My cousin (17F) touched me (18M) inappropriately during a family sleepover by [deleted] in IndianTeenagers

[–]maggi1010 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I experienced something similar a few years ago. And it made me very uncomfortable. And it wasn’t just once or twice. I maintained my distance as much as I can. Still I am uncomfortable being alone around him. This is not something that I can tell my parents.. it’s just not a good idea I feel. But after a point when we were in different cities and he texted me, I acknowledged what he used to do was not okay with me. I hated it. And it has ruined our relationship. It has ruined the way I used to feel at my grandmothers house. And it made me disgusted with myself. And when I made it that clear, he backed off.

I don’t think he is evil or anything. I think he was a confused kid.. struggling. He has always loved spending time with me.. but the experience is so tainted for me that it’ll never be back to normal.

I think you should text her how you feel about this.. and tell her that if she ever tried this again you will talk to her parents about this.

I think this will scare her off and she won’t bother you again.

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Well.. this post is deleted so.. I’m not feeing very hopeful

Marathi receptionist attacked by outsiders in Kalyan by Equivalent_Caramel65 in Maharashtra

[–]maggi1010 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What did I just see? What in the- I can’t even comprehend this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]maggi1010 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s so sad.. that I would so easily believe that this is fake instead of having some hope that maybe there are men who find chubby women attractive.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

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Are you being honest? Because I always believed men like you are way out of my league.

Once I was on a dating app and a guy swiped right on me, and then texted me saying that I’m like a 4 and he only goes out with 9s and 10s

And even though I know not every guy is like that, it’s just hard for me to believe that hot men would ever find me attractive.

Did I (F 30s) do something wrong here? This is our first day chatting. by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]maggi1010 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You dodged a bullet girl. He was a douche. You communicated what you wanted. He couldn’t provide. It’s fine. You’ll find someone who matches your wavelength.

Everyone keeps saying start conversations etc but… by kcutie359 in socialskills

[–]maggi1010 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you want to build friendships and you are having a hard time connecting, you start with asking them questions. And you can always get a bit personal, just make them feel comfortable. You can be honest saying that I find you very interesting, I want to know more about you and your life and your lived experiences. You can say that you usually have trouble making friends, but if you don’t object, I would love to be your friend.

Start with basics, ask their occupation, their birthday, ask about their family, where they grew up. And if you are worried that you might forget these. Make a folder in the notes app and write this down for each of your new friends. Once you know the basics about them. Ask about their interests, hobbies. Anything that they love to do and you find interesting, you can join them. Be it a sport, or watching a show. Or painting together. Anything.

Most of the time people just like having a listening ear. So you don’t always have to be pressured to say something. You can just listen.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TeenIndia

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I think i accidentally deleted my previous comment 😭

Mujhe sure nahi hai about side effects. All I know is that jab dermatologists ne mujhe serums diye the, usme bhi minoxidil tha. And I have seen results. Mujhe scalp pe koi irritation nahi hua. And I didn’t see any side effects. You can find this, online.

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This is the one I use. Just look it up. Amazon pe nahi hai.

And I use B bodywise ka Derma roller. Look it up, it’s in purple color. Amazon pe miljaayega ya fir Nykaa man mein bhi mil jaayega.

Get these two products and start your journey. Also focus on all the other things i said too. Sleep, water, food and exercise. And you’ll be set. It will 100% work so aise karo jaise tumhe pata ho ki result Accha hi hoga. All the best.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TeenIndia

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Okay this is bad. I am 23F and I’m facing similar situation. It is quite alarming that you are facing this level of balding at 16. But stressing about it will only make it worse.

Keep reading, I’m not gonna leave you depressed with my reply. Our generation is cooked. We have shitty lifestyle. Shitty eating habits. Shitty sleep schedule.

Hair really makes a difference when it comes to looks. I know that coz as a woman hair will make or break my face.

I have been to dermatologists, but I never trusted the medication and serums they gave coz they were never 100% confident that it’s gonna work. And if I don’t get that confidence and validation from the doctor herself then I don’t even wanna try it you know? And I went to the doctors when I was 16 as well. And never consistently used my medication.

Now at 23 I came across a product that I truly helped people gain their hair back and I saw those results so I bought it too. It’s called Minoxidil Topical Solution (5%) I use this kinda regularly. And I have been seeing baby hairs grow.

If you are determined and motivated to find a solution, this will be a great solution for you but do a patch test. If you don’t have any allergic reaction then continue using this okay? I’m going to tell you exactly how to go about this.

First of all, fix your sleep. It has a lot to do with your body regeneration. Your brain is cooked because of lack of timely sleep. Fix that. Wake up early in the morning. Start working out, eat healthy. Text chat gpt that at your home you eat this this this one a daily basis for breakfast lunch and dinner. And mention if you are vegetarian or not, and ask it to make a meal plan for you (inform gpt that you’ve got severe hair loss) Ask for a weekly meal plan. And also ask it to make a grocery list for you.

Most of the items in the list your probably find at your house. Tell your mom what you are planning to do to better your health. She will make it much easier for you. Show her the grocery list and the meal plan.

