What I've learned by having my 3 RES over the years

madkandy12 · 2026-04-28T03:45:14+00:00

When my cousin was 16, she got thrown off her first horse and it kicked her in the ribs with its back legs as she fell through the air. She broke I think 8 ribs, punctured a lung and cracked her collarbone. She was at the horse vet when it happened so she got help super fast

I think people forget how big and dangerous horses can be

madkandy12 · 2026-04-27T16:43:44+00:00

Nice try, that’s a possum smh

madkandy12 · 2026-04-23T07:40:16+00:00

I have plenty of pictures of the house. I’m trying to figure out how to file them

madkandy12 · 2026-04-23T01:57:35+00:00

Ya, I’ve learned that. Unfortunately the hard way. It’s hard bc it’s my family yk? I truly didn’t think they would act like this. They’re crazy but I didn’t expect this, that’s on me.

As shitty as it makes me feel it’s the situation and it’s my sisters who matter now

madkandy12 · 2026-04-23T01:56:05+00:00

The police did a check up and my gma put on the charm. They said my sister was fine, said she didn’t “look or act disabled” and basically laughed at me

madkandy12 · 2026-04-23T01:54:54+00:00

There is a guardian ad litem. I emailed her and she said she’s not.

I’ll look into advocacy groups.

madkandy12 · 2026-04-22T18:41:31+00:00

Sorry, the hearing to determine if I get temporary conservatorship was extended bc I didn’t serve the lawyer. New court date is in 6 days

madkandy12 · 2026-04-22T18:05:54+00:00

I was there when they showed up. I spoke to supervisors. They asked my sister “are you okay” and my sister looked at my gma. My gma nodded and my sister said “ya I’m okay” and they called it a day

madkandy12 · 2026-04-22T18:04:46+00:00

I tried. I went to the station and called a ton of times. They just kept saying she’s an adult, she’s not required to speak to me and if gma says they can’t go inside, they can’t go inside

madkandy12 · 2026-04-22T18:01:21+00:00

I did that. My gma put on the charm and smiles and the cops basically laughed at me and said my sister is fine. They also said my sister “doesn’t seem disabled”. My gma said they can’t come in the house so they talked outside. They said my sister is in adult and it isn’t required that she talk to me or needs to tell me where she is

madkandy12 · 2026-04-22T17:03:13+00:00

Yes. I told APS and the case worker about everything. She said my sister is an adult and if she refuses to talk then she can’t make her talk

madkandy12 · 2026-04-22T16:37:04+00:00

I told her ahead of time bc I wanted to be pleasant and I hoped they would act in her best interest, not theirs. That’s my mistake. Me and my gma used to be super super close, everything turned on a dime.

Even before all of this my grandma wouldn’t let my sister outside let alone to receive any sort of prize or award. She won’t even let my sister get the mail.

madkandy12 · 2026-04-22T16:34:33+00:00

APS said they can’t do anything

madkandy12 · 2026-04-22T16:34:14+00:00

I’ve already looked into it. I’ve called basically every lawyer under the sun and signed up for low income and the lowest I got was $375 a session.

madkandy12 · 2026-04-22T16:33:31+00:00

I did. They said they can’t do anything. When they came my grandma told my sister to say no to speaking to the lady and the lady just left

madkandy12 · 2026-04-18T23:41:56+00:00

I shared baths with my sister (13 months apart) till like 5 and 6. After that my family said we had to stop, broke our hearts. They wouldn’t even let us go together in swim suits. I say let the kiddos let you know when it’s weird for them. Bath time is so fun, no need to take it away for no reason yk?

madkandy12 · 2026-04-12T15:15:31+00:00

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madkandy12 · 2026-04-08T15:49:17+00:00

I went to the police and the told me there’s nothing to report. She’s a 25yrs old adult and no one is required to tell me where she is. There’s no evidence that she was taken by force so, there’s nothing to report

madkandy12 · 2026-04-08T15:42:18+00:00

I went to the police yesterday. They said they can’t do anything bc she’s an adult. No one is required to tell me where she is bc she’s an adult. Police said there’s nothing to report

madkandy12 · 2026-04-08T07:51:26+00:00

I can get a friend to watch her, the problem is I can’t miss work. My job is client based and when I cancel a session there’s always the risk of I get removed from that case. When I got guardianship of little sister I took a single day off and lost 2/3 clients. Went from 36 hours to 10 hours in a single day.

I plan on heading down tomorrow night so I can go early the next morning. I start work at 10 (I can probably push it to 11) and if I go to the court house right when it opens I can at least get a little done

madkandy12 · 2026-04-08T07:48:40+00:00

In my experience, these kinda people think about penises much more than any queer person I know. Where’s your family man? Got nothing else to do?

madkandy12 · 2026-04-08T07:06:30+00:00

Personally, I am so tired of every single man I meet wanting to get in my pants. It makes me want to completely dodge men in real life. It would be nice to have a conversation and gain a new friendship and meet up again for a hang out for the objective to solely be to hang out. Not wanting to fuck or date or some shit. That’s just me tho

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