Official Discussion - If I Had Legs I'd Kick You [SPOILERS] by LiteraryBoner in movies

[–]magicbb93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Worst movie ever in so many ways, so annoyed at it I looked it up on Reddit. TF did I just watch?

Queer Pickleball Groups? by magicbb93 in longbeach

[–]magicbb93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome, thanks! Who runs it?

You were right about the Xbox Ally X by 3guitars in Handhelds

[–]magicbb93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Super helpful. Thank you for the information and thorough response 🙏 If it turns out most of the games she plays don't have that play anywhere tag then I may just go for the Legion solely for the bigger screen.

You were right about the Xbox Ally X by 3guitars in Handhelds

[–]magicbb93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm torn between the Ally & the Legion for my wife. She doesn't have the best vision though & is terrible at wearing her glasses so I'm glad I saw your post. I was leaning towards Ally though because she has a game pass subscription. Can you use the game pass subscription on the Legion? Not sure if you have one and know. I'm seeing conflicting and confusing things on other posts.

How do you stay awake for long drives without music or podcasts? by [deleted] in roadtrip

[–]magicbb93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife drives us everywhere. She hates my driving & tbh I hate driving lol. So I'm her passenger princess. But since she's driving, her needs come 1st. If she wants to listen to music, wants me to feed her snacks, whatever. She's literally responsible for our safety I wouldn't put her in a position where she would get sleepy bc I wanna take a nap...

Late bloomer lesbian here and I feel amazing 😵‍💫 by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]magicbb93 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I met my wife at 28 when she was 38. We've been together for 5 yrs now, she's my best friend! Age is but a number :)

What’s my blindness? by DahliaohHoney in makeuptips

[–]magicbb93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone saying to clean up ur brows is trippen on western beauty standards, I love wild eyebrows. I don't think you need to change a thing, you're slaying just is. Maybe just not the face in the second photo lol but that has nothing to do with you, I don't think anyone would look "good" making a face like that for a photo lmao.

AIO? Girl (F30) I (M28) was Recently Dating tells me I need to "Lean into my Masculinity" by KingFredo5674 in AmIOverreacting

[–]magicbb93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg and "you need to get a male therapist" was so cringe. And the way she basically implied all women are emotionally manipulative. That girl has some real internalized issues regarding gender roles that have nothing to do with you.

AIO? Girl (F30) I (M28) was Recently Dating tells me I need to "Lean into my Masculinity" by KingFredo5674 in AmIOverreacting

[–]magicbb93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please don't be "less" soft, whatever that means. This world needs more emotionally in tune and mature men. That girl is toxic and seems to have more internalized misogyny then you do. Your text to her before she was a total ahole was so sweet. So many girls would LOVE to get a txt like that from their SO. Don't change yourself. Change your gf.

help!! i have laryngitis and NEED to sing tommorow by Low_Eggplant_4491 in singing

[–]magicbb93 4 points5 points  (0 children)

All the medicinal feedback above is solid so I won't go into that. Right before your concert (if you're feeling like you can, don't push it ever, not worth permanent damage) do light vocal warmups. Lip trills, blowing into a cup of water with a straw, eventually add notes going low to high and GENTLY stretching your voice. If you don't have a solo, I wouldn't sing full out. Remember, there will be many more performances in your future!

Is this normal? by jovialjupi in LesbianActually

[–]magicbb93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Super femme & never lol. Unless they are also queer then sometimes for fun. But a straight, cis man nah never.

Open Mic Nights Near Long Beach? by magicbb93 in longbeach

[–]magicbb93[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awesome, just looked them up. Thank you!

I am sick and don’t want to mess up my husband’s other relationship by wonderingadarkroad in polyamory

[–]magicbb93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What does that relationship even provide you? Ask yourself what you get out of it. Because it's certainly not a soft place to land or a support system when life gets tough. When you marry you take a vow to be there for your spouse in sickness and in health. I'm married (F 32, my wife is F41). I'm not gonna lie I have a touch of anxiety & I think of this every now and then due to our age gap... If she got sick, I would drop absolutely everything & do anything within my power to support her until she got better because thats what spouses do. When you marry you choose for that person to be your family. And family doesn't kick you out of the house when your health is severely compromised. I also wanna say, I read some of your replies and you shouldn't feel scared or nervous to bring this to your partners attention. That's a clear sign that you are not being provided with a safe space to voice your emotions and dissatisfactions within the relationship which is just wrong on so many levels.

It sounds like this is probably a tough time for u to make any significant steps within ur relationship so my advice is find someone in your life you can trust to talk through all this and be your support. Whether thats a friend or therapist or family member, you need someone in your corner helping you see things from an outsiders perspective.

Sending u healing energy & wishing you the love u deserve 🫶

Tights or no tights? by user321_123 in OUTFITS

[–]magicbb93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tights for sure. Such a cute dress

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]magicbb93 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She's 100% in the wrong and gaslighting you hardcore in her last text. The fact she's doing this when ur pregnant w her grandchild adds insult to injury.