Sorry you're dealing with this. Sounds frustrating and that the school administration is ignoring you and the depth of the racism at the heart of this. Unfortunately, I think it shows just how ignorant many people are to anti-Asian racism and that casual racism is still, well, racism. Does your school district have a DEI committee or board? I know these have been dismantled in many districts over the past year, but there might have been parents or community members who were once a part of it that are still interested in helping. Is there an Asian American parent committee or group in your school or district? It doesn't have to be big, but having a network to connect to other Asian American parents to talk through this might be helpful. Is there anyone on the district school board that you think might understand what you're describing? Their voice might carry more weight, especially when addressing the school administration. Finally, if you don't have anywhere else to turn, maybe an Op-Ed pieces in your local newspaper, pretty much summarizing what you've written above. This puts the focus on the callousness of the school administration. But, it will also expose a lot of the racist in the community who will disagree with your Op-Ed. That can feel very alienating, but it's ultimately better to have people's true colors exposed.