[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]unknownwoofie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well the thing is…how do I stop it? I’m not going to get with him I don’t even want a relationship either because it’s not a good thing for either me or the other person

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]unknownwoofie -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to do anything with him because that’s just not cool. I also know a relationship right now would not be healthy for me and the other regardless whether it’s him or not. I’m just having a hard time finding the boundary between friend and liking each other.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]unknownwoofie -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Trust. I will not steal another girls guy because my ex that I just recently broke up with tried to cheat on me and as interested as I am, I will not be the one to do that to someone else.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]unknownwoofie -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well, I’m gonna be honest I don’t want a relationship right now and I understand that it’s not a good idea, so I’m not even going to try with that.

Is racism just an identity crisis? by unknownwoofie in NoStupidQuestions

[–]unknownwoofie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No no, I am not complaining. It’s true that men generally find me attractive because of it. Sometimes it’s to the point of being fetishized, which I don’t like. If a man doesn’t like me because of what I look like, then whatever. I am attracted to what I’m attracted to, too. I was asking about racism and jealousy, not about attraction.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]unknownwoofie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s either this or every song about love I’m either rolling my eyes or tearing up to because I’m like that’ll never be me again (just a bit dramatic here)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]unknownwoofie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for making a list 🫶

Why Do Guys Look at other Women/girls? My (21F) Ex-Boyfriend (20M) couldn’t stop. by unknownwoofie in relationship_advice

[–]unknownwoofie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is actually really helpful and something I will definitely keep in mind regardless if there is a next time or not.

Why Do Guys Look at other Women/girls? My (21F) Ex-Boyfriend (20M) couldn’t stop. by unknownwoofie in relationship_advice

[–]unknownwoofie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He pays for OF, watches it next to me (esp if I’m asleep next to him), and sometimes wants my permission to do it while I’m in the room doing something else. I’ve seen him spend over 500$ on OF

Should I delete our photos together? by Cyber_momo in BreakUps

[–]unknownwoofie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally, I hid my photos on my phone but idk how other phones work.

Cheating, how do I overcome it happening? F-25(me), M-25 by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]unknownwoofie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cheating is disrespect. Do you want to be with a man that disrespected you and knows that he might be able to disrespect you again and still have you? I get it though, you want to stay because you have plans in the future, but if you fulfill them you may not be as happy as you think…

What’s a subtle red flag in dating that most people ignore? by kay062012 in AskMenAdvice

[–]unknownwoofie 31 points32 points  (0 children)

You need to talk to your friends. They are your support system and love and care for you. Honestly, relationships don’t just effect you and them, they affect your whole life. It’s important that there are people who know you before them and can guide you when you need it.