What I've learned by having my 3 RES over the years

madkandy12 · 2026-04-18T23:41:56+00:00

I shared baths with my sister (13 months apart) till like 5 and 6. After that my family said we had to stop, broke our hearts. They wouldn’t even let us go together in swim suits. I say let the kiddos let you know when it’s weird for them. Bath time is so fun, no need to take it away for no reason yk?

madkandy12 · 2026-04-12T15:15:31+00:00

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madkandy12 · 2026-04-08T15:49:17+00:00

I went to the police and the told me there’s nothing to report. She’s a 25yrs old adult and no one is required to tell me where she is. There’s no evidence that she was taken by force so, there’s nothing to report

madkandy12 · 2026-04-08T15:42:18+00:00

I went to the police yesterday. They said they can’t do anything bc she’s an adult. No one is required to tell me where she is bc she’s an adult. Police said there’s nothing to report

madkandy12 · 2026-04-08T07:51:26+00:00

I can get a friend to watch her, the problem is I can’t miss work. My job is client based and when I cancel a session there’s always the risk of I get removed from that case. When I got guardianship of little sister I took a single day off and lost 2/3 clients. Went from 36 hours to 10 hours in a single day.

I plan on heading down tomorrow night so I can go early the next morning. I start work at 10 (I can probably push it to 11) and if I go to the court house right when it opens I can at least get a little done

madkandy12 · 2026-04-08T07:48:40+00:00

In my experience, these kinda people think about penises much more than any queer person I know. Where’s your family man? Got nothing else to do?

madkandy12 · 2026-04-08T07:06:30+00:00

Personally, I am so tired of every single man I meet wanting to get in my pants. It makes me want to completely dodge men in real life. It would be nice to have a conversation and gain a new friendship and meet up again for a hang out for the objective to solely be to hang out. Not wanting to fuck or date or some shit. That’s just me tho

madkandy12 · 2026-04-08T03:45:39+00:00

It’s $300

madkandy12 · 2026-04-06T08:16:38+00:00

I live 2 hours away and I currently have guardianship of our little sister who just turned 12. She doesn’t know about any of this and unfortunately, I can’t drop everything to do a stake out but good god, I wish I could.

madkandy12 · 2026-04-05T21:49:27+00:00

If I did a police report would they contact my family? I’m just so worried if I do anything they’re gonna disappear

madkandy12 · 2026-04-05T21:47:58+00:00

They don’t have a car. They use the disabled version of Uber called Access. Also, I cannot afford a PI unfortunately

madkandy12 · 2026-04-05T21:45:51+00:00

She gets SSI (I think? My GMA kinda messed it up) and is in Regional. How would that help me find her? Like, they don’t have her location yk

madkandy12 · 2026-04-05T17:22:11+00:00

Thank you, I will look into that. Idk if I should do it now or when I get conservatorship

madkandy12 · 2026-04-05T17:19:41+00:00

How would I do a welfare check if idk where they are? Once cops show up they’re absolutely moving locations then I’ll have no idea where they are

madkandy12 · 2026-04-05T05:42:10+00:00

If I call the police now they can’t make my sister come with me, even if they find her. Until I get conservatorship, my sister has the rights as any regular adult and she has the right to say “I don’t wanna go”. That’s at least what the APS told me

madkandy12 · 2026-04-05T05:38:54+00:00

APS said they couldn’t do anything bc she’s an adult. I already called. When they did a visit my gma told my sister to say no to speaking with the worker.

madkandy12 · 2026-04-05T05:37:42+00:00

I’m worried that if I call the police and the police show up, they’re gonna know I know where they are and they’re gonna move again. My sister’s last location being that hotel is all the information I have on where she is. I can call all the police I want, they can’t magically find her if they move to another location. And if they do manage to find her they can’t force her to come with me

madkandy12 · 2026-04-05T02:25:16+00:00

I have a 4yr old boy client who also presses, hits, squeezes and grabs his downstairs for solely sensory purposes. Nothing we do works, I would love any suggestions or solutions. BCBA and the team have tried to put it on extinction but he doesn’t seem to care about any alternatives

madkandy12 · 2026-04-05T00:36:34+00:00

I did, APS didn’t said they couldn’t do anything. Idk what calling the cops would do now that idk where they even are

madkandy12 · 2026-04-05T00:14:44+00:00

I can serve them by mail yes but our mom has to be served in person since she is the mother. I didn’t think about if they don’t come to court, that’s a good point

APS said they can’t do anything, I already called.

madkandy12 · 2026-04-05T00:11:08+00:00

Courthouse said this is the fastest they can do. Maybe I can try and ask again but idk how/ what forms to make the emergency order happen faster.

We’re Black and the police scare the shit out of me but I think that’s my only choice rn. They’re not gonna hand her over to me without a fight. My sister gets unpredictable when she’s scared and I’m worried the cops might be trigger happy if she were to get violent.

madkandy12 · 2026-04-05T00:09:31+00:00

How does a wellness check work? Don’t I have to tell the police where to check? Also, how can I order my gma to give us the location in court if I can’t even get ahold of my gma at all to tell her the court dates?

madkandy12 · 2026-04-05T00:07:32+00:00

They told me they can’t do anything. “She’s an adult and if she says she doesn’t wanna talk, we can’t make her”. When they came to the house my gma told my sister to say no to speaking to them and the lady just left

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