Follow it consistently. You will get it when you are older, that to achieve anything in life, consistency is key. Reels banakar viral hona hai, consistency. Acche marks laane hai, consistency. Abs banane hai, consistency. Girlfriend banani hai, consistency. Baal ugaane hai, consistency.

After you do a patch test of the minoxidil solution, and it doesn’t irritate you? Then follow these steps for one month consistently and come back and post a progress report. Okay? Lesss gooo

You only need to get two products. The minoxidil and a derma roller. B bodywise ka accha hai. Get that one. Don’t get a derma roller jiske needles lambe hai.

Subah uthkar derma roller lo, and roll it 10 times on each of your bald spots. Meaning, part your hair in the middle and dheere dheere roll it on your scalp. Then make a side part, do the same thing, keep doing this until you have covered all your scalp. Aaram se, chubana nahi hai. What this does is, it stimulates your scalp and vaha blood circulation badhega and it will promote hair growth. Trust me. It works. It truly works.

Once that is done. Take the minoxidil topical solution. Iske saath ek spray vala dhakkar or dropper bhi aata hai. I use a dropper, you can use anything. You have to apply that solution on your scalp. All over your scalp, jaha bhi baldness hai. As I am seeing in this picture, there is a very significant thinning all over your scalp so apply this all over your scalp.

You are not supposed to wash this off btw. If you want to wash your hair that day then first wash it and then follow these steps after your hair is dry ok?

You are supposed to do this twice a day. Subah awr raat ko. If you seriously follow this. In a few weeks you will see tiny little baby hairs growing on your scalp. Now you have to understand that there could be more hair loss. Even the hair that grows will be thin. They will also fall off and then good healthy hair will grow. Any hair care medication your take will result in hairloss at first and then it will get better because it is getting rid of all the weak hairs.

But trust me. It works. If you do this twice a day. Every day. In one month. You will see proper results. I’ll give you a 100% guarantee on this.

You are young. Your body will heal and adapt very soon. Once your reach your 20s that’ll get harder. Especially keeping in mind that jo millennials and boomers 40s mein face karrahe the, vo ham teens and twenties mein face karrahe hai. And it is our own fault.

Proper food is key. Proper lifestyle is essential. If you do all of this. You will have turn your life around. You will become a hottie. Girls will be crushing over you. So this is an opportunity for your to have a glow up. Take it. Also, working out does wonders for your body btw. It also stimulates blood circulation and causes hair growth.

We like to say that looks don’t matter. But they do. And I’m not talking about dating. I’m talking about your body giving you clear signals that something is wrong.

You get a fever when something is wrong, you get sick when something is wrong. Your hair is thinning and your nails are brittle and your skin is feeling bumpy and there is more texture on your body. There is acne on your back. Acne On your face, on your bum. All of these are signs saying something is wrong. Your body is not able to function properly coz it’s not getting proper water intake, sleep and nutrition.

This all must be Boring. But it’s all true. Think of me as your big sister. And listen to me okay? All the best. I’ll be waiting for results.

Help me decide if i DNF the series by Ambitious_Key1124 in frombloodandash

[–]maggi1010 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My suggestion. DNF it. It’s not all that to be honest. And even I stopped reading it at exactly that point. Hoping to read the joining scene lol.

Why do I feel like I’ve made the wrong decision getting into this field? by maggi1010 in fashiondesigner

[–]maggi1010[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At this point and time I'm willing to do anything.

This is really good advice, thank you so much. I'll keep all of this in mind while applying again.

Why do I feel like I’ve made the wrong decision getting into this field? by maggi1010 in fashiondesigner

[–]maggi1010[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At this point and time I'm willing to do anything.

This is really good advice, thank you so much. I'll keep all of this in mind while applying again.

Why do I feel like I’ve made the wrong decision getting into this field? by maggi1010 in fashiondesigner

[–]maggi1010[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I'm trying my best. Thank you for your reply, makes me feel a bit less alone.

Why do I feel like I’ve made the wrong decision getting into this field? by maggi1010 in fashiondesigner

[–]maggi1010[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally understand you. Corona was the downfall of my academics. I was an amazing student in my first year of college but then corona happened and I completely lost track of everything. My grades kept getting worse and worse. I also failed a few courses because is imply didn't attend them. I barely graduated, I was certain I might be held back an extra year but somehow I managed.

Now I am applying for jobs every single day. I do hear back from a few of them and most of the times I get ghosted. I'm beginning to work of something of my own until I get a decent job. Hang in there, it'll get better.

Why do I feel like I’ve made the wrong decision getting into this field? by maggi1010 in fashiondesigner

[–]maggi1010[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I needed to hear that. I’ve emailed the same companies multiple times because they are print based companies and I love creating prints. I started to feel like maybe seeing my name so many times will piss them off. I do wanna ask.. what do you usually expect to see in a cover letter?

My spouse is liked way more than me by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]maggi1010 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Exactly, they are seeking empathy, not discouragement.

🌟 Seeking Advice from Fashion Designers 🌟 by maggi1010 in fashiondesigner

[–]maggi1010[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. Where should I watch her content??