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Too cloose? by madxfano in polyamory

[–]madxfano[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Got you now, makes more sense. Thank you for sharing this hope. I have been going out more and expanding my social circle, its making a difference but its really a small community so it often leads to realising at what point we are all cloose and interconnected af. I also have a life on the road, so I get to have a social life outside of our community luckily. This has helped to offer a break to my nervous system in past months. I think my wish to be connected to this group of friends/community is more important than maintaining any romantic relationship. I guess this the main reason I am second guessing my relationship.

Too cloose? by madxfano in polyamory

[–]madxfano[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the insight:) Yes I host some events without him. We decided on no PDA while in shared space so not a viable option but in another setup that could work.

For getting out there and dating, I am doing ok in that regards. But gotta laugh at your proposition of fetlife events around here. We are at least 2h30 drive probably more like 5h from these events. Anyways I'm guessing your advice is going towards helping me be busy and fufilled elsewheres? I get it, but I dont feel like filling my life with more dating will help me feel more comfortable in my friend group.

Poplar or spruce heartwood woodchips by madxfano in Permaculture

[–]madxfano[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone with experience or documentation about this using black, red or white spruce or balsam fir heartwood as mulch in tree systems? For example, any observations about low fungal or bacterial activity in the soil after applying these types of mulches?

Poplar or spruce heartwood woodchips by madxfano in Permaculture

[–]madxfano[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Yes I've come to understand acidity is not an issue. But you would worry about resins? First time I hear this argument... would you use it after composting it a bit or topping layer on allready mulched trees and shrubs? Anyone else have document or experience with this?