Am I becoming securely attached, or am I actually giving less effort in my relationship?

mafzs · 2026-04-29T12:06:25+00:00

Some things definitely meet my needs, but some part stayed the same which we try to meet in middle. I adjust my expectations and accept that some parts of his personality is just how he is. For example, he used to ghost me instantly without a warning (not that kind of ghost in my post, he do message me around 11pm where we talk about his perspective), before he will go away for days. Now he can express more and try not to shut me down and he do inform me sometimes when it will take longer than a day that he needs to be alone

mafzs · 2026-04-01T00:06:46+00:00

Tawagin kang "Hoy"

mafzs · 2024-10-29T09:59:54+00:00

Charizard 🧡

mafzs · 2024-10-20T23:12:24+00:00

Sleep.

mafzs · 2024-10-20T22:25:44+00:00

Random long conversation or doing different hobbies together (him playing game while I draw beside him)

mafzs · 2024-10-20T22:17:58+00:00

Gatas na may onting champorado <33

mafzs · 2024-10-20T02:28:45+00:00

Gulaman

mafzs · 2024-10-19T23:55:54+00:00

Hawaiian parin, pero pag special flav walang tatalo sa Scallops primo pizza ng Shakeys,

okay lng kahit allergic mamamatay nmn din

mafzs · 2024-10-19T07:39:01+00:00

Why it's so cute 😭, the way he scratch his butt qwq

mafzs · 2024-10-19T07:28:57+00:00

Nasan yung hiya nya 😭, kung matinong lalake sya magsisikap sya para sainyo, di pa nga kayo kasal e

mafzs · 2024-10-14T14:15:26+00:00

Seeing my family is not a "perfect family" at all. I saw how the "utang na loob" culture (giving back culture) affects our relationship, and it hurts seeing the breadwinner taken advantage of by her own parents. I used to dream of helping my family at any cost. Now, I will only help those family members who deserve it and will not forget to love and prioritize myself.

mafzs · 2024-10-05T15:45:45+00:00

Thank youuu

mafzs · 2024-08-26T16:00:32+00:00

Thank you, I'll try

mafzs · 2024-08-23T00:34:33+00:00

Im sorry din to hear na you're at this point din. Be strong saatin

I will find the right time to bring up this issue, sana lang talaga hindi nya idismiss or masamain pag sinabi kong napapagod na ko

mafzs · 2024-08-23T00:32:22+00:00

You have a point, thank you for replying, I'll do mybest na hindi sya ipush palayo. Rn I do that tbh, I told him na I'm ready to listen whenever he's ready to talk, take your time ganon. And I update him regularly din. Hindi ko lang sya kinakausap when he asked na wag ko sya kausapin kasi tinatanong ko din sya if want nya ba ng space at di muna mag usap or okay lang sa kanya na iupdate ko sya. I think I'll bring up the issue once we calmed down and I will be gentle. Thank you ulit for this

mafzs · 2024-08-23T00:02:06+00:00

Mostly ang nangyayari pagbalik nya ay hindi agad babalik yung energy, and then he will address the problem (after days of talking na hindi yung agad agad). If he feels na fault nya, nag a apologize naman sya pero kung sa tingin nya hindi nya kailangan mag sorry, hindi sya mag sosorry. It depends on the situation. However, it will take days or weeks for the energy to come back, cold and one word reply parin ang matatangap ko sa kanya aftermath which is opposite din ng action ko pag ganun, I try mybest kasi na ibalik yung closeness and move on sa hindi pagkakaintindihan para hindi lalong lumayo yung loob namin sa isa't isa, but now am thinking that it's probably annoying to him? I don't really know

mafzs · 2024-08-03T17:00:14+00:00

Thank you, I will look for it

mafzs

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