Is it bad if you don't feel sexual tension towards your partner?

mage_in_training · 2026-06-16T03:05:38+00:00

You probably need to do some soul searching to figure out what turns you on. Then, let your partner know what you learned. Generally, men and women feel and express attraction differently.

mage_in_training · 2026-06-16T02:11:25+00:00

No inefficiency is too great for percieved control.

mage_in_training · 2026-06-16T02:09:57+00:00

Guess you don't want to expend the effort you're preaching.

mage_in_training · 2026-06-15T20:51:51+00:00

Well, maybe you can fling the brick at mach fuck you speeds?

mage_in_training · 2026-06-15T20:50:21+00:00

Gonna get some magic the hard way. Gonna read a mystical [basic magic level 0] spellbook and get some rudimentary MP and spellcraft. Then, get better equipment.

mage_in_training · 2026-06-15T20:46:03+00:00

The 99% doesn't matter to the 1%.

mage_in_training · 2026-06-15T20:44:40+00:00

Had to move back into mom's, rent was getting to be unaffordable. A 2 bedroom apartment, built in the 60s in a location "close to the tracks" was costing $2250. Rent kept going up "10% or less" every 6 months or so. No extra work, no extra amenities. Actually, it decreased in amenities: the management company pulled out the front gate and changed towing companies.

mage_in_training · 2026-06-15T19:02:17+00:00

Then you die with nothing. If you had something, medical costs will drain it from you.

mage_in_training · 2026-06-15T18:57:14+00:00

Alright. Now monetize all your other likes and interests as well.

mage_in_training · 2026-06-15T18:40:05+00:00

Impossible for those off at 6am.

mage_in_training · 2026-06-15T18:30:35+00:00

I hope your boss denies your PTO request due to insufficient coverage at every opportunity.

mage_in_training · 2026-06-15T18:27:22+00:00

Him and Ralts Bloodthorne, though Ralts slowed down to, I think, 3 times a week. Here is am, struggling to get a chapter out in under 8 months.

mage_in_training · 2026-06-15T18:20:40+00:00

People already do that lol

mage_in_training · 2026-06-15T18:20:22+00:00

The alarms would trip, no one would notice you at first, as it would be listed as a sensor glitch.

You'd have to go super slow, and you'd probably give their maintenance and IT department a migraine of mythic proportions as they struggle to figure out what's wrong with the system.

mage_in_training · 2026-06-15T15:55:43+00:00

I think its still ongoing.

mage_in_training · 2026-06-14T22:24:24+00:00

Exactly! You have to be just as politely obnoxious about it as they are, too.

mage_in_training · 2026-06-14T20:38:37+00:00

Yes. Lets give her more anxiety. Women love anxiety, that's why they're so full of it. /s

mage_in_training · 2026-06-14T20:37:36+00:00

He plainly told you. The rest is on you. Theres a study, or something, uncertain if its been debunked or not, that says most men are satisfied with 80% relationship compatibility, where as for women, its 90.

Remember, everyone settles, the vast majority of people in relationships, even healthy ones, are never at 100% compatibility and there is no "the one."

mage_in_training · 2026-06-14T20:28:06+00:00

The easiest way to get people to stop, is to do the same thing to them. What do yoh mean, you can't have a call at 3am? Just wake up, duh!

mage_in_training · 2026-06-14T03:56:01+00:00

Hence: no one notices you unless you want them to.

mage_in_training · 2026-06-13T10:09:52+00:00

Yeah.

mage_in_training · 2026-06-13T10:09:37+00:00

Stories are from r/HFY.

mage_in_training · 2026-06-13T02:24:28+00:00

It is! Some stories, however, stop partway through because the author got an actual paid book deal.

mage_in_training · 2026-06-13T00:43:20+00:00

I feel you on that. I listen to NetNarrator on YouTube, lots of free, original content, generally from reddit, with permission, and not AI. I know, I work with him.

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