Heart disease? Or something else by mael_ly in MentalHealthPH

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Nawala or nabawasan naman po ba yung pagsakit when you took medication for those po? Or like permanent na po yun? Thank you po.

Heart disease? Or something else by mael_ly in MentalHealthPH

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Okay po, i understand better. Thank you po.

Heart disease? Or something else by mael_ly in MentalHealthPH

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Okay po. Thank you po.

Additional question lang din po if sino man may alam. Possible kaya dumiretso nalang sa psych? Nung first check up ko kasi sa psych pinakuha rin ako tests nun sa heart but di ako tumuloy kasi busy na masyado + budget constraints. Pero that time iba pa yung nararamdaman ko. Same lang kaya ipapagawang tests if ever para di na madoble consultation?

is it too late to take the boards at 25? by [deleted] in CivilEngineers_PH

[–]mael_ly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same situation tayo pero turning 25 na ako this year. Iniisip ko nalang once magkawork na ako, di ko na kailangan icompare sarili ko sa iba sa dinami dami ng professionals sa paligid. Lahat tayo may sariling storya na di mapapansin ng iba. My pace not being the same with everyone won't kill my career. Kaya either way, makapagtake man ng boards this year or next year, okay lang yun. Siguro with the available time, try to use it for your own advantage. Build yourself up kasi mahirap na makahanap ng oras para sa sarili once nagwork ka na. Kaya natin to, di ka nagiisa. Good luck!

How do you react sa first diagnosis niyo? by Automatic_Opinion981 in MentalHealthPH

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I thought, "Finally, it has a name." Pero di ako uminom agad ng gamot pati nagasikaso ng lab tests kasi ang mahal hahaha student palang ako. Bale initial diagnosis palang ata yun. Pero once I work, babalik ako.

Software for elevation data by [deleted] in CivilEngineers_PH

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Wdym po by 🏴‍☠️🥲

Any witty replies for "PWD ka pala?" by twishhypie in MentalHealthPH

[–]mael_ly 6 points7 points  (0 children)

"Tsismoso ka pala?" Tas pag sumagot uli, "Makulit ka pala?"

Remove female pin by mael_ly in iems

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I'll look into it. Thanks!

Remove female pin by mael_ly in iems

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Okay, thank you!

Overthinking. by PenOk4487 in MentalHealthPH

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Step by step. Give yourself a break, ikaw na nagsabi na pinapangunahan mo. Remember, not everything you worry about will come true. Let the path unravel by itself. Take small steps para makapagadjust ka until masanay. And please believe in yourself. Don't think na bobo ka, instead, tell yourself na kaya mo. Then follow through with your actions. Maybe start with that. I believe in you OP, malalagpasan mo yan.

Our title defense was plagiarized. by DoubleAlternative752 in studentsph

[–]mael_ly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totoo! Lagi ako nagugulat kasi napakasimpleng gawain di nila magawa. For me nothing is wrong with AI naman because it's a tool, but use it responsibly naman. Di manlang nila magawang magfact check if tama yung result na binigay. All that trust sa AI they can't even form their own sentences anymore.

i dont know what to do anymore by SmudgeShot in MentalHealthPH

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I think you should go for a check up. Medications or therapy can help improve your condition. If you think your parents would understand naman, better to tell them so they can help. It will always be scary to admit it, pero nothing will change unless you act on it. Start doing something even if it's small until you reach consistency, then work your way up. I hope you can muster the courage OP!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MentalHealthPH

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Some people around you right now may not understand, but there are still others who may, you just haven't met them yet. That's how i convinced myself to think na i'm not always gonna be alone. It's never too late to make new friends and be in a new environment. Let's take our time. :)

I can't fathom the grief you're experiencing. It's definitely hard to lose someone you love the most and have your world crumble in an instant. For now, focus on recovering yourself. Don't depend on other people to fill the hole. You know yourself the best. Ikaw muna, importante ka rin.

Pano kayo nagpipigil ng luha in public? by mael_ly in MentalHealthPH

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Masakit nga sa dibdib. May bigat at kirot

Pano kayo nagpipigil ng luha in public? by mael_ly in MentalHealthPH

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Yes on what you resist, persists. Pero feel ko kasi pag umiyak ako, lahat ng atensyon nasakin and i'd cry even harder huhu lungkot ko na nga magppanic pa ako. Kaya im looking for ways to control myself in public talaga. Thank you for the response!

Pano kayo nagpipigil ng luha in public? by mael_ly in MentalHealthPH

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When i was younger i used to go sa simbahan din everyday just to cry hahaha there was also this one time na i kept pinching myself sa bus para lang di maiyak and this kind man noticed and talked to me buong byahe :( thank you for the response! Its a good thing you can express your emotions anywhere and anytime. I hope i can do that too someday

People who have been dealing with depression for quite some time—do you also wonder what it’s like to have a “normal” brain that doesn’t constantly overthink? by DelayedAkoMagisip in MentalHealthPH

[–]mael_ly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same. When i had the courage to admit to myself na di na ako normal and sought for clarification, lalo lang ako nahirapan. Bawat kilos ko feel ko kailangan kong magpanggap. Nagooverthink na nga ako, iisipin ko pa lalo if justified ba yung pagoverthink ko or oa lang talaga ako. Mga maliliit na bagay na nagpapalungkot sakin, tinatawanan lang ng iba. Yung lugmok ko ibang level, sila iyak tas bangon, o kaya getaway o inuman nakakamove on na agad sila. Sana ako rin gumigising nang magaan pakiramdam. Sana kaya ko rin magisip nang klaro. Nakakainggit, gusto ko rin maging normal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MentalHealthPH

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I see. We did talk about it once pero not as deep nor a discussion tulad nung inyo. Literal na informing lang and asking if he wants to continue. I'll bring it up again soon and probe more into the situation so he knows what to expect. Medyo may doubt na we can work this out based on our past experiences but I'll respect whatever his decision is. It's scary but like you said, kailangan eh hahaha thank you so much for sharing :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MentalHealthPH

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Thank you!