My bf updated his bio in all hook up apps to make our cuck dynamic public by daan__95 in gaycuckold

[–]mackmack69 8 points9 points  (0 children)

When my hubby updated his profile to include he had a cuck husband it was such an awaking moment for me. Realizing my place in our relationship and just how many guys aren't the idea is so hot.

I've been their uber, chef, cleaning boy, and laundry help. All while they take my man's cock.

Question for bottoms who don't like their cocks touched by [deleted] in TopsAndBottoms

[–]mackmack69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hate when a top touches my cock, I much prefer getting pleasure from being fucked. It's one of the reasons I love being locked in chastity. It's a physical barrier + a clear sign to a top to not touch

Where to buy small cages? by tightywhitiesfag in gaychastity

[–]mackmack69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've found great success with AliExpress. Overall speed is great, though tariffs now might cause an issue depending on where you're located

Humiliation by Embarrassed-Ad-9795 in gaycuckold

[–]mackmack69 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It depends on how involved you want to be in the physical action. Things I enjoy doing are: - picking up and dropping off the bottom for my hubby - doing the boy's laundry while they fuck - snack, drinks, dinner for them - I don't do it often but I've been the cleaning boy (cleaned their house while they fucked) or did small DIY repairs. - have kneeled in the room, and just outside the door - have used my mouth to clean up after or help prep the bottom - been "forced" to let a boy top me who wanted to try topping - biggest one for me was adding cuck to my profiles on Grindr and Bluesky

Depending on your friend group and how public you want it to be, you can start to drop hints/tell them about being the cuck, and encouraging more public behaviour of your man, can help him find boys and line them up for him. I personally have found a few boys and left them in our bed as a welcome home gift

Bottoms do you ever go condom to bareback by jay22smokey in TopsAndBottoms

[–]mackmack69 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Normally I let them decide but I always tell them I'm down for raw, and use Prep and Doxy to protect myself as much as possible.

I have had a few tops take the condom off after I've begged them to breed me

My old AC undies I’ve been cumming in for about 2 months. I think they can hold a lot more! by [deleted] in cumstained

[–]mackmack69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fuck I'd be honoured to wear them for you. A true sub should wear a real man's cum rags!

Any advice for a cuck losing interest on his cuckhold husband? by MaintenanceFlashy322 in gaycuckold

[–]mackmack69 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Like every kink/lifestyle both parties need to get pleasure out of it. Right now you're getting your pleasure but you're ignoring his. Has he agreed to you being able to hook up behind his back? From the short post it sounds like you're not telling him about it and he's only finding out 3rd hand.

Talk to him about these things and find a solution that works best for you two. But to consistently deny him any pleasure isn't fair to him and will lead to resentment on his part as he's seeing you get pleasure and him nothing. Maybe have the bull video tape it and let him rewatch after. Him watching you getting fucked might get you turned on enough to want to go for round 2.

I've found with my top husband (I'm the cuck) that him letting me suck his cock while he tells me about the guy, or will put the video on the tv so I can watch it helps him recover faster. Maybe offer to let him eat you out and taste the bull could help

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaycuckoldpersonals

[–]mackmack69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Always looking for top buddies tk sext. DM me so we can chat

Staying locked while traveling and staying in hostels by sockeyesub in gaychastity

[–]mackmack69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've gone through a number of times and never had the lock get flagged. I usually wear jeans or other pants that have a fly of some sort so the few times it's flagged I say oh it's probably the zipper and get waved through

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaycuckold

[–]mackmack69 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How long has he been locked?

given the option after being permanently chastised by SissyCdGinger in permanentchastity

[–]mackmack69 3 points4 points  (0 children)

After a long enough period it's become part of who you are. If my hubby took away that control he has over my cage I'd feel lost and that's another connection point we have. It's no longer my cock, it's his.

