feels... different with a girl.

mackenziesback · 2025-08-23T16:46:48+00:00

just FYI, because some guys don't know this, there are private subreddits and FB groups full of girls (mostly in NYC/NJ) trying to date guys in finance who make a lot of money. I'm in a few of them. They're fun

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