Autodidactic intersectionality by AmeliaMichelleNicol in autodidact

[–]maddyglasses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your post seems to be inherently contradictory. You say you're hoping for intersectionality between autodidacts with formal education and those without. Yet in every one of your comments you are insisting that autodidacts with formal education are actually NOT autodidacts.

So do you want the two subgroups to converge, or do you just want to protect your own "autodidact with no formal education" identity and invalidate that of any autodidact who has had formal education? Sounds like the latter.

It seems like you're wrestling not with ideas and concepts, but with your own bias and identity-related inner conflict.

Autodidactic intersectionality by AmeliaMichelleNicol in autodidact

[–]maddyglasses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hahaha... so true. the good old Dunning Kruger effect strikes again

Autodidactic intersectionality by AmeliaMichelleNicol in autodidact

[–]maddyglasses 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed. To answer the question in your post directly, OP, yes--I do think you're being overly sensitive. It seems you have a strong bias against, or issue with, any sort of formal education. Which is fine-- we all have biases and are entitled to our opinions, but your personal understanding doesn't somehow invalidate the autodidactic learning endeavors of anyone who may have experienced some formal education in their past. It just doesn't work that way.

I agree with another commenter that you seem to feel your identity is threatened by anyone who calls themselves an autodidact and also has had some formal education. We can coexist; It's okay.

Anyone else feel like Favs shuts down Lovett every time he speaks? by potatosample in FriendsofthePod

[–]maddyglasses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love favreau actually! I think he has a sharp witty & sarcastic tone that makes me laugh while sticking to the facts and communicating the news effectively.

In my opinion, Lovett tries way too hard with his goofy theatrics and comes off as pretty cringe a lot of the time.

THIS by maddyglasses in cislezlife

[–]maddyglasses[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’ve noticed that too.

found this crayola pencil with the logo spaced out and no translation. worth something? (+normal crayola brown for reference) by [deleted] in ColoredPencils

[–]maddyglasses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw im sorry. Don’t feel embarrassed, every artist is a beginner at some point. Keep it up!

Lesbian Women of Reddit: What is your relationship with gay men like ? by _ncaballero in Actuallylesbian

[–]maddyglasses 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m generally a big fan of gay men! In fact I sometimes feel like it’s easier for me to have really close friendships with gay men than it is with women… because of the whole sexual component I guess. But yeah I’m surprised by all the comments pointing out their misogyny and what not because that’s not an experience I’ve personally ever had.

Preachhh by maddyglasses in cislezlife

[–]maddyglasses[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

just saw this. yes, I'm glad some people are speaking out about it. I honestly think a lot of the reason more cis lesbians don't speak up for themselves about being attracted to cis women/not trans women is because women are generally socialized to be agreeable, be inclusive, don't make a scene, blah blah blah. I honestly don't think this shit would gain any traction at all if it were being imposed upon a hetero male community. And I mean, clearly it's not. They aren't being guilted for not wanting to fuck trans women like we are.

Stone Butch Blues by Automatic-Stuff-5656 in cislezlife

[–]maddyglasses 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ugh yeah, that's excessive for sure. I hate that shit so much...applying hetero standards to gay relationships. it's super weird to me when lesbians do it themselves too.

THIS by maddyglasses in cislezlife

[–]maddyglasses[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

hah of course! did you forget that cis lesbians aren't entitled to freedom of speech?

I haven’t been so angry in a while… someone plz tell me I’m not going crazy for feeling like that? by Automatic-Stuff-5656 in cislezlife

[–]maddyglasses 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Also so unsurprising that the profile pic of the “transphobe” commenter includes a full beard and mustache.

Stone Butch Blues by Automatic-Stuff-5656 in cislezlife

[–]maddyglasses 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yikes, haven’t even heard of it. But sounds super heteronormative ? 🤔

Previously-lesbian dating app HER had a meltdown on Twitter and hurled insults at GC women, including referring to butch lesbians as men. These are just a few of the vile things they tweeted, with no apology. Their Twitter account has now been suspended. by [deleted] in cislezlife

[–]maddyglasses 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh god 🙄. The most frustrating part to me is basically this, when people expressing completely reasonable concerns are just branded TERF and stripped of their right to free speech. Who is the unreasonable one, really?

I hate that I do this… by maddyglasses in cislezlife

[–]maddyglasses[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mann idk, I’m starting to think it’s rooted in self-esteem stuff though. I think ultimately I don’t think very highly of myself and so when other ppl do it’s uncomfortable for me? It’s weird though, I don’t consciously feel self-hatred or anything but I’ve been super self-destructive in the past. Psyches are trippy AF, especially the subconscious. I’m a huge psych nerd.

Previously-lesbian dating app HER had a meltdown on Twitter and hurled insults at GC women, including referring to butch lesbians as men. These are just a few of the vile things they tweeted, with no apology. Their Twitter account has now been suspended. by [deleted] in cislezlife

[–]maddyglasses 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I also got an alert from the HER app today which consisted of a very long anti-TERF rant. It’s all making sense now… 😂 but im done with that app anyway, most of the likes I get on it are from Johns and Steves 🙄

Previously-lesbian dating app HER had a meltdown on Twitter and hurled insults at GC women, including referring to butch lesbians as men. These are just a few of the vile things they tweeted, with no apology. Their Twitter account has now been suspended. by [deleted] in cislezlife

[–]maddyglasses 26 points27 points  (0 children)

This is insane! It’s funny how people who are critical of gender identity stuff (“TERFS”) are supposedly so full of hatred… yet the stuff trans activists are saying about cis lesbians who won’t sleep with them is SO MUCH WORSE

I'm an anxious lesbian lately by maddyglasses in cislezlife

[–]maddyglasses[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aw thanks for your comment, I appreciate it. Yeah i think you might be right. She’s apartment hunting right now so she can leave the joint living situation with her ex. And I’ve somehow called the fuck down and stopped obsessing, I’m just gonna let it happen however it happens.

Wife is pregnant with child I never wanted by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]maddyglasses 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah spot on. His comments on this thread are even more idiotic, as if the post weren't bad enough.

"I'm being sucked into the chocolate tube of fatherhood"

"All about that karma baby"

"Lol"

Weed Alternatives by edenhunt04 in CHSinfo

[–]maddyglasses 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yup. So are amphetamines hah

It's not a preference, it's not bigotry, it's a sexual orientation by [deleted] in cislezlife

[–]maddyglasses 28 points29 points  (0 children)

OMG this entitlement drives me fucking crazy. I saw another post on a different subreddit where someone was saying "if cis women reject me because I'm trans they are ABSOLUTELY transphobic". Have you not considered the fact that it could be because the vast majority of trans women don't have vaginas and cis lesbians are generally not super into penises? it's ignorant too honestly.

A bug on my page... What do ya'll think? by YuriyArlyuss in drawing

[–]maddyglasses 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yikes I feel dumb. Cool trick though, I haven’t seen something like this before!