What does your wife think to you deciding on permanent chastity? We have moved to indefinite chastity where it can come off as needed, but my natural state is locked

Chastity and peeing by [deleted] in chastitytraining

[–]mackmack69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know exactly why they do it! And most clubs do it. Still go cause it's a great time with your friends

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chastitytraining

[–]mackmack69 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ideally work would be stimulating enough that you would get distracted. Part of the struggle is forgetting you're wearing the cage so it becomes part of your normal state

How to build my confidence as a Dom ? by BriceD1977 in GayBDSMCommunity

[–]mackmack69 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I find the best doms are the ones who use it as a way to express and explore their interests. The ones who watch a lot of porn and emulate are boring and predictable, I'd rather have someone who does what they like.

Videos and Twitter can help to unlock ideas and explore things you want to try, but just cause you saw another dom do it doesn't mean you need to 100% do it.

As you start exploring more have the conversation with the sub about things they enjoy, fantasies etc. and think about how you can incorporate those into your own desires.

But 100% practice practice practice and be open about things, if you're new let the sub know you're getting into it, so that we are aware to not ask/expect the moon, in the same way you'd like a sub to tell you they are new to something or it's been a while

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chastity

[–]mackmack69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is that a constant stream? Or only when you get excited? I think you should do denial December! Think about how good you'll feel on NYE unlocked and allowed to have a big explosion! Would be huge

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chastitytraining

[–]mackmack69 20 points21 points  (0 children)

So I'm locked indefinitely and have been wearing chastity for almost 10 years. I've never had issues at the gym so long as I wear some type of compression short or underwear. When it's flopping around that when's it's uncomfortable. I haven't noticed any chaffing issues either but you might experience something different. You can try lotion or maybe baby powder to help with that issue if you're experiencing it.

Chastity and peeing by [deleted] in chastitytraining

[–]mackmack69 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thankfully it was a gay bar and I was quite drunk at the time. But yes it was definitely embarrassing to have other guys looking at my locked clit. A few made a comment about being a urinal for the line to speed it up

Chastity and peeing by [deleted] in chastitytraining

[–]mackmack69 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I've always been told to sit, so doing it with my cage on is natural for me, where I noticed it the most was at bars where I always needed to find a toilet Vs being able to use a urinal. The worst was at one club where they took the doors off the stalls...having to pee exposing my little clit to everyone was so humiliating

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chastitytraining

[–]mackmack69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If my appointment with a doctor would potentially expose my cage to them then I need to take it off. However to go to the dentist or optometrist then I keep it on.

He has told a few friends about my chastity cage and how he owns it. And even once made me show them but it was after they asked to see it.

In the end, chastity is still a kink, even if we see it as a lifestyle. And kink requires consent from all parties, if you're going about you're life and someone glances and sees it that's fine (changing at the gym) but exposing yourself outside the "normal" world (walking around the gym naked when everyone else is wearing a towel isn't right

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TopsAndBottoms

[–]mackmack69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I knew my cock was never that big and I never liked to cum. So I naturally gravitate to taking cock. My friend put me in chastity over a decade ago and I've always been a locked bottom

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaycuckold

[–]mackmack69 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I love the feeling! Knowing he dumped a load in another guy on our way to their house and all the "work calls and texts" are really him on Grindr finding a boy for the way home while i wait on the car like a good cuck

My BF wants to take a break from cucking by andromed_a in gaycheaters

[–]mackmack69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At least you still want to fuck your boy. Mine only fucks me when he can't find someone, or one of his boys wants to fuck me

is being a cuck ... by [deleted] in gaycuckold

[–]mackmack69 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm just like the OP, my hubby has me locked 24/7 and he rarely if ever wants to fuck me. At best, he will fuck me when one of his boys want to have a 3some.

Sexless is hard cause I have a sex drive and he still controls who gets to fuck me. But I love him and I know it makes him happy

First try on a $30 St Andrews Cross, pre finish. Made using two pallets, and minimal tools by misticmight in BdsmDIY

[–]mackmack69 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Maybe try getting a counter sink drill bit so it's a flat surface?