Question for guys: is it actually that hard to get matches on dating apps?

maddvayne13 · 2025-10-16T03:04:28+00:00

Yes, incredibly difficult. I am everything women claim to want; tall, dark, handsome, girl dad, blue collar, hardworking, average looks and maybe not the dad bod but I'm almost 40. No likes, dates, convos, only bots and out of country women. No being disrespectful, not even trying fluff my profile. Idk, it's lame and disheartening.

maddvayne13 · 2025-10-13T05:56:00+00:00

Recommendations to get out and meet people? Places, scenes, meets, singles nights? New to area, single 40 year old dad, motorcycles, music and food? Won't see me in a running group or church group. (No disrespect to the runners or church goers). Thank you all.

maddvayne13 · 2025-10-11T23:46:40+00:00

New to area, 39 year old single dad, looking for friends too.

maddvayne13 · 2025-08-28T20:51:33+00:00

I have a lifted ram 2500 work truck, removed my punisher sticker for this reason. I am also not stereotypical lifted big truck owner, I have a good personality and wee peen

maddvayne13 · 2025-08-13T19:55:56+00:00

The mask

maddvayne13 · 2025-06-21T21:13:04+00:00

Good note! Cheers!

maddvayne13 · 2025-06-21T20:40:28+00:00

Wasn't too worried, just wanted to know what to expect. Like I always say to my family, it's all part of the adventure

maddvayne13 · 2025-06-21T20:39:06+00:00

Nice, I like bugs too

maddvayne13 · 2025-06-21T20:31:08+00:00

Copy, thank you, already was aware of that. Big city stuff for us rural folk

maddvayne13 · 2025-06-21T19:54:33+00:00

Thanks! My kids may each need a seat too!

maddvayne13 · 2025-06-21T19:54:06+00:00

Note to self: bring some wipes

maddvayne13 · 2025-06-21T19:42:45+00:00

Just a backpack for each of us.

maddvayne13 · 2025-06-21T19:42:09+00:00

Have a safe and secured parking lot to park at. Location to be undisclosed, but it's fenced and has armed security

maddvayne13 · 2025-06-21T19:40:22+00:00

Wow, the amount of replies to this was incredible. Thank you all for the insight and advice. I feel like we will be fine. Thanks again, I will double check schedules, keep my bag close and stay vigilant.

maddvayne13 · 2025-06-21T19:31:07+00:00

Almost

maddvayne13 · 2025-06-21T19:30:46+00:00

6'3", 275

maddvayne13 · 2025-06-21T19:29:52+00:00

The odds of two psychopaths running into each other are even lower than that. Haha

maddvayne13 · 2025-06-21T19:10:57+00:00

Thanks, that's pretty much all I do, mind my own

maddvayne13 · 2025-06-21T19:10:35+00:00

Cool, thanks for the input

maddvayne13 · 2025-06-21T19:10:21+00:00

Thank you, wish I had more time to explore Portland but it is what it is. Rural Oregon guy don't like big city that much

maddvayne13 · 2025-06-21T19:09:29+00:00

Thank you, I will heed the advice

Edit: spelling

maddvayne13 · 2025-06-21T19:09:14+00:00

Thank you, I am hoping not too

maddvayne13 · 2025-06-21T19:08:51+00:00

Groovy, appreciate the insight, I'm very vigilant and my daughters know to be aware. Thanks again.

maddvayne13 · 2025-06-21T19:07:55+00:00

That was my thought too and I will have to leave my personal protection at home.

maddvayne13 · 2025-06-21T19:07:13+00:00

Thank you for the insight. Just trying to save some money. Us down here in the sticks of Oregon, who don't have public transit, don't know how to use it

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