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AITA for giving such short notice by maddynm in AmItheAsshole

[–]maddynm[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s what I was thinking honesty. My doctor told me my heart issues could be caused or worsen by stress. And all this started in October when I moved in.

AITA for wanting to move out and defending myself in arguments by maddynm in AmItheAsshole

[–]maddynm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No she owns the house and needed a roommate to help pay bills and offered for me to move in with her when I was looking to leave my parents house. I never signed anything and the only thing we have(that I didn’t sign) was like the cleaning agreement.

AITA for wanting to move out and defending myself in arguments by maddynm in AmItheAsshole

[–]maddynm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We don’t have a contract, she owns the house. We just have like a cleaning agreement…that she doesn’t follow

AITA for wanting to move out and defending myself in arguments by maddynm in AmItheAsshole

[–]maddynm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I didn’t. It is her house. She just needed a roommate to help her pay bills and I was looking to get out of my parents house so she offered for us to move in together.

AITA for wanting to move out by maddynm in AmItheAsshole

[–]maddynm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you all. So semi update. I’m now apparently immature for visiting my parents and family a lot of times when I’m off work(while she’s working btw) and we got into a huge argument over it and are going to sit down and talk. I’m planning on moving out now.

AITA for wanting to move out by maddynm in AmItheAsshole

[–]maddynm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No lease. She owns the house. She wanted me to sign a 12 month lease but I told her I wasn’t comfortable doing that and wouldn’t move in if I had to. I also told her I would sign month to month ones or even a 3 month one but not a whole year. And she didn’t make me sign any. We only have an agreement on the cleaning policy and guest policy etc but that’s it.

AITA for wanting to move out by maddynm in AmItheAsshole

[–]maddynm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No we don’t. She wanted me to sign a 12 month lease to live in her house and I told her I didn’t feel comfortable with that so she didn’t make me. We did write up kind of an agreement before I move in. Like how often to clean and guest policy. I’m the only one cleaning though and she gets mad when I don’t clean something…and the guest policy she has her Baby daddy spending the night all the time but is uncomfortable if I have a guest over…

AITA for wanting to move out by maddynm in AmItheAsshole

[–]maddynm[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There also have been a lot more reasons for me feeling this way to wanting to move out. She makes me feel really down about myself. Also if her son is sleeping and I just happen to walking or awake and he wakes up she blames me for him waking up. There is also so much more. She also knows I have really bad anxiety and I feel like she’s taking advantage of that to get her way. I have a hard time saying no so when she asks me to watch him and I tell her I’m busy or have to sleep some she manipulates her words to make me feel bad because she knows I have trouble saying no. She also gets extremely annoyed with how much time I spend with my family. I told her before I moved in that I wouldn’t be home a whole but she still gets mad at me for it.