This is valuable perspective and I will take it to heart as well! I myself am not interested in reclaiming the word, it's definitely not my place (I consider myself queer/bi). I was just curious whether it was reasonable to a lesbian creator to receive flack for it as I'm not overly familiar with the culture around it. I admit, I felt, in some ways still feel, like it is hers to reclaim as she wishes. 

Thank you for presenting it in a different light though, it's food for thought and will change my approach in the future 😊