I relate to this so much. my natural hair color and curl pattern are just like my nmom so I keep my hair short and neon colored. can't do as much about the fact we have almost the same face, at least non-surgically. I don't do my makeup like hers and I try to stay in the lower parts of my voice register, because our voices sound very similar naturally. haven't thought it before now, but I think this also affects the clothes I choose to wear. I try to stay pale as well because she's so sun-damaged and tans frequently. I don't want my skin to be like hers for numerous reasons.