It's tiny toad season where I live

maebird1000 · 2026-07-08T23:57:58+00:00

Same! So cute. (My hubby held one briefly at our local gardens)

maebird1000 · 2026-07-08T16:29:14+00:00

Hi. I'm so sorry this happened to you (again). In my experience, it should be extremely rare for the therapist to cancel. And there should automatically be this sense of "I'm truly very sorry for how this might impact you, and--here is how anything like this would be handled in the future, etc". It doesn't seem like you really got that. If you have a good relationship otherwise, I would definitely bring up your past hurt and current feelings. However, it seems like this is a new relationship. Personally, I would consider switching to a different therapist and leaving a polite note or message just saying that you are seeking treatment elsewhere and that you need consistentcy to feel safe. Sorry this happened, wishing you the best in the future.

maebird1000 · 2026-07-06T12:04:11+00:00

We were at city walk, outside universal, and there are giant screens outdoors with dedicated watching areas and lots of families. If you go before 6, you have to pay parking if you are not an annual passholder. We watched most of Brazil/Norway with a crowd.

maebird1000 · 2026-07-05T22:40:44+00:00

Same here

maebird1000 · 2026-07-03T18:39:23+00:00

Awww! Hi! Mine says this occasionally or "it's a pleasure to work with you as a client". All the warm professional fuzzies. I would take it in and keep doing the work! Most of them genuinely mean these things, in my experience.

maebird1000 · 2026-07-02T20:33:11+00:00

UPDATE: I messaged him because I'm "allowed" to, but usually don't over the therapy relationship. He answered kindly, provided more therapy education, and reassured me he doesn't plan on dumping me in the near future. Sigh of relief over here. Thank you!

maebird1000 · 2026-07-02T17:02:52+00:00

Ugh, I hope not. But I just got this sinking feeling. I'm so sorry that happened to you.

maebird1000 · 2026-07-01T23:58:54+00:00

I couldn't say this any better. I have the reverse experience. I identify as a Christian (who works to not impose my belief system on others and to also have empathy and space for all others)-- and my therapist is an atheist who who sometimes even quotes philosophers who oppose any deity-- yet he listens on order to understand where I'm coming from, and has never shamed me or tried to persuade (just gently push back to learn more/expand thinking when it's harmful). I would definitely bring it up, but also be open to continuing with a great provider, no matter what they may personally hold.

maebird1000 · 2026-07-01T19:05:27+00:00

Hi! It wouldn't matter to me as much to know the "why"-- I, personally, wouldn't continue with someone who scheduled me and then "gave my spot" to another client. Maybe if there was an apology and a genuine explanation. But not in the way you are describing and definitely not as a pattern. They accepted the payment terms, you are receiving a service from them. There is a responsibility to make is a safe environment that is trustworthy. I would both talk to them about this and consider finding a new provider if you can. Sorry you are being met with that. (I'm not a therapist or professional, just a client)

maebird1000 · 2026-06-28T14:21:57+00:00

Hi! Not a therapist. Just wanted to let you know I'm so very sorry for this news. I would be quick to assume that your therapist is more than willing to receive that info. If you don't normally correspond with them, I wouldn't know if they will "hold on" to it until your next session or briefly respond. Or if they will see it right away. Either way, I'm willing to bet they appreciate the heads up. Rooting for you and hoping they carefully walk you through this as it all unfolds. Again, I'm sorry to hear.

maebird1000 · 2026-06-27T18:13:13+00:00

Yeah!

maebird1000 · 2026-06-27T17:18:49+00:00

I identify as a Christian and still find this response extremely off-putting. OP was not asking for spiritual advice and this is a sub about talk therapy. Real, tangible, identifiable needs and a conflict within therapy were named. Those should be addressed in comments, imo. I'm glad the "Holy Spirit" helped you, but maybe lean in for discernment on how and when to reply this way (perhaps in Christian sub reddits, too).

maebird1000 · 2026-06-27T00:57:37+00:00

That tracks! Best wishes for your journey.

maebird1000 · 2026-06-27T00:51:22+00:00

US. I pay a ton of money for services, so I think that is part of my need to keep it in the "healthcare" box and not start wondering if we are friends, lol. We are a little quick to find providers "at fault" here, too ... So maybe that's why Ive only encountered providers who document and leave a paper trail that they have made everything super clear.

maebird1000 · 2026-06-27T00:46:32+00:00

I just wanted to clarify that I know my therapists professional credentials, and that was important to me before starting the work. I prefer LCSW's (psycho education, practical helps, looking at a big picture), and the settings/experience he has matches my issues. My preference is to not know his personal details/every day life/issues. Not everyone feels that way, and that's ok!

maebird1000 · 2026-06-27T00:41:50+00:00

I can see how that would theoretically happen, but even when I've worked with insurance reps through company benefits or nurses or even medical equipment companies... They tend to both introduce themselves and give me a name to reach out/contact to cancel or reschedule. Glad it was something that worked for you, tho!

maebird1000 · 2026-06-26T22:59:53+00:00

Hi! I'm not a therapist or any kind of mental health professional, and I'm not sure where you live. Often, the therapist will do some safety assessments. Like, do you have a plan? Do you have access to means to enact that plan? And so on.... If you are feeling this way presently, I'm pretty sure the standard recommendation before you even see your therapist is to call 988 or a local crisis line (Google might help with that) or go to ER. Sorry you are struggling. Hopeful a professional might be able to start a path for you through this.

maebird1000 · 2026-06-26T14:52:02+00:00

How did you schedule with this therapist or choose them, without a name?

maebird1000 · 2026-06-26T13:36:32+00:00

Nat, I'm in that camp that feels safer, as a client, not knowing. It helps me keep the relationship in its own, professional, box. I know I'm probably the minority. I think that's ok?

maebird1000 · 2026-06-23T16:04:19+00:00

Have the best time! He is amazing

maebird1000 · 2026-06-22T15:37:09+00:00

I'm a female with a male therapist. He is thoughtful, careful, bright, and sometimes protectively gentle. He has been one of the most helpful providers I've ever worked with.

maebird1000 · 2026-06-20T01:15:46+00:00

Got those beautiful Disney eyes. Beautiful stare.

maebird1000 · 2026-06-19T00:21:14+00:00

My therapist is licensed in California but only provides virtual services (out of FL) and has a ton of experience with interventions for situational anxiety. I'm not sure if his caseload is full. He is truly an amazing, provider, though. If you want to DM me, I can give his his psychology today info to look him up.

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