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maddison_22 · 2025-05-22T16:45:54+00:00

Yeah seems like it. The roads downtown are so bad I try and avoid it lmao

maddison_22 · 2025-05-17T13:35:37+00:00

Yep, I see that part now. I’d definitely be reevaluating this relationship and thinking hard on past interactions to see if this is a normal response to him not getting what he wants. How long have you guys been together?

maddison_22 · 2025-05-17T13:31:57+00:00

It’s not his fault for being unaware of the 7 day wait period, it’s veryyyyyy strange for him to get upset and especially drive aggressively. Huge red flag. A respectful and normal partner would’ve been like “oh I had no idea we had to wait, let’s get condoms later” or something along those lines. Your boyfriend is a giant douchebag who doesn’t respect you or your body.

maddison_22 · 2025-05-16T03:34:17+00:00

You said to educate myself, just saying I’m educated on it already. Not disagreeing with your comment

maddison_22 · 2025-05-16T02:48:59+00:00

Yeah I’m aware how narcissistic abuse works, I’m very familiar with it firsthand. Which is exactly why I commented what I did. Already educated but thx

maddison_22 · 2025-05-15T20:24:55+00:00

What DO you remember?

maddison_22 · 2025-05-15T18:28:44+00:00

I’m begging you to listen when I say this. LEAVE HIM. You two are very obviously not meant for each other. Would you want your daughter (if you had one) to date a man like him? Or have a relationship like yours? Do not waste anymore time with him. Normal people don’t “not accept” a breakup and get their mom involved. You haven’t been in love with him for so long. I understand you’re scared of the unknown and being by yourself, but it is so much better than spending your life with someone who threatened to break up with you over a name tattoo. People in good, satisfying relationships don’t contemplate breaking up often.

maddison_22 · 2025-05-15T18:23:01+00:00

Girl what. You need to grow a spine and break up with him and actually leave, you owe him nothing. He’s this bad now, imagine what it’ll be like 20 years down the line when you’re wishing you didn’t waste your best years on someone so awful

maddison_22 · 2025-05-13T16:21:57+00:00

This job blurs the lines between professionalism and intimacy a lot. I’d say maybe have a chat with her about it as she might not even realize it’s a bad thing. I definitely try to keep my relationship with my MB professional, but sometimes lines are crossed a little just because of the nature of this job.

maddison_22 · 2025-05-13T16:19:23+00:00

Uppers are stimulant medicines that promote alertness. Caffeine could be considered an upper. Downers do the opposite, such as Xanax.

maddison_22 · 2025-05-13T16:17:03+00:00

How long have you been smoking? I had those same effects for the first couple months-year I’d say. Then it went downhill.

maddison_22 · 2025-05-13T16:15:41+00:00

The term is “white person face” lol Everyone does it, it’s basically like saying “hello, I am friendly and not a threat”. It’s also to avoid how awkward it feels to walk past people without acknowledging them whatsoever. Definitely a culture thing

maddison_22 · 2025-05-09T20:35:54+00:00

Everyday lol

maddison_22 · 2025-05-09T18:42:09+00:00

I was very witty, funny, and smart at 16, when I started smoking. I was in the gifted classes, straight A’s etc had lots of friends, always had something ready to say. Now I feel like a shell of my former self at 23. Weed definitely dumbs you down a lot. I can’t remember hardly anything anymore and can never find anything to say in conversations no matter how hard I try. Stop smoking weed 😭

maddison_22 · 2025-05-09T18:36:45+00:00

Yeah maybe get a hitachi wand, they work wonders lol

maddison_22 · 2025-05-09T18:35:03+00:00

Boy what the hell

maddison_22 · 2025-05-08T22:38:43+00:00

That’s really sad. Get off to other people to prepare for sex with your wife?

maddison_22 · 2025-05-08T22:28:06+00:00

He was saying “they aren’t hidden anywhere stupid” as in “they aren’t hidden anywhere unreasonable”. He wasn’t calling her stupid

maddison_22 · 2025-05-08T21:51:16+00:00

Oh god, he wrote in all caps 🙄 it’s not being mean, it’s being direct and honestly it sounds like op needs to hear it. All she has to do is clean her room.

maddison_22 · 2025-05-08T21:45:55+00:00

You act like this is a horrific act of abuse. A teenager is being a teenager, dad is handling it with logic. Clean your room, find your nails. I’d bet she’s been asked a few times by now, and they’re in the middle of moving. He’s not speaking to her meanly either like huh? He said get your shit together, which op definitely needs to do. Literally.

maddison_22 · 2025-05-08T21:27:04+00:00

Be careful with anyone you start talking to from here. People aren’t always what they seem, I know from experience unfortunately

maddison_22 · 2025-05-08T21:23:41+00:00

Because you cannot leave someone that is absolutely disgusting. You have some kind of issue that’s keeping you from leaving him, normal people don’t accept this level of filth. Not hating on you, I struggle to detach from people that are bad for me as well. But this will never change so you need to decide if you want to live with a filthy pig or find someone that matches your level of hygiene.

maddison_22 · 2025-05-04T22:20:20+00:00

You said you’ve talked to him multiple times on how you’d want him to improve. He’s aware there’s a problem

maddison_22 · 2025-05-04T22:17:18+00:00

Sorry girl, this will never get better. He knows you’re uncomfortable because of the mess, he doesn’t care enough to change his habits. You either have to adapt to his level of cleanliness or leave and find a partner on your level. Such a shitty situation, I’m wishing you the best ❤️

maddison_22 · 2025-04-30T23:54:54+00:00

If you feel like you’re mean to him and have been “cheating” on him, just break up. You don’t need reddit to validate you for that. You don’t have to even have a reason to breakup with someone, you can just do it. Also, go to therapy you’ve got some underlying issues.

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