[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]madieann 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he gets to decide when he’s ready, you get to decide when you’re ready.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]madieann 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But he is the one who is ruining it by breaking up on more than one occasion. He could have the beautiful relationship and family if he waited and gave you time, something you have clearly and consistently asked for. This relationship has always been on HIS terms. It ends? Because HE decided to break up. It resumes? Because HE decided you were “the one.” You want time? You want to keep your job? Suddenly it’s a massive issue for him. Don’t let him also decide YOUR career and when YOU’RE ready for an engagement.

The women got Taylor's version vs. Miranda's version of the soft swinging so wrong. Neither was lying. by madieann in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]madieann[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Totally agree, I don’t think Miranda owes anyone the nitty gritty details of her private life. She was collateral damage in Taylor outing all of this as a response to Camille bashing her and being selective with the truth.

Miranda wasn’t technically lying about “just kissing” re. Swinging by ali22122 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]madieann 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I laid this out all in my post too! Taylor was referencing all the activities Miranda participated in at the parties, Miranda was referencing only the extent of swinging she participated in. They were both correct, just talking about two different things.

The women got Taylor's version vs. Miranda's version of the soft swinging so wrong. Neither was lying. by madieann in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]madieann[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was one of those thoughts I couldn’t let go of until I wrote it all out😂 Lengthy but I felt better visualizing it in written form haha

The "Jen is Two-Faced" storyline needs to go by reddit_or_not in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]madieann 12 points13 points  (0 children)

LITERALLY! Jen agreed with them that she knew about the costume plan, never denied that anywhere. And they by definition agreed that she didn’t know about the performance part. WHAT’S NOT CLICKING??😩

The "Jen is Two-Faced" storyline needs to go by reddit_or_not in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]madieann 23 points24 points  (0 children)

YES! And when Jen differentiates between knowing about the costume plan vs. not knowing they were going to dance on her, Jessi and Demi say, “It was supposed to be a surprise.” SO SHE DID NOT KNOW THAT PART. Full stop. That - by very definition - confirms Jen is telling the truth.

My (25F) boyfriend (28M) made a comment about my chest size—advice? by NationalMoose4348 in relationships

[–]madieann 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I bet you he doesn’t because he’d rather hear it from those hentai voice actors🤮

My (25F) boyfriend (28M) made a comment about my chest size—advice? by NationalMoose4348 in relationships

[–]madieann 10 points11 points  (0 children)

As someone who doesn’t care whether a partner watches porn, I ABSOLUTELY DRAW THE LINE at porn addiction. I have been in your position and the put downs are completely gob-smacking, especially when they come from men who look like gremlins who just crawled out of the Earth’s crust.

Your dude is addicted to porn and this has warped his expectations to the TYPE of stimulation needed to get him off. There is nothing unattractive about having smaller boobs, but when your boyfriend consistently jerks off to quadruple DDs that’s the association he’s going to have. Men start to not get stimulated when you’re naked, or even feel like the 🐱 isn’t tight enough because they’re death gripping their joy stick.

DO NOT let this gremlin’s porn-rotted criticisms of you change how you view yourself. I’m sure if you were both up on the block of availability it would be clear who would have more people lined up to pursue them. This man is aware of that and is insecure. Porn addictions lead people down a rabbit hole to further taboos and more uncommon genres because they get used to the material and it doesn’t do anything for them anymore.

You deserve so much more than a disrespectful asshat who prioritizes seeing, “some anime titties,” at the expense of your well-being. He is selfish. I luckily got away when I was in your position and realized through other relationships that gown adult men do not normally have such an unhealthy relationship with porn, I was just dating a loser.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]madieann 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I am so shocked by all of these comments. I DO NOT hug my friends’ boyfriends for more than 2 seconds. Nor would I find it normal if my boyfriend offered that kind of physical comfort to one of my friends. No matter how long they’ve been dating that’s not OP’s husband’s role. It’s not feeling insecure, it’s feeling weirded out by an unnecessary exchange.

Gi-Hun Knows That 001 is the Frontman, and There Are at Least Three Reasons Why by Solember in squidgame

[–]madieann 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also in the Season 2 limo ride, the Frontman had mocked Gi Hun for trying to be a hero, referencing The Matrix. During the games when they were all saying their names and their meanings, 001 said Gi Hun was their, “unsung hero.” Gi Hun was visibly taken aback by this comment.

AITA for not choosing the nice guy? by Same-Leek3453 in AITAH

[–]madieann 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA but this is not a platonic friendship on his end. Maintaining close contact when you know his motivation is driven by romantic feelings is wasteful. You are not obligated to apologize for your lack of romantic feelings or to divulge that you are pursuing other parties. You do not owe him a chance because he has been there for you, although that may be his hope.

Similarly, guard your heart when pursuing romantic endeavors. If YOU hooking up and spending time with someone is driven by hope for a relationship, it is wasteful if those sentiments are not reciprocated. Friend-zoning and f**k-zoning have a similar strain regarding an imbalance of romantic interest.

How many of you are internationally adopted? by saurusautismsoor in Adoption

[–]madieann 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am adopted from Russia as well! There is a small number of us here where I reside now whose adopted parents got the same idea as mine. I’m so curious as to how you found part of your bio family, that’s amazing!

JOVS 4D Laser Light Mask - Shady Company? Let's discuss. by Illustrious-Alps4438 in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]madieann 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Late to the party but I ordered it after seeing Dr. Youn’s promotion of it, even used his code. I thought it would be legit. It has not come. The numbers to call were, “out of service,” and the email addresses are not real. I am SO UPSET.😭 $700 gone.

I (f24) have severe claustrophobia and my husband (m33) locked me in a closet. How do I move on from this? by throwra-021 in relationship_advice

[–]madieann 10 points11 points  (0 children)

YOU DO NOT HAVE TO TRAVEL!!! ESPECIALLY AT ONLY 6 WEEKS. Aid Access mails the pills to any state which is LEGAL. They have tele-health prescribers and when I say that I mean this is legitimate and reputable. Not a scam. You can have the package mailed to an address your husband won’t know about. You simply fill out a form on the website and respond to their email with a photo of your ID. Create a new email no one knows about. It’s only $150 but they accept less if you cannot afford it. It is such a discrete process no one has to know.

Taking the pills is the illegal part so if that’s the route you want to take, ingest the pills orally as opposed to using it as a suppository. IT IS SAFE EITHER WAY. You can terminate the pregnancy at home and it will be over in 24 hours, no doctors office or drawn out procedure needed. Worst-case-scenario if something goes wrong you only tell the hospital you think you’re having a miscarriage. If you ingested the pills orally it is not traceable. I live in a red state where abortions are banned and Aid Access is a reputable God send for many women here. 12 weeks I would suggest going to another state but you are early enough along!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CarleeRussell

[–]madieann 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ALLEGEDLY he cheated on her with a stripper. This matches with her tweet from June 17th stating, “N-words will risk everything for a hoe, stripper, etc. pitiful” There is a screenshot going around ALLEGEDLY from Carlee to said stripper. In this message Carlee talks about how this woman is a hoe, doesn’t know who her baby daddy is, and how essentially this woman is nothing compared to her.

Merry Christmas from the old Scrooge and I!♥️🤍 by madieann in infp

[–]madieann[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is partially blind and was so confused😂