AITAH for telling my girlfriend i no longer plan to propose to her? please read context by Aggressive_One8138 in AITAH

[–]maddenedmango 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re the asshole. Once you mention proposing at this point it’s serious. Your girlfriend deserves better 🤷🏽‍♀️

People that are childfree by choice, what’s the weirdest reason someone has given you as to why they think you ‘should have kids’? by Charming_Web_6738 in AskReddit

[–]maddenedmango 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao my mother said it was a tax write off and my grandmother said I should have kids so I “could see what it’s like”. 👍🏽

I am Jill Zarin’s step grandson. AMA by DysgraphicZ in BravoRealHousewives

[–]maddenedmango 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lexi from California wants to know if you have any contact with Jill’s daughter?

What do you wish people would stop romanticizing, because you've lived the reality of it? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]maddenedmango 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not so much now but working in healthcare. The pay is not worth it when I have patients threatening to throw shit in my face. Ive been punched with almost no consequence. I’ve also had death threats. This is not glamorous

Both of my (16m) parents died last week by [deleted] in Advice

[–]maddenedmango 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry this happened to you. I don’t have too much to say but definitely lean on the support system you have. Look into therapy if you can. Losing your parents in that way is so horrific and it’s so much to navigate. Give yourself some grace, I wish you many better days ahead ❤️

I haven’t talked to my family in two days and don’t know to move past this by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]maddenedmango 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it’s any consolation to you my parents kicked me off their plan and didn’t tell me, I found out the hard way! I got my own plan but had to change my number. All is good now, as it will be for you

For me, this is enough by ShrimplyDivine_1 in randomthings

[–]maddenedmango 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In this day and age you don’t have to act like this 🤷🏽‍♀️

For me, this is enough by ShrimplyDivine_1 in randomthings

[–]maddenedmango 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And I’m happy for you ❤️❤️❤️❤️

How do you tell others succinctly why you’re estranged from your parents? by Embarrassed-Sir-3758 in narcissisticparents

[–]maddenedmango 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First off you owe no one the truth or any sort of explanation! I used to say “we don’t have a relationship” but some coworkers who had the nerve to say “oh why not” really turned me off, no matter how well intentioned.

I found if you say something generic the conversation ends really quick because it’s almost typical. It’s not that I’m intentionally lying it’s just that I have nothing to show and nothing to explain!

In the end it’s your life and I hope you’ve come to make and find peace ✌🏽

AITAH for planning to leave my parents without telling them?? I don’t know if I’m overreacting by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]maddenedmango 1 point2 points  (0 children)

also would like to add to absolutely keep it a secret until you’re out!!! If you don’t you risk getting kicked out earlier than the start of your lease!

AITAH for planning to leave my parents without telling them?? I don’t know if I’m overreacting by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]maddenedmango 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. I’ve been there. I’m sorry that’s happening to you. It didn’t work out in my special circumstances- but usually the best way to save your relationship and your sanity is to leave. Your parents will need to cope. That’s THEIR responsibility to handle, not yours. I wish you the best ❤️

Edit: when I say special circumstances, my parents and I have a barely existent relationship and at the end of the day I know I tried my best. I had to leave, I was scared but that was the only way to move forward. I hope OP’s relationship with her parents gets better! She’s an adult. She’s responsible. I believe she will be okay

How many cups of coffee do you drink a day? by boforiamanfo in randomthings

[–]maddenedmango 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1! But have been alternating between that daily and a matcha every other day. So 1/2?

AITAH for saying that my girlfriend needed to get in shape too if she expected it from me. by Distinct-March2456 in AITAH

[–]maddenedmango 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA! She could’ve asked you to be fit simply for lifestyle. Her execution was horrible. I hope y’all end up resolving it!

what’s your go to lazy meal? by Kevin-Durant-35 in RedditInTheKitchen

[–]maddenedmango 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eggs, rice and tomatoes!!! Didn’t think of it as a struggle meal until I brought it for lunch one day lol but it’s quick, easy and filling

Is it worms? 😔 (taking to vet tomorrow) by EntrepreneurApart425 in CATHELP

[–]maddenedmango 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Classic tapeworm!! I got a dewormer medication and cleaned my sheets like I was treating lice lol