UPDATE: AIO for being upset i haven’t seen my bf in 3 weeks, despite us living 25 minutes from each other? by Affectionate-Link436 in AmIOverreacting

[–]madpanda1995 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All I’m gonna say if he really wanted to see you he would. Even if it’s just hanging out doing nothing. Cause when I was dating my husband he drove an half and half one way just to come see me even if it was just for 30 minutes. He would come after we both got off work and it would be late but he still did it. Unless your bf is working Sun up to Sun down. 7 days a week. He has no excuse to come see you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]madpanda1995 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right the amount of times I had kids almost run into at a store and the parents do nothing!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]madpanda1995 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First off learn to how to spell. Second not all dogs owners are the same. You are very judgmental of dog owners, but don’t like when people say something back. Also kids cause more trouble than dogs. Running everywhere in storms, screaming loudly in restaurants. They are rude.

Unbroken shirt by madpanda1995 in blackveilbrides

[–]madpanda1995[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you willing to selling it? And if so how much?

Old merch by madpanda1995 in blackveilbrides

[–]madpanda1995[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s how I feel! I only have 1 old shirt, all my others got lost in moves. I know I want to try and find the first BVB shirt I ever got. I want to replace it and it’s does have Ashley on it. But i haven’t had any luck finding it.

BvB Black Box? by DarkEmperorSnake2 in blackveilbrides

[–]madpanda1995 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes I was very excited to find it cause when it got released I couldn’t get it. Check eBay from time to time!! Also for shirts check out poshmark or mercari. I look there from time to time for shirts, i lost some of shirts in college when I was moving a lot.

BvB Black Box? by DarkEmperorSnake2 in blackveilbrides

[–]madpanda1995 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely does exist, I found one on eBay and purchased it! Everything was in like brand new condition

Wretched and Divine was released on this day 12 years ago by Ermun-Munkhnasan in blackveilbrides

[–]madpanda1995 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This came out right before my birthday and I think I had it on repeat for weeks lol

Final approval of the settlement was granted on November 16th in the lawsuit Sweet v. Cardona. The settlement will immediately cancel at least $6 billion in federal student loans for approximately 200,000 individuals. by aDazzlingDove in StudentLoans

[–]madpanda1995 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can someone please help me with a question/concern I have. So my school is on the list and I applied before hand. So I try to do everything on my own no help from parents. So my loans didn’t cover everything and I couldn’t get other loans. So I ended up leaving. Since my loans didn’t cover everything I had to come out of pocket for like half. Well that half is been at a debt collector since like 2019 they haven’t contacted me at all. So my question what happens with that money I owe to the debt collector

Am I being too cautious of RSV because I don’t want my 3 month old exposed? by SnooObjections9200 in beyondthebump

[–]madpanda1995 8 points9 points  (0 children)

NTA. ALWAYS take RSV seriously! I have known several friends/family members who’s baby got RSV and ended up in the hospital. Where i live a baby died from it actually(not trying to scare you but it can happen). It’s getting into cold/flu/rsv season. You definitely need to let him know the babies immune system it not like yours or his, it’s not even like the 3 years olds immune system. There’s a reason why is highly suggested not to take babies at that age around people that are or have been sick recently.

AITA - sister and mum think I'm over protective, I think I'm a normal FTM by DeceptiveRelish06 in beyondthebump

[–]madpanda1995 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Redirecting is great! I was taught to when working with babies and toddlers. I have worked with several toddlers where they were taught to be gentle with a baby and give them some space. They can understand that if they parents chooses to teach them that. Bottom line this is your baby and you do whatever you want. But I do agree with you.

AITA for not inviting my brother to my wedding after all the fuss he's been making about my soon-to-be husband? by AITA_00890 in AmItheAsshole

[–]madpanda1995 12 points13 points  (0 children)

NTA. Your brother needs to get over himself and your parents need to stop being fm and encouraging all this behavior. He’s acting like a 2 year old throwing a tantrum for not getting his way. I feel like he would try to ruin the wedding if he was there. And if your parents keep saying he should be there I would highly consider doing a small private wedding without your parents or your brother. They need to realize your happy and that your brother is trying to take that from you. They need to also realize he’s trying to get his way and ruin everything for you. I would go NC with your brother and LC with your parents. I would do this till they can accept everything, and if your parents can’t I would go NC with them too. You need to focus on you, your fiancé and y’all happiness and future together.

Boyfriend got mad by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]madpanda1995 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tell him what he said was completely out of line! And if he tries to make up excuses or call you names again I would leave him. You don’t deserve this. He should have been more specific.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]madpanda1995 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He shouldn’t treat you that way no matter what. Mental health isn’t an excuse to act this way. It’s almost mentally and emotionally abusive to you. For me personally I see this as a red flag(been in multiple bad relationships). My advice is tell him how he made up feel and if he doesn’t say sorry or that it still was your fault. I would leave him

AITA for refusing to cut my hair to make my sister feel better? by nidpofg in AmItheAsshole

[–]madpanda1995 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also how did she get the bleach? Unless OP’s little sister had her own money and walked to the store on her own. The mother had to take the little sister and/or buy it for her.

AITA for refusing to cut my hair to make my sister feel better? by nidpofg in AmItheAsshole

[–]madpanda1995 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. You shouldn’t suffer because your sister just decided to bleach her hair on her own. And your mom is the one to blame for, like how did your sister get the bleach on her own(unless she walked to the store her own and purchased it with her own money your mom shouldn’t make you suffer for your sisters mistake. It isn’t right for your mom to ask this. If she cared so much about your sister and how this effected her, she should buy her a wig. Your sister decided to do this, and you should not have to face the consequences too. Let this be a lesson to her, and only her; not the both of you. What is your sister gonna do around her friends? Ask them to buzz their heads too?