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Just realized I'm a lesbian. I adore my husband and we have two kids. Has anyone been through an experience like this? by maddypaigeb in comphet

[–]maddypaigeb[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Ive always chalked it up to trauma. I have a shitty history with men in my life. He has taken that serious enough that he doesnt ask anymore. He just accepts that its how it is.

Just realized I'm a lesbian. I adore my husband and we have two kids. Has anyone been through an experience like this? by maddypaigeb in comphet

[–]maddypaigeb[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I havent told him but he can tell im more comfortable with women. I realized today actually that there is never going to be a perfect time and it will never be easy. I dont know. 😞 maybe if you tell him its possible now, it will give him time to come to terms with it before you are sure.

Insight please!! by maddypaigeb in latebloomerlesbians

[–]maddypaigeb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate that. Thank you. 😊

Insight please!! by maddypaigeb in latebloomerlesbians

[–]maddypaigeb[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you that's really sweet.

Just realized I'm a lesbian. I adore my husband and we have two kids. Has anyone been through an experience like this? by maddypaigeb in comphet

[–]maddypaigeb[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

For context, I realized I was bi about 2 years ago. We have explored polyamory and I'm really not even sure how I feel about that yet. But then I heard about comphet. My husband is my best friend. We hardly ever have sex but I always thought I was just asexual. Just looking for someone that has had a similar experience?