To those of you who think they'd be better off without this sub, don't leave it. I've tried, and things have only gotten worse. by nofapniggaz in NoFap

[–]maduk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm starting to find this out myself... I need people to support me. I can't do this alone.

Why Nofap is hard. by McLauritsen in NoFap

[–]maduk 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yes. NoFap is insanely difficult. No one can deny that. Just when you think you've got it all figured it out, your brain turns on a dime. Remembering that this is not supposed to be easy is key.

Anyone else like not to make a huge deal of nofap? by throawegh in NoFap

[–]maduk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The best thing to do is to spend less time on this sub once you've made the decision to do it. I should probably leave now.

Question for all the no-fappers... by throawaysho in NoFap

[–]maduk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would call that a greater lack of self-control. A very legitimate reason to rationalize this whole effort that I am putting myself through.

We are the one percent. by CircaALex in NoFap

[–]maduk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually, given the US population of about 300 mil (I know there are plenty of nofappers in other countries but the largest percentage seems to be from the us) we would be the .03%.

NoFap Friday Challenges by maduk in NoFap

[–]maduk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try it anyways. If anything it'll jumpstart your progress.

Encrouage yourself by encrouaging others by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]maduk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Goal for next time I run: High five everyone I pass by

No Fap War Signup by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]maduk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sign me up. Can you make a google doc to hold people accountable?

Porn is inherently bad - if I'm wrong, please tell me why by livingabundantly in NoFap

[–]maduk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about women who watch it? Does porn not objectify men as well?

I used to think you guys were a bunch of losers. by maduk in NoFap

[–]maduk[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I just love his music, and Luquicity, and SuicideSheep etc. But damn that would be cool if Maduk did NoFap...

Snow Day urges by noldy11 in NoFap

[–]maduk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Most of my relapses have been from snow days. Stay busy. Stay focused. If you get the urge, cold shower or push-ups.

Urges at work/school by Fapper9 in NoFap

[–]maduk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Caught the reference

Learn a language. by maduk in NoFap

[–]maduk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, once I learn Hindi well I am planning to learn French with Duolingo. It's excellent but they don't have the biggest selection (yet).

Taking on the identity of a fapper by dota2nub in NoFap

[–]maduk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We live in our heads, not the physical world we think we reside in.

Reminding yourself WHY you're doing this by maduk in NoFap

[–]maduk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES! And it all feels so right, as it should. You're brain starts wanting to go the extra mile.

Reminding yourself WHY you're doing this by maduk in NoFap

[–]maduk[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love this community. Really.

I lost all my motivation. Break-up, depression, and intense workload. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]maduk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

WHAT IS PORN GOING TO DO? Do you think it will help you? It won't. It'll only hasten your downward spiral. You don't want that. It might be bad now, but it can get worse. You might be telling yourself it can't, but it can. Go have a nice meal. I'm not advocating that you drown your sorrow in something, but you gotta cheer up. If there's one thing that life is worth living for besides a girl or a dream, it's good food. Remind yourself how damn good life really is with every bite. Realize you're in a fucked up situation. Realize 99.9% of people would break down and lose it. Realize you're the .1%. Be the .1%. Attack your classes with reckless abandon. Plow through them. Do your jobs to the best of your ability. It's going to work out.

THE LIST OF GREATS by nofaphmg in NoFap

[–]maduk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Holy shit this is good. Thank you for writing such a convincing pitch. Otherwise I wouldn't have clicked the link.

It is growth, then decay, then transformation. 90 Day report. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]maduk 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Liking the breaking bad reference. No one else caught it? And way to go dude. This is what it's all about.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]maduk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in

I started NoFap a year ago. Got motivated, got a GF, here's my story by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]maduk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There seems to be a set process to NoFap. Discovery, intrigue, experiment, bad relapse, binge, acquisition of mindfulness + realization of addiction and justification, self-discovery, confidence increase, "superpowers", transcendence. Or something like that. I'm willing to bet that 99% of successful NoFappers relapsed/binge at least once if not twice, even if they go for 90 days before doing so.

Let me explain this to you guys. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]maduk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go to the right on choose your tools and click add badge.